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gardenia 🌱 tired and not doing great
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any pronouns | tme | 28 | mixed Black/white | twitch.tv/stemmonade | 🔞 | 💞 @helix-backdash.bsky.social | icon by @shamisashimi.bsky.social | @thedc3.bsky.social, @fruitiesteam.bsky.social + @officialpjparty.bsky.social member
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🌼 gardenia | any prns / neos encouraged (check bio)
🌼27
🌼 mixed Black+white tme nb bisexual
🌼 disabled (AUDHD, OCD, polyfrag DID, EDS + more)
🌼 low-spoons, low-tech variety streams
🌼 puppy pngtuber + let's player
🌼 stemmonade p much everywhere!
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STUCK AT $25/$1,500!!

NO MOVEMENT IN A WEEK!!

I FACE EVICTION AGAIN IN THREE DAYS!!

I HAVE CRITICAL BILLS DUE RIGHT NOW!!

I NEED TO ORDER FOOD AND HYGIENE SUPPLIES!!

I CANNOT AFFORD TO FACE BEING LATE AGAIN!!

PLEASE HELP IF YOU CAN!!

💸💕 🙏🏿🙏🏿🆘🚨🆘
January 14, 2026 at 5:12 AM
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JAN. 13th & 14th | 2026
#MutualAid🧵:

Please feel free to post your mutual aid links below & I will repost each one of them! 💕

ALT text your images!

Don't forget to add 💸💕 to your MA posts & 🍉 on Palestinian MA boosts.

Love y'all,
☃️Noah
January 13, 2026 at 2:22 PM
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it's #PortfolioDay apparently? hi, i'm Eskie, a TRPG writer/designer and freelance artist!

you can check out some of my work and reach out to hire me at skcb.carrd.co
January 14, 2026 at 2:56 AM
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Weekly Mutual Aid Thread 29
1/13/26 - 01/18/26

If you have a need please post it below, and don't forget to check out our subthreads!

As always, questions and feedback are welcome.

#MutualAid #TransSupportMA #DisabilitySupportMA #LGBTQ+VictimsMA #LGBTQIA+ArtistsMA
January 13, 2026 at 11:30 PM
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ty for all the support! i was able to get groceries n food for my kitten; i also need to restock on my wife's medications, and need to raise another $30 to cover it. please help if u can 🙇🏼 #BIPOCMA #MAV #MutualAidSky 💸💕 bsky.app/profile/stem...
January 13, 2026 at 9:08 PM
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ty for all the support! i was able to get groceries n food for my kitten; i also need to restock on my wife's medications, and need to raise another $30 to cover it. please help if u can 🙇🏼 #BIPOCMA #MAV #MutualAidSky 💸💕 bsky.app/profile/stem...
replying to this tweet w my n my wife's support links, we are reliant on mutual aid to stay afloat, anything helps 💸💕🏳️‍⚧️
paypal.me/stemmonade
venmo.com/u/stemmonade
cash.app/$stemmonade
ko-fi.com/stemmonade
patreon.com/stemmonade
www.amazon.com/registries/g...
throne.com/stemmonade
January 13, 2026 at 11:16 PM
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please go through this thread and share if you can’t donate.

and if you don’t like to share mutual aid posts for “aesthetics” (more like assthetics) the least you can do is donate whatever is possible to you. though in my experience assholes like you can afford more than most people

👁️
Mutual Aid Void Thread for week of 01/12/26!

Post your mutual aid needs below! Please post once and bump!

Focus on RSing people out of thread.

Use alt text or put “alt4me” in replies if using an img!

Use 💕💸 or 💸💕 in post to show up in the Mutual Aid Void feed!

💕💸
💕💸🍉 (Gaza feed only!)
🖤🧡
💕💸🏳️‍⚧️
January 12, 2026 at 11:27 PM
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This is about survival and gaining stability to be able to start prioritizing my health, happiness and a road to receiving gender affirming care.

We have raised $347 currently. If you are able to donate and/or reshare, I would be so grateful. ⤵️
Hi! I'm Stephen (they/them), I am a disabled trans person struggling with debt after years of instability. I need help to raise funds for housing, dental care & Insurance debt. My first goal is to reach $2,600.

Please donate or share to help rebuild stability for me -> gofund.me/15b29ba01
January 10, 2026 at 8:19 PM
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It is very important that I get support in getting this covered to avoid eviction. Please help if you can! Thank you so much!

Goal: $1,290
Due: 01/15

CA: $Misstresspeach14
V: cmd1994
Paypal/Kofi: cheymodee

GFM in comments (2/3)
January 12, 2026 at 9:56 PM
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escaping abuse requires consistent, communal effort!!! please dont let them navigate this alone! the sooner this is raised, the sooner safe housing can be obtained!!! MONIED PPL NEED TO DONATE!!! 💕💸💕

c: $discobops
v: urdream333
hey everyone! my g0al to escape the below disturbing trauma is: 5.5k ‼️

my bday is next month (2/27) & i am hopeful to have my own apartment & move away from abuse/dysfunction.

c: $discobops
v: urdream333

i urge you to please consider sharing, commenting, or even reposting di vid below. tysm!!! 🫂
Urgent Req ‼️🚨 TW: graphic language, mental abuse ‼️

dis is what im hoping to escape so i no longer have 2 be in the same state as my triggering sibling who has told me several times how they feel abt me/my body.

sm@ll g0al: 50/100

longtime g0al: 446/5,555

c: $discobops
v: urdream333
p: br4tzcore
January 12, 2026 at 8:53 AM
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Heading to bed with this micro-funder ask:

🚨🚨 EMERGENCY 🚨🚨

👉🏿👉🏿Needing $50 by *11AM EST tomorrow* to get to & from work👈🏿👈🏿:

Venmo: @TheJunctureX
CashApp: $TheJunctureX

#blackmutualaid #mutualaid #blueskyhelps #mutualaidcommunity #HelpFolksLive2025 #helpsky #fundsky #EmergencyMutualAid

💸💞
January 13, 2026 at 5:55 AM
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update on this :

still at 0 for classes. AND found out my asshole landlord didn’t include the broadcast fee — it’s a German thing — in the ABSURD “ALL INCLUDED” RENT I PAY. so i had to pay €128.50 in accumulated fees to not get a fine. that money was going towards the insurance debt installments 🙃
trying to prioritize paying for this so i can start the classes as soon as possible, because december bills are looming and i keep pushing it for later to pay bills.

any help is appreciated 💜💚

C - $permanentalien
V - @permanentalien
PP - @AlyssumBorges
gofund.me/982b699b
or wovenalyssum.com
January 12, 2026 at 11:52 PM
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ATTENTION 🚨

my friend Adrian needs help securing this apartment. the eviction on his record is the result of TWO ABUSIVE ROOMMATES who never paid rent, and when Adrian finally moved out they never completed the lease transfer leaving this burden on him.

PLEASE HELP

chuffed.org/project/1652...
January 12, 2026 at 11:15 PM
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still urgently in need of about $70 for groceries and essentials; i am COMPLETELY OUT of my kitten's food and cannot afford more unless people chip in. i also have nothing in the house i can eat, please PLEASE help 😭 #BIPOCMA #MAV #MutualAidSky bsky.app/profile/stem...
January 12, 2026 at 6:43 PM
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Please help me stay housed. I’ve been asking for help for 45 days and need to pay rent in order to stay housed.

$50/1050

Still need 1,000 to remain housed.

Any help or shares mean a lot💛

CA: $AYUDAMUTUA911
V: Ayudamutua911
ko-fi.com/amparodop/goal
gofund.me/50a7051c7
January 12, 2026 at 6:15 PM
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Subscriptions help us worry less about needing to fundraise. My goal is to earn $2k-$3k a month from Ko-Fi subs, which will cover our needs and help me be prepared for the future.

Currently $130/$2000 ko-fi.com/farronox/goa... farronox.carrd.co #MutualAid #Helpsky 💸💕 #KoFi
Some of you really don't understand how desperately I have been fighting to live, or that I have been for ~12 years.

And its only getting harder, I'm only getting sicker. I'm only getting closer to death.

Please, believe in my, invest in me. ko-fi.com/farronox/tiers #MutualAid #Helpsky 💸💕 #KoFi
Join Farronox's Membership
Support Farronox monthly
ko-fi.com
January 10, 2026 at 12:10 PM
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this will be my last post for a while but if anyone can help me afford to move into my own place, you'd be throwing me a lifeline! it might be my only chance at being accepted somewhere despite the eviction on my legal record. feel free to share on other platforms 💕💸

chuffed.org/project/1652...
housing support for a black trans person!
Hi! My name is Adrian (any pronouns) and I'm raising funds to help me move into an affordable housing unit! I was recently taken off the waitlist, however, I only have 10 days to set up the interview ...
chuffed.org
January 11, 2026 at 6:22 AM
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0/200

Im a trans woman of color whos disabled and I have no money for food, meds, and bills Please help. I'm desperate.
Paypal: [email protected]

💸💕 🏳️‍⚧️🚨 Mutual aid #mutualaid #MAboost #transmutualaid #BIPOCMA #helpsky
January 11, 2026 at 8:52 PM
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[JAN UPDATE] DISABLED BLK TRANS ENBY ✊🏿🏳️‍⚧️

JAN GOAL: $2000

Phone/internet. Storage fees. Bills. Medicated cat food. Rent assist.

That’s:

20 ppl giving $100

40 ppl giving $50

80 ppl giving $25

DEADLINE 1/15

linktr.ee/jskylerinc

#TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdFund #HelpSky #BlackSky 💸💕🏳️‍⚧️
January 12, 2026 at 3:12 AM
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We're getting slow-dripped some nice, tasty revelations ✨ Looking forward to playing more on Wednesday! Thank you again @abbychanttv.bsky.social & @briggsy.blacksky.app, appreciate seeing you and hosting your communities 🌟

Thank you all for making it a wonderful Monday, I needed it 💗
We left off last week with the party SPLIT—how will this tension be resolved!? Join me for more Clair Obscur to find out!

🔴 LIVE with Clair Obscur: Expedition 33 part 5
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January 6, 2026 at 7:12 PM
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December Goal: 440/1000 CAD
I'm disabled & queer, living in extreme poverty. I'm in URGENT need of food, hygiene, medication, clothing, etc.
Donate: ko-fi.com/qpthepurples...
Wishes: throne.com/qp_and_valia...
💕 💸 #HelpSky #MutualAid #HelpFolksLive2025 #DisabledCrowdfund #Disabled #Poverty
Support QuyetPawz
Support QuyetPawz
ko-fi.com
January 12, 2026 at 1:21 AM
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January 12 2026 #MutualAidThread!

See image or it's alt text for the rules.

🚨Reply to this post to participate in the thread.🚨

Follow this account to reply.

Mutual aid resources: docs.google.com/document/d/1...

#HelpSky #MABoost #FundSky #MutualAid #HelpFolksLive2025 💕💸
January 12, 2026 at 1:21 AM
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$185/$475 January MA - thank you so much!

Need $290 by the 20th to cover the rest of this month's costs. Anything helps & everything is appreciated. Queer, multiply disabled family asking for your help.

#MutualAidRequest #HelpFolksLive2026 #QueerMutualAid #DisabledMutualAid 💕💸

aid links & shops:
NQMA Links
Mutual aid links for nqma@bluesky
nqma.carrd.co
January 11, 2026 at 4:42 PM
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Between diabetes, non-alcoholic fatty liver disease, hypothyroidism, Polycystic ovarian syndrome, and ibs
...
I need help w $ for food
My bodys screaming for nutrients 🫠

V venmo.com/d_fay
P paypal.me/peach77
K ko-fi.com/ellespeaks

#mutualaid #disabled #helpfolkslive2026 #helpsky #fundsky #MAboost
January 11, 2026 at 3:05 PM
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My computer's power supply is in the process of dying, and we need this computer running for mutual aid and various other very important things. Please help.

Computer Build Wishlist:
www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/...

Computer Build Crowdfund:
ko-fi.com/LizTheAnarch

Power Supply Crowdfund:
Contribute to Liz The GM's Rosewill CMG5 1200W, ATX ... | Throne
Support Liz The GM with a gift contribution on their Throne wishlist. Help fund their creative projects.
throne.com
January 11, 2026 at 3:02 PM