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The way these dudes act like this is hero act when it reality it shows what a small awful little man he is. Same dudes will be whining on social media about their kids going no contact
reeff80 18h would do this shit Follow SWIPE MAN MAKES HIS FINAL CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENT IN 80,000 PENNIES DUMPED ON HIS EX WIFE How 18-year-old flipped script on dad who dumped 80,000 pennies as 'last child support payment' Avery Sanford and her mom donated the $800 to a domestic abuse shelter. Saturday, June 12, 2021 X n A Virginia dad dumped 80,000 pennies outside his 18-year- old daughter's home and told her mom it was his final child support payment. HENRICO, Va. -- A Virginia dad dumped 80,000 pennies outside his 18-year-old daughter's home and told her mom it was his final child support payment -- but Avery Sanford and her mom decided to turn a negative situation into positive action by donating the $800 to a domestic abuse shelter. Sanford said that last month, her estranged father rented a landscaping trailer, pulled up in front of her family's Richmond home and dumped the thousands of pennies into the street. She said her mom, Raven Sickal, didn't recognize the man at first and asked him what was happening, to which he responded, "It's your final child support payment." "That's when she realized who it was," Sanford said. "It's not just her that he'd be trying to embarrass. It's also me, it's also my sister. And it's upsetting that he doesn't really consider that before he did this." Their actions triggered a domino effect of kindness, with donations pouring into the nonprofit from around the world, said Mary Maupai, Safe Harbor's development director. "Our online donation page just blew up. And we've gotten over $47,000 worth of donations from locally, nationally, internationally -- as far as England and beyond," Maupai said. "This will be one for the books for sure" Sickal said she "sobbed" when she heard about the donations. "It made both of us very emotional. This reach has been amazing and the thoughtfulness and kind gestures have been beyond anything we expected. We just wanted to turn this around and that's exactly what we did," the statement read. Sanford said she hasn't spoken to her father in years and this incident proves that she made the tough but right decision to stay clear. She said she has no interest in having a relationship with someone who disrespects her mother.
January 12, 2026 at 2:16 AM
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I mean this is about being fair right?
AlTJ for telling my dad he cant bring his girlfriend to stay at my place after he banned my partner from his house for years When I was in my early twenties I started dating my now husband. We moved in together pretty quickly and when the holidays came around I wanted to bring him home to meet my family. My dad said absolutely not. He told me my boyfriend wasnt welcome to stay over and we definitely werent sharing a room under his roof. I told him we were adults living together and it felt ridiculous but he didnt budge. He said until we were married he wasnt comfortable with it. So instead of leaving my partner alone for the holidays I booked us a place nearby. My dad was annoyed that I wouldnt just follow his rules but I told him I was respecting them by not staying there. This went on for years. Every visit I had to get a separate place because he wouldnt let us sleep in the same room. My mom thought it was silly but my dad held firm. Fast forward to now. My parents split up a couple years ago and my dad has been seeing someone new for about a year. My younger sister still lived with him until recently and she moved out because she was tired of hearing them at night. She told him that was why and he got defensive saying she should be happy hes found someone. Now my dad wants to come visit me for a week or two and bring his girlfriend. I told him she can come but theyre not sharing a room in my house. He got upset and said hes an adult and I should respect that. I reminded him that he didnt extend me that respect for years when I was in a committed relationship. I told him I wasnt going to listen to what my sister had to deal with and I wasnt going to reward him
January 11, 2026 at 11:47 PM
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Stop her period for his enjoyment?

Boy bye
My (23F) boyfriend (24M) wants me to "stop having my period." Can I even recover from this? We've been dating for 2 months. Things have been going well. Yesterday he asked me to go to the gym with him and I declined saying "I don't feel up to it, I started my period." He was all like "Wait what?" and I repeated myself. Then he goes "You know you don't have to do that to yourself right?" I was like dude wtf are you saying? He goes on the explain that his ex was on a type of birth control that got rid of her period and overall made their relationship "more enjoyable." He asked me to consider doing the same. I told him absolutely not. don't want to switch birth control methods and if he doesn't like me having periods then he can dump me. I told him "Good luck finding a girl who doesn't have a period." He said "I already had one. I'll find another." I'm so appalled. What the fuck is wrong with him? I know there are methods to stop periods, but for him to imply that I'm a rarity for having them was INSANE. This is the first time I've brought up my period to him. I'm a 23 year old girl OFC I have periods. I know he was making a suggestion and probably meant well, but that's a crazy thing to suggest - I should get rid of my period for his enjoyment. I'm so mad at him. I don't think I can recover from this. It just shows how dumb he is. What do you all think? Can I even recover from this or should I just end
January 11, 2026 at 9:44 PM
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I'm assuming he wears a jock and a cup every time he goes out in public?
My husband gets mad that I don't wear a bra. I need some guidance. I hate wearing bras, so at home I never have one on. I wear large shirts and I'm very small chested so you can't tell either way. He gets mad when I open the door to my ex husband when he's dropping off our son. He said it bothers him that my ex gets to see me. But again, I am wearing a large shirt and the exchange is fairly quick. He says I don't consider him at all. I have been putting on a jacket every time since he's brought it up. But I forgot to recently and he went off on me. Am I in the wrong? Tl;dr: my husband thinks I should wear a bra when answering the door to my ex even though it's a brief child exchange and you can't tell if I'm wearing one or not. I also need to add that I stand behind the door when I open it.
January 11, 2026 at 7:52 PM
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Chore gifts should only be given if asked for specifically.
relationship AlO for being upset that my fiancé "gifted" me a vacuum for our 5-year anniversary? My fiancé, Mark, who's 29, and I just celebrated our 5-year anniversary. We usually do something meaningful-not always pricey, but something that shows we really get each other. To give you some background, I've been putting in 60-hour weeks recently to save up for our wedding. Mark knows I'm knackered and that I've been moaning about how tough it is to keep our flat tidy with our golden retriever, who sheds like crazy. On our anniversary night, he mentioned he had something for me to "make life easier so I could unwind more." I was genuinely thrilled-I thought maybe he'd arranged a spa day or even booked cleaning service for a month. But when I opened the big box, I found a top-of-the- range cordless vacuum. I just stood there, stunned. He was grinning from ear to ear, telling me about its "amazing suction for pet hair" and how it was "a bargain." I tried to be gracious, but eventually, I said that a cleaning gadget felt more like a "chore gift" than an anniversary present. It seemed like he was giving me a better way to tackle household tasks rather than something for me. Mark got really defensive. He claims I'm being ungrateful because it's a "quality-of-life upgrade" and that it cost $400. He said he bought it because he heard me complaining about the floors and thought he was being a "problem solver." Now there's this awkward tension in the house. I feel like my anniversary turned into a critique of my housework, and he feels like he's being penalised for spending a lot on something practical. I've been quiet and a bit distant since then, and he thinks I'm "blowing things out of proportion." Am I overreacti
January 11, 2026 at 5:16 PM
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Saw this posted and now I feel ancient.
Ralph Lauren FW 1998, I want to know who this model is! Ralph Lauren FW 1998, I want to know who this model is!
January 11, 2026 at 5:13 PM
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So he thinks men are predators?
slimshiesty001 12h Follow Women have sexualized the gym, they won't admit it tho. 219 204 13 2 Top View activ slimshiesty001 5h. Au My reply is to all yall. If you throw blood in a pool full of sharks what happens ? So if you go to the gym naked wtf you think gone happen goofy
January 11, 2026 at 3:07 PM
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Nigel Thomson "On the Way Home from School" (1980)

The more you look at the details more disturbing this painting becomes.
Nigel Thomson "On the Way Home from School" (1980)A surrealist painting titled "The Schoolgirl" by Jeffrey Smart. A young girl in a school uniform walking away from the viewer across a desolate, yellow field toward a dark-clothed man standing in the distance. The man is hunched, holding a long saw at waist-height, creating a sense of psychological tension and isolation against a stark, industrial horizon.
January 11, 2026 at 1:02 PM
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They are so mad that they have to be likeable now.
Daily reminder that men today must work 10x harder than our grandfathers for a woman 10x worse than our grandmothers
January 11, 2026 at 4:11 AM
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These types of dudes are not lonely enough
sxefieldz 15h Follow 5 am and I want chicken wings. I deleted door dash, and I don't have a wife 46 145 Top View activity> deeshthegreat 10h And you was gone wake her up to cook you chicken wings? 115 2 G sxefieldz 5h Author Absolutely
January 11, 2026 at 3:10 AM
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If they let their boundaries go on their wedding day of all days, they are going to keep overstepping in their lives
D Dad Today 11:50 AM < 77 Perfect. Happy Saturday. Just got off the phone with Grandpa. He is riding my ass about this " save the date " issue, with not getting one yet for the wedding. To keep the peace, I suggest just inviting her and If you want, I can just mail the one we have, if you don't want to mail one to her. Grandpa said if and aren't invited, they aren't going to come either. I know you probably don't want them at your wedding, but it's not worth all the hassle to exclude them, IMO. Let me know you and thoughts. The only issue with me mailing it, is it won't happen until end of March. So if you need her address, I can get that for you. O A Text Message AlO... wedding feels conditional?!? So, for context this is a text my fiancé got sent from HIS dad (and sent the ss over to me then) I'm getting married soon and my fiancé and I are having a SMALL wedding. We've already sent save-the-dates to the people we actually have relationships with, and we're still finalizing the rest of the guest list. Recently, my fiancé's dad told my fiancé that his grandparents are upset because my fiancé's aunt and uncle haven't received a save-the-date yet. These are relatives we do not speak to and do not have a relationship with. They also did not invite us to their own kid's wedding but What really upset me is that this has now turned into a conditional situation. The message we received was essentially that if we don't invite the aunt and uncle, then my fiancé's grandparents won't come either. That feels incredibly unfair and honestly hurtful. Like idk our wedding is not meant to be a bargaining chip or a tool to "keep the peace," and it doesn't sit right with me that attendance is being framed as leverage. I don't understand why the responsibility to smooth things over falls on us, especially when there's no existing relationship there to begin with. We aren't excluding anyone out of spite. We're simply inviting people who are present in our lives. Being pressured to invite people we don't speak to, simply to avoid upsetting others, feels inappropriate and exhausting. I'm especially hurt because this takes what should be a happy, personal decision and turns it into family politics. We want his grandparents there, but not at the cost of ignoring our own boundaries
January 11, 2026 at 2:08 AM
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No one should be a consolation prize. I couldn't stay with this festering.
AITAH for getting mad at my husband about his dead ex-gf? My husband (29M) and I (27F) have been together for 4 years now and have been married for the last 6 months. Prior to us meeting, my husband had an ex-girlfriend from when he was younger who he was with for 10 years. I've known about her since we first started dating and had no issues as I understood that they were together for a long time and she was his first love. Well she had left him out of the blue stating that she simply did not love him anymore. He was heartbroken over this situation then later on, she passed away unexpectedly. Recently, he was intoxicated and we got into an argument unrelated to his ex-gf. Somehow the argument turned into him talking about their relationship. He emphasized that they were together for 10 years and that he still to this day doesn't understand why she didn't love him anymore. That he doesn't really talk about her to me because 'it doesn't matter' but that he still has nightmares about his heartbreak. Then he said something along the lines of 'What can you do when the love of your life says she doesn't love you like that anymore? Nothing. You can't do nothing, just go find the next best thing'. It stung when he said that because he made it seem like I was just someone he married because he couldn't marry her or be with her. Since then, I haven't talked to him as I feel hurt that even after being married, he called another woman the love of his life. I just don't know if Im being immature and having petty feelings but AITAH for giving him the silent treatment because of his past
January 10, 2026 at 9:21 PM
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Sounds like someone who won't take accountability for cheating.

Like women don't get men actively trying all the time
tonythecloser_ 2h Women love to say "hold men accountable," but never want to talk about the women who knowingly approach married men like it's a sport.
January 10, 2026 at 7:21 PM
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Facebook has been around for so long, how do these "Get off my lawn" dudes not know how their feeds work?

Anyways, he keeps going on my Facebook page and can't figure out why my page shows up. The brilliance is blinding
Jim Read Dec 5 at 8:23 PM get the fock off my profile timeline.. if ytou dont like my response, then stop appearing on my feed.
January 10, 2026 at 5:56 PM
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He said he was in a helping mood
Dylan Lee Haddix gave his pregnant girlfriend a brain bleed after slamming her into a wall, then drove her to Walmart to get Tylenol instead of going to the hospital. Despite the victim telling Haddix that she should go to the hospital, Haddix reportedly took her to a Walmart to buy Tylenol instead. "I was in the helping mood and I like helping people," Haddix reportedly told police, explaining his decision to go to Walmart. "I didn't mean for this to happen and I feel terrible She told police that this was not the first time Haddix acted violently toward her, and that similar violent outbursts had occurred about 10 times, with the last one being just months prior while she was pregnant. Upon being told he was being arrested, Haddix reportedly said he "wasn't allowed to go to jail due to a brace that was on his leg' and resisted officers. He was charged with resisting arrest and assault.
January 10, 2026 at 4:45 PM
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I don't even know what to say
Does anyone know the answer???? Discussion Do people in a coma still get their period or does it just turn off till they wake up Periods shut off when the body is at rest (sleeping, even yoga can trigger a stop). So yes, it's likely that periods stop during a coma.
January 10, 2026 at 3:34 PM
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Matt Prokop (Sarah Hyland of Modern Family abusive ex) arrested for assault and CSAM.

So unsurprising.
January 10, 2026 at 2:24 PM
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I cannot be convinced these types of dudes even like women at all.
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January 10, 2026 at 3:29 AM
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Oof. He is cheating, or at least trying to.
relationship AlO Please tell me this mean nothing We are married, just got married couple of months ago but have been together for 8 years. Going through my husband phone, was looking for an app he had previously. Instead I found dating apps that were install, they aren't there anymore. I don't know what the date means under them, we have been together since 2017. AlO? music Update Amazon Music: Songs & Podcasts Mar 15, 2025 M BMO Mobile Banking Feb 8, 2025 Hik-Connect - for End user Feb 5, 2025 Open 3F Toyota Jan 30, 2025 3Fun: Couples & Singles Dating Jan 12, 2025 ChatGPT Jan 6, 2025 Wheel Offroad Dec 24, 2024 QR Code Scanner Dec 19 Tinder Dating App: Date & Chat Apr 29, 2023 Chat Smith: Al Chatbot & Agent Apr 25, 2023 AllTrails: Hike, Bike & Run Apr 7, 2023 Angry Birds 2 Mar 30, 2023 YouTube Kids Mar 11, 2023 Plenty of Fish Dating Feb 26, 2023 Fever: Events
January 10, 2026 at 1:43 AM
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No-fault divorce has saved multitude of women's lives yet Republicans are actively trying to repeal by claiming it is hurting "innocent" men.

Imagine being trapped in a marriage with your ex, that's what they want

Texas HB 3401
Oklahoma SB 829
Louisiana Covenant Marriage
Nebraska LB 498

And more
after 1959 no fault divorce IG & Threads: @ask_aubry female suicide rate decreased -20% reported domestic violence decreased -30%
January 9, 2026 at 11:46 PM
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Good for Meghan Markle. Also her raspberry jam is delicious.
Meghan's jam is the toast of the town as she 'sells a million jars' Website accidentally reveals that the Duchess of Sussex appears to have sold 860,000 boxes of her fruit spreads, generating an estimated £27 million NEW Most Powerful Wen NE FORTUNE FORTUNE FORTV FORTU Meghan has previously said that after the brand's initial launch, it significantly increased its
January 9, 2026 at 11:25 PM
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Men murder women who won't give them their number.
Female ego literally anything female ego The female ego is so fragile. From the dawn of human history, females have been coddled and protected, treated like untouchable queens and goddesses. Females have been so privileged that, when a man says 'no' to them, they completely lose their mind. Pure narcissic creatures. Lord give me the strength
January 9, 2026 at 3:56 PM
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So if you want a partner who is stable and has his shit together, that's prostitution?

And trad-wives who wants tradhusbands, that's prostitution too?

How does this make sense?
January 9, 2026 at 3:26 AM
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They have no morals
Natalia Antonova @NataliaAntonova 10h It breaks my heart O 9.1K Actual human Corpse 7.8K Amiri King @AmiriKing 6h @grok put this person in a bikini. O 216 t76 68K 4.1M A ♡ 2K
January 8, 2026 at 9:29 PM
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And his entire reply comments are:
dalmasen1990 12h I'm so FUCKING tired of girls asking for money 252 ♡ 226 16 dalmasen1990 3h Hi dalmasen1990 3h ♡ + Hi 1 244 147 dalmasen1990 3h Hi I'm need a friend 1 383 Q79
January 8, 2026 at 8:27 PM