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Sarah
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Solo mum of 6, complex needs TA, jnr parkrun director. Run a bit, swim a bit, trying to stay sane whilst navigating SEND system. Neurodivergent family. Norwich #legorunbuddy
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Chilly chilly swim this morning, but felt amazing. Still jumping in the river and not got any neoprene out yet, but my toes were frozen after. Water temp 10° , air temp feels like 3°. Glorious #wildswim #swimtounwind #dailyjoy #dothecrazythings #livelife
River was 10° in Norwich this morning, but the air temp was feels like 3°! Colder out than in, felt glorious.
The smugness of a runner thats got 10,000 steps done before 6:30am. I cant check off my ten minutes of sunlight yet though 😂 and having to use my headtorch in the house rather than turn on lights & risk waking kids. #running2keepthecrazyaway #legorunbuddy #legorunkitten #running #morningmiles #smug
Repeatedly dont communicate & punish a child for things out of their control. A child praised as model pupil, polite, perfectionist, terrified of getting a 'negative' struggling with overwhelm, mental health. Simple adaptations would help 'but policy'. & now a child who no longer trusts the adults.
One occasion this has happened. Different staff saying different things to child despite me having it in email what has been agreed. I Give schools benefit of doubt. Back them up, but a child that school have reported their concerns re MH. They know complexities of home life currently & yet they
Attended a meeting. Actually I had, & then the follow up I requested to be TEAMS due to caring responsibilities. The asst head agreed. I had it in email. They then didnt organise the TEAMS meeting. My child was removed from leason to be placed in 'remove'. Apparently miscommunication. On more than
I would love it if your experience was true Ben. But my experience with a child with MH issues in a large academy trust is that they are in these rooms for whole days for minor reasons & often in error. Poor communication ie school saying my child had to be in remove because I as parent hadn't
Ughh the plan was a run then a river swim between 5:30-7:30am this morning. As a general rule I always say no such thing as bad weather, just choose the right clothes. However not sure I fancy the cycle to the river in the rain AND wind. Actually may go back to bed... #running #wildswim 😬
5:25am. Literally get up, get dressed, toilet, inhalers, feed kittens & out the door without thinking about it. Kit laid out night before, just do it, dont think about it! Always a diet coke for the caffeine post run.
Sadly there will be no nap because children... but I have sat with a cup of tea & started new book club book.. have to read it by Saturday 😬
Wow... so much to unpick and a WHOLE other world.
I shall repost a second time - that poor child! I also feel sorry for the older one written off at 5 years.
There's a whole other world out there: www.tes.com/jobs/vacancy...
Up and out by 5:50am. Run, walk, strength, showered & all the household jobs done. I have even pre hand washed a jumper that I got oil on so it doesn't stain. At this point in the day I am winning. Can I go back to bed now? 😂 #running2keepthecrazyaway #forgotlegorunbuddy #running #keepgoing #flower
Better late than never, an easy four miles and then 20 mins of yoga before bed. Tested out part of a new running route as one of my running friends has moved house so we cant do our usual route together. #running2keepthecrazyaway #legorunbuddy #legorunkitten #running #easyeveningrun #keepgoing
Haven't been out for a run.. yet.... have done pilates and submitted the whole new evidence bundle for tribunal that was cancelled and is now re scheduled. So over adulting, but look what small made today! My bit of #dailyjoy #pumpkins #Halloween #alternativeprovision #LapwingEducation
Short and sweet 2 mile run before bed after a day feeling rubbish & tackling hideous admin. Finding a bit of joy with candles at dinner, Bobbles was quite taken by them too. Tomorrow is another day. #running2keepthecrazyaway #legorunbuddy #running #somethingisbetterthannothing
My loss in wages but more importantly a child has missed over a yr of education & continuing to have minimal provision. My situation isnt remotely unusual, & have the advantage of education in navigating the system. The harm, stress,emotional exhaustion & finacial hardship its causing is huge.
Before hearing as LA didnt submit working document. So after a yr waiting, now we have another 6 mths until rescheduled hearing. The system is broken but LA's need to be held accountable for not meeting legal duties. Our EHCP took over 40 weeks & LA offered £700 compensation which is nothing near
Yep had to put diagnostic assessment on credit card, 4 yrs & waiting on NHS. A yr of no provision, part time before that meaning I had to reduce working hours & currently cant work at all, leaving me reliant on UC, DLA as a solo parent. Now diagnosed with complex needs, but tribunal cancelled 3 days
Diagnosis process its about understanding myself. Realising I dont have to be so hard on myself & understanding why I have faced the challenges I have. It doesn't change me but does help me with my own strategies. It also does offer some protection in terms of discrimination & Equality Act etc.
Yep my 17 yr old is much happier now he understands himself & his interactions with the world. For my 9yr old that 'label' autistic, PDA is absolutely crucial in getting education & in understanding & knowing the right ways to support & communicate with him. For myself as an adult going through the
Kitten trapped. Bobbles snuggled in my armpit first, but then Misty came along & wriggled in. She even looks smug about shoving Bob out the way in her sleep 😂 #kittensofbluesky ##kittensofjoy #blackcats #siblings #dailyjoy
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