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transfaer.bsky.social
Kami
@transfaer.bsky.social
D&D Nerd, geographer, she/faer, polyam trans woman. I dance, bake, game, drink, and am a mum. also on the clock app.
I'm such an anxious mess this week, and feeling like a crappy wife and mom on top of that.

I hate worrying about money. I thought I was done with this.
December 7, 2023 at 6:37 AM
The increases in food and rent costs this year have been brutal and my salary just isn't keeping up. I've reduced expenditures by a couple hundred dollars already, and we're working on figuring out what else we can cut until she's done with school and working too.
December 6, 2023 at 5:06 AM
If you want to contribute to the "keep a queer family with queer kids housed" fund, I would really appreciate it.
Venmo is KamiFord
Current need is -650.
December 6, 2023 at 5:06 AM
So we got a new property manager, and this one doesn't allow custom payment amounts. I don't have enough in my account, and my partners card isn't working for some reason so I can't pull from it and deposit in mine or something.
December 6, 2023 at 5:05 AM
This is the functional equivalent of my car getting stolen. This is how I get the youngest to and from preschool, how I get groceries etc.

Money was already tight and there's no way to replace it.
November 13, 2023 at 5:17 PM
I fucked up and left my bike trailer outside for two days.

Naturally, it got stolen
November 13, 2023 at 5:17 PM
Reposted by Kami
Wealth of Elon Musk
2012: $2,000,000,000
2023: $248,800,000,000

Wealth of Jeff Bezos
2012: $18,400,000,000
2023: $160,900,000,000

Wealth of Mark Zuckerberg
2012: $17,500,000,000
2023: $105,200,000,000

Federal Minimum Wage
2012: $7.25
2023: $7.25

Three words: tax the rich.
September 4, 2023 at 8:13 PM
New outfit is pretty cute too!
September 1, 2023 at 11:14 PM
Final outfit! And more makeup! But the place I'm going has black lights, and this stuff lights up so that should be fun!
September 1, 2023 at 8:46 PM
Haaaaaa nm she just now told me that it probably isn't a dress appropriate venue because there are trampolines and stuff 😟
September 1, 2023 at 8:11 PM
Outfit! Probably going to do lipstick at least
September 1, 2023 at 8:05 PM
Picked a dress I know I look cute in, now just need to pick accessories and decide how much makeup I feel like
September 1, 2023 at 7:54 PM
I'm trying to figure out a new outfit but I just feel like shit today so I dunno, kinda hate my whole wardrobe rn
September 1, 2023 at 7:47 PM
I asked her opinion and she was honest but not in a helpful way? Like just ew no that looks weird, but no reasons why or how to make it better.
September 1, 2023 at 7:46 PM
Today has been so hard already. Got screamed at by a transphobic stranger at the corner store and my partner said she thought the outfit I put together for our date today looked awful. Been in my feels about being good enough for people all week and now this, I just...
September 1, 2023 at 7:40 PM
Reposted by Kami
I have 20 spots left. International is OK. Want queer comfort, bitter and sweet, like rose thorns and chocolate, in winter?
See below.
Hey here's my poetry project, get in while I still have spots left!
Queerfolks, this is for you.

https://forms.gle/MFbmyw6xUNyyVfLW7
Hey skyline. It's Aug 1, and that means it's time for the beginning of my Annual Big Queer Poetry Project.

Every year I gather ~125 names and addresses of self- identified queer and trans folks, typewrite them poetry, and mail those poems around the world.

A 🧵 of FAQs!
August 22, 2023 at 8:38 PM
Reposted by Kami
one fairy seeking a good home

will care for houseplants in exchange for sweet wine and shiny things ✨
July 26, 2023 at 6:38 PM
I'd make a damn good girlfriend too!
August 19, 2023 at 2:12 AM
I just want a cute partner to cuddle and kiss and text and play games with and dance and fuck and eat food with and

I genuinely don't know how to find them.
August 18, 2023 at 4:13 AM
And of course, I look like this. A bit bricky.

And I'm non op.

Too many things. Too much baggage. Too old. Wrong anatomy.
August 18, 2023 at 4:11 AM
And like. I can be a lot I guess.

I'm polyam but pretty new to it
I'm married and know that comes with complications.
I have a pile of kids.
I don't drive.
I'm trans.
I'm queer but still exploring my sexuality.
I'm kinky but still learning how and in which ways.
August 18, 2023 at 4:07 AM
Sometimes I hate the futility if dating, of flirting, of looking. Of having a great night of flirting and dancing, or great conversation, or just good vibes and then the next morning....

Nothing

Let's be friends

Ghosted
August 18, 2023 at 4:03 AM
First bluesky selfie! #notreallygoth
August 9, 2023 at 1:07 AM
Happy birthday, that's my birthday too!
My birthday is August 26th and I'm having a sale on all my recipes! Support a black creator today!

Save 25% off my entire cookie recipe shop with this linkhttps://ko-fi.com/theblacknerd/link/BIRTHDAY36!

Any reposts, quote-posts, likes, or replies help a whole lot! Please and thank you!
August 8, 2023 at 3:01 PM
Reposted by Kami
Alright, friends. We're going to try this a little differently.
A form, for the desired poetry.
I delete all data after the collection is out.
https://forms.gle/MFbmyw6xUNyyVfLW7
August 7, 2023 at 9:57 PM