Kami
@transfaer.bsky.social
D&D Nerd, geographer, she/faer, polyam trans woman. I dance, bake, game, drink, and am a mum. also on the clock app.
I'm such an anxious mess this week, and feeling like a crappy wife and mom on top of that.
I hate worrying about money. I thought I was done with this.
I hate worrying about money. I thought I was done with this.
December 7, 2023 at 6:37 AM
I'm such an anxious mess this week, and feeling like a crappy wife and mom on top of that.
I hate worrying about money. I thought I was done with this.
I hate worrying about money. I thought I was done with this.
The increases in food and rent costs this year have been brutal and my salary just isn't keeping up. I've reduced expenditures by a couple hundred dollars already, and we're working on figuring out what else we can cut until she's done with school and working too.
December 6, 2023 at 5:06 AM
The increases in food and rent costs this year have been brutal and my salary just isn't keeping up. I've reduced expenditures by a couple hundred dollars already, and we're working on figuring out what else we can cut until she's done with school and working too.
If you want to contribute to the "keep a queer family with queer kids housed" fund, I would really appreciate it.
Venmo is KamiFord
Current need is -650.
Venmo is KamiFord
Current need is -650.
December 6, 2023 at 5:06 AM
If you want to contribute to the "keep a queer family with queer kids housed" fund, I would really appreciate it.
Venmo is KamiFord
Current need is -650.
Venmo is KamiFord
Current need is -650.
So we got a new property manager, and this one doesn't allow custom payment amounts. I don't have enough in my account, and my partners card isn't working for some reason so I can't pull from it and deposit in mine or something.
December 6, 2023 at 5:05 AM
So we got a new property manager, and this one doesn't allow custom payment amounts. I don't have enough in my account, and my partners card isn't working for some reason so I can't pull from it and deposit in mine or something.
This is the functional equivalent of my car getting stolen. This is how I get the youngest to and from preschool, how I get groceries etc.
Money was already tight and there's no way to replace it.
Money was already tight and there's no way to replace it.
November 13, 2023 at 5:17 PM
This is the functional equivalent of my car getting stolen. This is how I get the youngest to and from preschool, how I get groceries etc.
Money was already tight and there's no way to replace it.
Money was already tight and there's no way to replace it.
I fucked up and left my bike trailer outside for two days.
Naturally, it got stolen
Naturally, it got stolen
November 13, 2023 at 5:17 PM
I fucked up and left my bike trailer outside for two days.
Naturally, it got stolen
Naturally, it got stolen
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Wealth of Elon Musk
2012: $2,000,000,000
2023: $248,800,000,000
Wealth of Jeff Bezos
2012: $18,400,000,000
2023: $160,900,000,000
Wealth of Mark Zuckerberg
2012: $17,500,000,000
2023: $105,200,000,000
Federal Minimum Wage
2012: $7.25
2023: $7.25
Three words: tax the rich.
2012: $2,000,000,000
2023: $248,800,000,000
Wealth of Jeff Bezos
2012: $18,400,000,000
2023: $160,900,000,000
Wealth of Mark Zuckerberg
2012: $17,500,000,000
2023: $105,200,000,000
Federal Minimum Wage
2012: $7.25
2023: $7.25
Three words: tax the rich.
September 4, 2023 at 8:13 PM
Wealth of Elon Musk
2012: $2,000,000,000
2023: $248,800,000,000
Wealth of Jeff Bezos
2012: $18,400,000,000
2023: $160,900,000,000
Wealth of Mark Zuckerberg
2012: $17,500,000,000
2023: $105,200,000,000
Federal Minimum Wage
2012: $7.25
2023: $7.25
Three words: tax the rich.
2012: $2,000,000,000
2023: $248,800,000,000
Wealth of Jeff Bezos
2012: $18,400,000,000
2023: $160,900,000,000
Wealth of Mark Zuckerberg
2012: $17,500,000,000
2023: $105,200,000,000
Federal Minimum Wage
2012: $7.25
2023: $7.25
Three words: tax the rich.
New outfit is pretty cute too!
September 1, 2023 at 11:14 PM
New outfit is pretty cute too!
Final outfit! And more makeup! But the place I'm going has black lights, and this stuff lights up so that should be fun!
September 1, 2023 at 8:46 PM
Final outfit! And more makeup! But the place I'm going has black lights, and this stuff lights up so that should be fun!
Haaaaaa nm she just now told me that it probably isn't a dress appropriate venue because there are trampolines and stuff 😟
September 1, 2023 at 8:11 PM
Haaaaaa nm she just now told me that it probably isn't a dress appropriate venue because there are trampolines and stuff 😟
Outfit! Probably going to do lipstick at least
September 1, 2023 at 8:05 PM
Outfit! Probably going to do lipstick at least
Picked a dress I know I look cute in, now just need to pick accessories and decide how much makeup I feel like
September 1, 2023 at 7:54 PM
Picked a dress I know I look cute in, now just need to pick accessories and decide how much makeup I feel like
I'm trying to figure out a new outfit but I just feel like shit today so I dunno, kinda hate my whole wardrobe rn
September 1, 2023 at 7:47 PM
I'm trying to figure out a new outfit but I just feel like shit today so I dunno, kinda hate my whole wardrobe rn
I asked her opinion and she was honest but not in a helpful way? Like just ew no that looks weird, but no reasons why or how to make it better.
September 1, 2023 at 7:46 PM
I asked her opinion and she was honest but not in a helpful way? Like just ew no that looks weird, but no reasons why or how to make it better.
Today has been so hard already. Got screamed at by a transphobic stranger at the corner store and my partner said she thought the outfit I put together for our date today looked awful. Been in my feels about being good enough for people all week and now this, I just...
September 1, 2023 at 7:40 PM
Today has been so hard already. Got screamed at by a transphobic stranger at the corner store and my partner said she thought the outfit I put together for our date today looked awful. Been in my feels about being good enough for people all week and now this, I just...
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I have 20 spots left. International is OK. Want queer comfort, bitter and sweet, like rose thorns and chocolate, in winter?
See below.
See below.
Hey here's my poetry project, get in while I still have spots left!
Queerfolks, this is for you.
https://forms.gle/MFbmyw6xUNyyVfLW7
Queerfolks, this is for you.
https://forms.gle/MFbmyw6xUNyyVfLW7
Hey skyline. It's Aug 1, and that means it's time for the beginning of my Annual Big Queer Poetry Project.
Every year I gather ~125 names and addresses of self- identified queer and trans folks, typewrite them poetry, and mail those poems around the world.
A 🧵 of FAQs!
Every year I gather ~125 names and addresses of self- identified queer and trans folks, typewrite them poetry, and mail those poems around the world.
A 🧵 of FAQs!
August 22, 2023 at 8:38 PM
I have 20 spots left. International is OK. Want queer comfort, bitter and sweet, like rose thorns and chocolate, in winter?
See below.
See below.
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one fairy seeking a good home
will care for houseplants in exchange for sweet wine and shiny things ✨
will care for houseplants in exchange for sweet wine and shiny things ✨
July 26, 2023 at 6:38 PM
one fairy seeking a good home
will care for houseplants in exchange for sweet wine and shiny things ✨
will care for houseplants in exchange for sweet wine and shiny things ✨
I'd make a damn good girlfriend too!
August 19, 2023 at 2:12 AM
I'd make a damn good girlfriend too!
I just want a cute partner to cuddle and kiss and text and play games with and dance and fuck and eat food with and
I genuinely don't know how to find them.
I genuinely don't know how to find them.
August 18, 2023 at 4:13 AM
I just want a cute partner to cuddle and kiss and text and play games with and dance and fuck and eat food with and
I genuinely don't know how to find them.
I genuinely don't know how to find them.
And of course, I look like this. A bit bricky.
And I'm non op.
Too many things. Too much baggage. Too old. Wrong anatomy.
And I'm non op.
Too many things. Too much baggage. Too old. Wrong anatomy.
August 18, 2023 at 4:11 AM
And of course, I look like this. A bit bricky.
And I'm non op.
Too many things. Too much baggage. Too old. Wrong anatomy.
And I'm non op.
Too many things. Too much baggage. Too old. Wrong anatomy.
And like. I can be a lot I guess.
I'm polyam but pretty new to it
I'm married and know that comes with complications.
I have a pile of kids.
I don't drive.
I'm trans.
I'm queer but still exploring my sexuality.
I'm kinky but still learning how and in which ways.
I'm polyam but pretty new to it
I'm married and know that comes with complications.
I have a pile of kids.
I don't drive.
I'm trans.
I'm queer but still exploring my sexuality.
I'm kinky but still learning how and in which ways.
August 18, 2023 at 4:07 AM
And like. I can be a lot I guess.
I'm polyam but pretty new to it
I'm married and know that comes with complications.
I have a pile of kids.
I don't drive.
I'm trans.
I'm queer but still exploring my sexuality.
I'm kinky but still learning how and in which ways.
I'm polyam but pretty new to it
I'm married and know that comes with complications.
I have a pile of kids.
I don't drive.
I'm trans.
I'm queer but still exploring my sexuality.
I'm kinky but still learning how and in which ways.
Sometimes I hate the futility if dating, of flirting, of looking. Of having a great night of flirting and dancing, or great conversation, or just good vibes and then the next morning....
Nothing
Let's be friends
Ghosted
Nothing
Let's be friends
Ghosted
August 18, 2023 at 4:03 AM
Sometimes I hate the futility if dating, of flirting, of looking. Of having a great night of flirting and dancing, or great conversation, or just good vibes and then the next morning....
Nothing
Let's be friends
Ghosted
Nothing
Let's be friends
Ghosted
First bluesky selfie! #notreallygoth
August 9, 2023 at 1:07 AM
First bluesky selfie! #notreallygoth
Happy birthday, that's my birthday too!
My birthday is August 26th and I'm having a sale on all my recipes! Support a black creator today!
Save 25% off my entire cookie recipe shop with this linkhttps://ko-fi.com/theblacknerd/link/BIRTHDAY36!
Any reposts, quote-posts, likes, or replies help a whole lot! Please and thank you!
Save 25% off my entire cookie recipe shop with this linkhttps://ko-fi.com/theblacknerd/link/BIRTHDAY36!
Any reposts, quote-posts, likes, or replies help a whole lot! Please and thank you!
August 8, 2023 at 3:01 PM
Happy birthday, that's my birthday too!
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Alright, friends. We're going to try this a little differently.
A form, for the desired poetry.
I delete all data after the collection is out.
https://forms.gle/MFbmyw6xUNyyVfLW7
A form, for the desired poetry.
I delete all data after the collection is out.
https://forms.gle/MFbmyw6xUNyyVfLW7
August 7, 2023 at 9:57 PM
Alright, friends. We're going to try this a little differently.
A form, for the desired poetry.
I delete all data after the collection is out.
https://forms.gle/MFbmyw6xUNyyVfLW7
A form, for the desired poetry.
I delete all data after the collection is out.
https://forms.gle/MFbmyw6xUNyyVfLW7