Matt 🏳️🌈
@pwhinge.bsky.social
🏳️🌈👨🏻🤝👨🏼 | Essex | data geek | nerdy homo | afol (Lego) | dog parent | whovian | gin guzzler | self care | mental health | LGBTQIA+
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The face / the scent
November 9, 2025 at 9:28 AM
The face / the scent
This was not what I thought it would be, exceptionally dark but utterly superb!
Twinless (2025), written and directed by James Sweeney boxd.it/LkKc
Twinless (2025)
Two young men meet in a twin bereavement support group and form an unlikely bromance.
boxd.it
November 8, 2025 at 11:33 PM
This was not what I thought it would be, exceptionally dark but utterly superb!
Spent the morning finishing the last of the Wayward Pines books in bed, now post-bacon roll, Christmas shopping & watching quiz shows. Off to the village fireworks display later. Chilled Saturday
a penguin is laying on a pink pillow with the words relax below it
ALT: a penguin is laying on a pink pillow with the words relax below it
media.tenor.com
November 8, 2025 at 11:49 AM
Spent the morning finishing the last of the Wayward Pines books in bed, now post-bacon roll, Christmas shopping & watching quiz shows. Off to the village fireworks display later. Chilled Saturday
Oldest selfie on your phone
Not really a selfie, but the oldest pic I have (October 2006, explains the hair 🤣)
Not really a selfie, but the oldest pic I have (October 2006, explains the hair 🤣)
November 8, 2025 at 11:47 AM
Oldest selfie on your phone
Not really a selfie, but the oldest pic I have (October 2006, explains the hair 🤣)
Not really a selfie, but the oldest pic I have (October 2006, explains the hair 🤣)
I decided to wrap up Friday at work by firing off a load of angry (yet 100% professional) emails for people who’d already buggered off for the weekend. Enjoy you Monday inboxes bitches 😂😂😂
November 7, 2025 at 5:37 PM
I decided to wrap up Friday at work by firing off a load of angry (yet 100% professional) emails for people who’d already buggered off for the weekend. Enjoy you Monday inboxes bitches 😂😂😂
Ru seems bored, and I have to agree #DragRaceUK
November 6, 2025 at 10:04 PM
Ru seems bored, and I have to agree #DragRaceUK
Thanks John Lewis for actually putting a banger in the Christmas ad for once. Does this now make it a Christmas song?!
November 5, 2025 at 6:45 PM
Thanks John Lewis for actually putting a banger in the Christmas ad for once. Does this now make it a Christmas song?!
In-person, all day meetings are completely pointless. Repetition of topics, circular conversations, overrunning sessions, not to mention the time to commute to a “central” location for staff spread across 6 counties. 85% of the content could have been an email
November 5, 2025 at 5:25 PM
In-person, all day meetings are completely pointless. Repetition of topics, circular conversations, overrunning sessions, not to mention the time to commute to a “central” location for staff spread across 6 counties. 85% of the content could have been an email
So today I had to tell my team that 1 of them (4 people in my team) will be made redundant before Christmas, I’ve been on and off calls all day with them in tears. Timing is atrocious and a horrible decision to have to make. Send hugs
This week is going to suck, can’t be fixed by positive thinking or distractions. It’s just going to suck
November 4, 2025 at 5:19 PM
So today I had to tell my team that 1 of them (4 people in my team) will be made redundant before Christmas, I’ve been on and off calls all day with them in tears. Timing is atrocious and a horrible decision to have to make. Send hugs
This week is going to suck, can’t be fixed by positive thinking or distractions. It’s just going to suck
November 3, 2025 at 5:47 PM
This week is going to suck, can’t be fixed by positive thinking or distractions. It’s just going to suck
Drinks with the bestie. Honestly a fucking weird evening. Never had so many instances of people pushing boundaries
November 2, 2025 at 1:23 AM
Drinks with the bestie. Honestly a fucking weird evening. Never had so many instances of people pushing boundaries
Drinking this evening for the first time in two weeks, my liver has needed this long to recover after Chester. But I feel gin o’clock rapidly approaching
spongebob squarepants is smiling and holding a shovel in his hand
ALT: spongebob squarepants is smiling and holding a shovel in his hand
media.tenor.com
November 1, 2025 at 2:51 PM
Drinking this evening for the first time in two weeks, my liver has needed this long to recover after Chester. But I feel gin o’clock rapidly approaching
Without question (closely followed by I Swear)
November 1, 2025 at 11:42 AM
Without question (closely followed by I Swear)
A movie you’ve seen more than 7 times with a gif.
November 1, 2025 at 10:37 AM
A movie you’ve seen more than 7 times with a gif.
Happy “Pigs in Blankets” season for everyone who celebrates. Yes they are now acceptable as a snack and side dish (to any meal)
November 1, 2025 at 10:14 AM
Happy “Pigs in Blankets” season for everyone who celebrates. Yes they are now acceptable as a snack and side dish (to any meal)
So it’s 1st November now, that means it’s #Christmas right?!
November 1, 2025 at 1:04 AM
So it’s 1st November now, that means it’s #Christmas right?!
Wrong choice, I know the lip sync was weak, but, wrong… #DragRaceUK
October 30, 2025 at 10:09 PM
Wrong choice, I know the lip sync was weak, but, wrong… #DragRaceUK
Feels like it should be Friday, but it’s not… 😭😭😭
October 30, 2025 at 8:03 AM
Feels like it should be Friday, but it’s not… 😭😭😭
Slow Horses is just perfection, I’m tempted to read the books.
a man and a woman are sitting in a car with the words `` but they are my losers '' .
ALT: a man and a woman are sitting in a car with the words `` but they are my losers '' .
media.tenor.com
October 29, 2025 at 11:46 PM
Slow Horses is just perfection, I’m tempted to read the books.
Previously I’ve been criticised at work for being “too focused on the detail”, it aggravates me every single time. I’m the Data Quality Manager, being “focused on the detail” is LITERALLY my job 🤬🤬
October 29, 2025 at 6:13 PM
Previously I’ve been criticised at work for being “too focused on the detail”, it aggravates me every single time. I’m the Data Quality Manager, being “focused on the detail” is LITERALLY my job 🤬🤬
18 months I’ve been trying to get something done at work, I’m so close, but now someone throws a spanner in the works as they don’t think it’s their job and there’s not a service desk ticket. Working with other IT people is infuriating
a man is holding a white pillow in his mouth
ALT: a man is holding a white pillow in his mouth
media.tenor.com
October 29, 2025 at 2:23 PM
18 months I’ve been trying to get something done at work, I’m so close, but now someone throws a spanner in the works as they don’t think it’s their job and there’s not a service desk ticket. Working with other IT people is infuriating
Logging on every morning (work and just life in general)
a sign that says what is even happening on it
ALT: a sign that says what is even happening on it
media.tenor.com
October 29, 2025 at 8:35 AM
Logging on every morning (work and just life in general)
Queer BlueSky: how old were you when you came out and how old are you now?
It was a process, friends knew I was gay from 18 (probably even before I did), wasn’t out to family & work until I was 24 after I met my now husband. I’m now 43
It was a process, friends knew I was gay from 18 (probably even before I did), wasn’t out to family & work until I was 24 after I met my now husband. I’m now 43
Queer BlueSky: how old were you when you came out and how old are you now?
I started the process when I was 30, and I’m 43 now.
I started the process when I was 30, and I’m 43 now.
Queer BlueSky: how old were you when you came out and how old are you now?
I was 30 when i started coming out to people. I’m 37.
I was 30 when i started coming out to people. I’m 37.
October 28, 2025 at 7:38 PM
Queer BlueSky: how old were you when you came out and how old are you now?
It was a process, friends knew I was gay from 18 (probably even before I did), wasn’t out to family & work until I was 24 after I met my now husband. I’m now 43
It was a process, friends knew I was gay from 18 (probably even before I did), wasn’t out to family & work until I was 24 after I met my now husband. I’m now 43