SN Désirée Cha
@sndesireecha.bsky.social
lightning + foam /she.hers/ writer. cis femme
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SN Désirée Cha
@sndesireecha.bsky.social
· Dec 31
Esmé, you will not come with me into the new year. But earlier today I heard—clear as a bell—your bark. I was not asleep. Thank you for visiting me. I love you forever.
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Nightmare fuel. These are the people who abused me and my ESA dog companion, Esmé when we were trapped there from 9/28-morning of 11/15.
December 6, 2025 at 5:36 PM
Nightmare fuel. These are the people who abused me and my ESA dog companion, Esmé when we were trapped there from 9/28-morning of 11/15.
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Know that Discord is not safer for survivors. I blocked an abuser on that site and they can still read all of my posts even after I blocked them. Discord needs to do far, far better.
Predatory men make predatory tech.
#BelieveSurvivors
Predatory men make predatory tech.
#BelieveSurvivors
November 12, 2025 at 5:31 PM
Know that Discord is not safer for survivors. I blocked an abuser on that site and they can still read all of my posts even after I blocked them. Discord needs to do far, far better.
Predatory men make predatory tech.
#BelieveSurvivors
Predatory men make predatory tech.
#BelieveSurvivors
“we care about safety”
meanwhile, you block ppl who enacted DV and accelerated and caused untimely demise of your ESA dog companion and they can still see your posts in a shared server.
predatory men will make predatory tech. rinse, repeat.
meanwhile, you block ppl who enacted DV and accelerated and caused untimely demise of your ESA dog companion and they can still see your posts in a shared server.
predatory men will make predatory tech. rinse, repeat.
Discord will require a face scan or ID for full access next month - all accounts set to "teen-appropriate experience" by default www.theverge.com/tech/875309/...
discord.com/press-releas...
discord.com/press-releas...
February 9, 2026 at 4:03 PM
“we care about safety”
meanwhile, you block ppl who enacted DV and accelerated and caused untimely demise of your ESA dog companion and they can still see your posts in a shared server.
predatory men will make predatory tech. rinse, repeat.
meanwhile, you block ppl who enacted DV and accelerated and caused untimely demise of your ESA dog companion and they can still see your posts in a shared server.
predatory men will make predatory tech. rinse, repeat.
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Please help Désirée! #MutualAid #HelpSky
it’s free to share and repost.
please support a queer woman of color survivor & immigrant get housed.
it’s bitterly cold outside. cars aren’t meant for living in.
hoping to raise $5K to get & stay indoors.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/0d99e6f01
please support a queer woman of color survivor & immigrant get housed.
it’s bitterly cold outside. cars aren’t meant for living in.
hoping to raise $5K to get & stay indoors.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/0d99e6f01
February 9, 2026 at 7:18 AM
Please help Désirée! #MutualAid #HelpSky
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children are an oppressed class. Operation Babylift. Internment. Sixties Scoop. Indigenous boarding schools from 1776 on.
detention of immigrant or Indigenous children has been happening under Biden, Obama, Clinton. Lincoln. Washington. Jefferson. the policy is child torture. it is law.
weep. act.
detention of immigrant or Indigenous children has been happening under Biden, Obama, Clinton. Lincoln. Washington. Jefferson. the policy is child torture. it is law.
weep. act.
The 5-year-old arrested by ICE In Minnesota is detained at Dilley. We reported on conditions there in the below article.
Parents said the food was contaminated with mold and worms & that children were so under so much stress that they were hitting their own faces & wetting themselves.
Parents said the food was contaminated with mold and worms & that children were so under so much stress that they were hitting their own faces & wetting themselves.
Analysis by The Marshall Project of ICE data obtained by the Deportation Data Project found that the Trump administration’s revival of family detention has swept thousands of children into ICE custody. At least 3,800 children under 18, including 20 infants, have been booked since Trump took office.
January 25, 2026 at 4:09 PM
children are an oppressed class. Operation Babylift. Internment. Sixties Scoop. Indigenous boarding schools from 1776 on.
detention of immigrant or Indigenous children has been happening under Biden, Obama, Clinton. Lincoln. Washington. Jefferson. the policy is child torture. it is law.
weep. act.
detention of immigrant or Indigenous children has been happening under Biden, Obama, Clinton. Lincoln. Washington. Jefferson. the policy is child torture. it is law.
weep. act.
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mutual aid is disability justice.
on track for grad school apps (deadline 2/1).
job-hunting since Feb ‘25. temp paid gig April-Jun ‘25. temp stay ends 1/31.
it took 5 months to get car title. poverty means waiting.
thank you. please look out for each other.
V SNDesiree
V $SNDesiree
i miss Esmé
on track for grad school apps (deadline 2/1).
job-hunting since Feb ‘25. temp paid gig April-Jun ‘25. temp stay ends 1/31.
it took 5 months to get car title. poverty means waiting.
thank you. please look out for each other.
V SNDesiree
V $SNDesiree
i miss Esmé
Donate to Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness, organized by Sam Dylan Finch
Dear community,
The story of what my friend has endured i… Sam Dylan Finch needs your support for Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness
gofund.me
January 28, 2026 at 1:24 AM
mutual aid is disability justice.
on track for grad school apps (deadline 2/1).
job-hunting since Feb ‘25. temp paid gig April-Jun ‘25. temp stay ends 1/31.
it took 5 months to get car title. poverty means waiting.
thank you. please look out for each other.
V SNDesiree
V $SNDesiree
i miss Esmé
on track for grad school apps (deadline 2/1).
job-hunting since Feb ‘25. temp paid gig April-Jun ‘25. temp stay ends 1/31.
it took 5 months to get car title. poverty means waiting.
thank you. please look out for each other.
V SNDesiree
V $SNDesiree
i miss Esmé
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10 weeks since Esmé died.
February 7, 2026 at 6:51 PM
10 weeks since Esmé died.
it’s hard to relax or feel safe
February 9, 2026 at 5:45 AM
it’s hard to relax or feel safe
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i'm homeless and need to drive 200 miles roundtrip to pick up an RX at the nearest Costco to me.
i don't have health insurance and the Costco membership pays for itself with the pharmacy costs. a generic of the same medication at Walgreens is $1 a pill. a 90-day supply at Costco is ~$20.
i don't have health insurance and the Costco membership pays for itself with the pharmacy costs. a generic of the same medication at Walgreens is $1 a pill. a 90-day supply at Costco is ~$20.
February 8, 2026 at 8:36 PM
i'm homeless and need to drive 200 miles roundtrip to pick up an RX at the nearest Costco to me.
i don't have health insurance and the Costco membership pays for itself with the pharmacy costs. a generic of the same medication at Walgreens is $1 a pill. a 90-day supply at Costco is ~$20.
i don't have health insurance and the Costco membership pays for itself with the pharmacy costs. a generic of the same medication at Walgreens is $1 a pill. a 90-day supply at Costco is ~$20.
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it’s free to share and repost.
please support a queer woman of color survivor & immigrant get housed.
it’s bitterly cold outside. cars aren’t meant for living in.
hoping to raise $5K to get & stay indoors.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/0d99e6f01
please support a queer woman of color survivor & immigrant get housed.
it’s bitterly cold outside. cars aren’t meant for living in.
hoping to raise $5K to get & stay indoors.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/0d99e6f01
February 7, 2026 at 6:28 PM
it’s free to share and repost.
please support a queer woman of color survivor & immigrant get housed.
it’s bitterly cold outside. cars aren’t meant for living in.
hoping to raise $5K to get & stay indoors.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/0d99e6f01
please support a queer woman of color survivor & immigrant get housed.
it’s bitterly cold outside. cars aren’t meant for living in.
hoping to raise $5K to get & stay indoors.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/0d99e6f01
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She would have wanted you to succeed, here or not... Make her proud, okay ?
January 30, 2026 at 3:00 AM
She would have wanted you to succeed, here or not... Make her proud, okay ?
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my dog learning to type:
we should just ban all doorbells until we figure out what is going on
February 9, 2026 at 2:13 AM
my dog learning to type:
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it’s been nearly a week since the last donation. please consider boosting and helping this year-old fundraiser finally meet its goal. it’s only 68% there.
sharing is free.
homeless in winter.
survival depends on mutual aid.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/78aefc5a8
sharing is free.
homeless in winter.
survival depends on mutual aid.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/78aefc5a8
February 6, 2026 at 10:33 AM
it’s been nearly a week since the last donation. please consider boosting and helping this year-old fundraiser finally meet its goal. it’s only 68% there.
sharing is free.
homeless in winter.
survival depends on mutual aid.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/78aefc5a8
sharing is free.
homeless in winter.
survival depends on mutual aid.
V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/78aefc5a8
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hatred of unhoused people is genuinely a pipeline to fascism. if the wealthy can get you to dehumanize your own neighbors, then they can get you to do it to anyone.
February 8, 2026 at 2:00 PM
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these abusers—whose DV i fled in mid-Nov weeks before Esmé the ESA dog's untimely death due to their abuse—offered a couch. i initially declined.
before i arrived, they asked me if:
* Esmé had fleas
* i was an alcoholic
the violence and assumptions of yt owning class people.
before i arrived, they asked me if:
* Esmé had fleas
* i was an alcoholic
the violence and assumptions of yt owning class people.
This is the screaming from the abuser Karen Traite that exacerbated the heart failure of my medically fragile ESA dog, whom they knew had a grade 4 heart murmur and heart disease before we began staying with them (Joe Levy; Karen Traite)
video from 11/04/25 attack.
video from 11/04/25 attack.
February 8, 2026 at 8:44 PM
these abusers—whose DV i fled in mid-Nov weeks before Esmé the ESA dog's untimely death due to their abuse—offered a couch. i initially declined.
before i arrived, they asked me if:
* Esmé had fleas
* i was an alcoholic
the violence and assumptions of yt owning class people.
before i arrived, they asked me if:
* Esmé had fleas
* i was an alcoholic
the violence and assumptions of yt owning class people.
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please look at this beautiful oak tree. thank you.
January 30, 2026 at 1:19 AM
please look at this beautiful oak tree. thank you.
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we often forget that the story of transracial, international adoption is also one of migration.
January 12, 2026 at 5:33 AM
we often forget that the story of transracial, international adoption is also one of migration.
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Respondents said "the prospect of finding a job if unemployed was the worst since the report began in 2013."
@reuters.com #NYFed
www.reuters.com/business/us-...
@reuters.com #NYFed
www.reuters.com/business/us-...
US consumers more worried about job market in December, New York Fed report says
Americans grew more worried about the job market in December even as anxieties over personal finances faded, while near-term inflation expectations increased, a report from the New York Federal Reserv...
www.reuters.com
January 8, 2026 at 4:49 PM
Respondents said "the prospect of finding a job if unemployed was the worst since the report began in 2013."
@reuters.com #NYFed
www.reuters.com/business/us-...
@reuters.com #NYFed
www.reuters.com/business/us-...
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when someone—human or nonhuman—dies, one of the worst parts is the missing. missing the ability to make new memories with them.
may all who grieve be comforted. may all who suffer transform it into creation and connection. may all things be protected and safe.
moreover, ICE must be destroyed
may all who grieve be comforted. may all who suffer transform it into creation and connection. may all things be protected and safe.
moreover, ICE must be destroyed
January 24, 2026 at 7:48 PM
when someone—human or nonhuman—dies, one of the worst parts is the missing. missing the ability to make new memories with them.
may all who grieve be comforted. may all who suffer transform it into creation and connection. may all things be protected and safe.
moreover, ICE must be destroyed
may all who grieve be comforted. may all who suffer transform it into creation and connection. may all things be protected and safe.
moreover, ICE must be destroyed
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Sometimes all you can do is make the world 0.0000000000001% less awful by being a good person and it feels very meaningless but it’s also the only thing that really matters
January 7, 2026 at 7:49 PM
Sometimes all you can do is make the world 0.0000000000001% less awful by being a good person and it feels very meaningless but it’s also the only thing that really matters
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#mutualaid means digging deep and helping community members survive.
come on, folks-- PLEASE #donate.
also #boost this post far & wide. 🙏💸🫶
come on, folks-- PLEASE #donate.
also #boost this post far & wide. 🙏💸🫶
Some of the worst harms I’ve experienced in the past five years happened when I was homeless, and continue to happen now.
Please.
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Please.
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December 22, 2025 at 7:17 PM
#mutualaid means digging deep and helping community members survive.
come on, folks-- PLEASE #donate.
also #boost this post far & wide. 🙏💸🫶
come on, folks-- PLEASE #donate.
also #boost this post far & wide. 🙏💸🫶
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‼️ URGENT ‼️
please help désirée remain housed by donating and/or sharing before january 31st.
💕💸💞
please help désirée remain housed by donating and/or sharing before january 31st.
💕💸💞
January 11, 2026 at 2:06 AM
‼️ URGENT ‼️
please help désirée remain housed by donating and/or sharing before january 31st.
💕💸💞
please help désirée remain housed by donating and/or sharing before january 31st.
💕💸💞
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Like people really put up a mutual aid post on the internet because it feels great to be called lazy scammers. No, doo-doo heads, people hate putting those posts up & they do it because that's their option to survive.
December 25, 2025 at 6:52 PM
Like people really put up a mutual aid post on the internet because it feels great to be called lazy scammers. No, doo-doo heads, people hate putting those posts up & they do it because that's their option to survive.
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"New data released Thursday show U.S. layoffs rose in January to their highest level since the Great Recession of 2009. According to the firm Challenger, Gray & Christmas, U.S. employers announced more than 108,000 layoffs last month — up 205% from the previous month."
U.S. Economy Shed 108,435 Jobs in January, Worst Month Since 2009 Recession
New data released Thursday show U.S. layoffs rose in January to their highest level since the Great Recession of 2009. According to the firm Challenger, Gray & Christmas, U.S. employers announced more...
www.democracynow.org
February 6, 2026 at 8:59 PM
"New data released Thursday show U.S. layoffs rose in January to their highest level since the Great Recession of 2009. According to the firm Challenger, Gray & Christmas, U.S. employers announced more than 108,000 layoffs last month — up 205% from the previous month."