@bibliophibifemme.bsky.social
Bibliophibian, femme, chronically iconic n chronically ill.
she/her 🏳️🌈
she/her 🏳️🌈
Why are you polyamorous?
Wrong answers only:
I need to grow my sapphic slut pop playlist and this is the most efficient way to do so.
Wait. That might be a half truth.
Wrong answers only:
I need to grow my sapphic slut pop playlist and this is the most efficient way to do so.
Wait. That might be a half truth.
Why are you polyamorous?
Wrong answers only:
tryna form an improv comedy troupe ultimately leads to a polycule or the collapse of the troupe so i figured why not just start the other way around
Wrong answers only:
tryna form an improv comedy troupe ultimately leads to a polycule or the collapse of the troupe so i figured why not just start the other way around
Why are you polyamorous?
Wrong answers only:
I need to kiss all the hot trannies, but doing it monogamously takes too long
Wrong answers only:
I need to kiss all the hot trannies, but doing it monogamously takes too long
December 11, 2025 at 7:20 PM
Why are you polyamorous?
Wrong answers only:
I need to grow my sapphic slut pop playlist and this is the most efficient way to do so.
Wait. That might be a half truth.
Wrong answers only:
I need to grow my sapphic slut pop playlist and this is the most efficient way to do so.
Wait. That might be a half truth.
I’ve cancelled all my early December plans. I’ve been resting constantly. I’m in bed or the couch all day. The crash continues.
![theory of chronic illness [a venn diagram the yellow circle says my life and the red circle says my illness and where they meet int he middle is the ideal]
the reality of chronic illness [venn diagram - red circle is my illness and a tiny yellow circle inside of it says my life]
the truth of chronic illness - [a blue circle that says 'i spend at home in or bed' and a tiny blue circle inside of it says 'times people see me and think i'm doing great'](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:dbzmdmsaz6lkhb4tv3culzme/bafkreifn3lsamw7l7vnwxyduuytszj2igkhrwipf2ajsc3426akubeagfm@jpeg)
December 8, 2025 at 5:07 PM
I’ve cancelled all my early December plans. I’ve been resting constantly. I’m in bed or the couch all day. The crash continues.
“And that’s how I learned there were bath salts in Toronto”
Thanks zoom auto-transcription but that person did say bath houses. I’m sure there are also bath salts in Toronto but that somewhat changes the tenor of this interview. #AcademicSky
Thanks zoom auto-transcription but that person did say bath houses. I’m sure there are also bath salts in Toronto but that somewhat changes the tenor of this interview. #AcademicSky
December 7, 2025 at 11:15 PM
“And that’s how I learned there were bath salts in Toronto”
Thanks zoom auto-transcription but that person did say bath houses. I’m sure there are also bath salts in Toronto but that somewhat changes the tenor of this interview. #AcademicSky
Thanks zoom auto-transcription but that person did say bath houses. I’m sure there are also bath salts in Toronto but that somewhat changes the tenor of this interview. #AcademicSky
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a friend interviewed me for a research project and pulled this quote.
I keep reading it like "damn girl, what were you on because...damn"
I keep reading it like "damn girl, what were you on because...damn"
December 4, 2025 at 5:12 AM
a friend interviewed me for a research project and pulled this quote.
I keep reading it like "damn girl, what were you on because...damn"
I keep reading it like "damn girl, what were you on because...damn"
My new GP has been excellent so far but I still get nervous before every appointment because my overwhelming experience with doctors has been so negative that I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop and it sucks. #NEISVoid
December 4, 2025 at 4:37 PM
My new GP has been excellent so far but I still get nervous before every appointment because my overwhelming experience with doctors has been so negative that I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop and it sucks. #NEISVoid
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Reminder: It's never too late to start wearing a mask again
December 3, 2025 at 9:22 PM
Reminder: It's never too late to start wearing a mask again
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No matter how big or bad, I have always “pushed through” obstacles w/sheer force of will. Yet, a grocery run now can leave me collapsed in a sweating, shaking heap of anesthesia- grade fatigue & fog. I don’t expect most folks to get it, but occasional acknowledgement that this is hard would be nice.
“The problem with Long COVID is that most of society would rather not see it.”
@philipandrewhoover.bsky.social writes that he often feels that he’s living a double life. How can this sick side of him be so central, so enormous, yet so unseen by those who know and love him? bit.ly/4pf80g7
@philipandrewhoover.bsky.social writes that he often feels that he’s living a double life. How can this sick side of him be so central, so enormous, yet so unseen by those who know and love him? bit.ly/4pf80g7
December 1, 2025 at 8:23 PM
No matter how big or bad, I have always “pushed through” obstacles w/sheer force of will. Yet, a grocery run now can leave me collapsed in a sweating, shaking heap of anesthesia- grade fatigue & fog. I don’t expect most folks to get it, but occasional acknowledgement that this is hard would be nice.
Girls be like I don’t want to take meds I’ll lose my divine spark, and their divine spark is just casting eternal darkness upon Ten Towns.
November 29, 2025 at 6:44 PM
Girls be like I don’t want to take meds I’ll lose my divine spark, and their divine spark is just casting eternal darkness upon Ten Towns.
The demo was super cute and I was sad when it ended, I can’t wait till the full version is released.
wishlist my game plz i'll love you forever
Plant Care 101: Watering! 💧
In Greenhearth Necromancer, your plants will live (and die! and live once more!) based on your care. At the core of this is watering your plants. Keep an eye out for thirsty plants to ensure they stay healthy. 🌱
In Greenhearth Necromancer, your plants will live (and die! and live once more!) based on your care. At the core of this is watering your plants. Keep an eye out for thirsty plants to ensure they stay healthy. 🌱
November 26, 2025 at 5:04 PM
The demo was super cute and I was sad when it ended, I can’t wait till the full version is released.
When the school is trying so hard to be trans competent that they correctly gender your trans spouse and misgender you ✨
November 24, 2025 at 6:36 PM
When the school is trying so hard to be trans competent that they correctly gender your trans spouse and misgender you ✨
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![Ambulatory mobility aid users going out in public: @emmanewbound [woman vampire from what we do in the shadows, possibly wearing cat ears on her head "let the ceremony of judgement commence"]](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:dbzmdmsaz6lkhb4tv3culzme/bafkreibfj6fpsslftwle7vjmgodnw7xpt3bcv4tejjeihbhxk2bftyzlhu@jpeg)
I’m almost done interviews and am close to starting analysis but between those two I have to prepare my transcripts and I’m intensely dreading this process.
November 24, 2025 at 5:17 PM
I’m almost done interviews and am close to starting analysis but between those two I have to prepare my transcripts and I’m intensely dreading this process.
The number of people I interview who state they would have come out or transitioned earlier if they had access to historical depictions of people like themselves is so significant. We need to see ourselves represented not just today but across time - to know we have always been here. #AcademicSky
November 23, 2025 at 6:37 PM
The number of people I interview who state they would have come out or transitioned earlier if they had access to historical depictions of people like themselves is so significant. We need to see ourselves represented not just today but across time - to know we have always been here. #AcademicSky
Taking a sick day when you’re chronically ill is fraught.
What if I get sick with a virus and need the time off later?
I feel sick and work through it every day, what makes today different?
I technically feel up to working but my baseline has been decreasing.
There’s no good choices #NEISVoid
What if I get sick with a virus and need the time off later?
I feel sick and work through it every day, what makes today different?
I technically feel up to working but my baseline has been decreasing.
There’s no good choices #NEISVoid
November 21, 2025 at 5:25 PM
Taking a sick day when you’re chronically ill is fraught.
What if I get sick with a virus and need the time off later?
I feel sick and work through it every day, what makes today different?
I technically feel up to working but my baseline has been decreasing.
There’s no good choices #NEISVoid
What if I get sick with a virus and need the time off later?
I feel sick and work through it every day, what makes today different?
I technically feel up to working but my baseline has been decreasing.
There’s no good choices #NEISVoid
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Did you know that trans people are more likely to report having Long COVID than cis people are?
On this annual Transgender Day of Resilience (TDOR), we’re sharing our resource on Long COVID in trans people.
Created with @longcovidjustice.org
longcovidjustice.org/lc-in-trans-people
On this annual Transgender Day of Resilience (TDOR), we’re sharing our resource on Long COVID in trans people.
Created with @longcovidjustice.org
longcovidjustice.org/lc-in-trans-people
November 20, 2025 at 2:14 PM
Did you know that trans people are more likely to report having Long COVID than cis people are?
On this annual Transgender Day of Resilience (TDOR), we’re sharing our resource on Long COVID in trans people.
Created with @longcovidjustice.org
longcovidjustice.org/lc-in-trans-people
On this annual Transgender Day of Resilience (TDOR), we’re sharing our resource on Long COVID in trans people.
Created with @longcovidjustice.org
longcovidjustice.org/lc-in-trans-people
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Could we get this circulated again? I'm so sorry to ask but I had to push my root canal back a week because I couldn't afford it. I'm still going back-and-forth with the bank about fixing my situation. It's exhausting and I'm a bit broken at the moment to be honest. Any help would be amazing. Ty🖤🖤🖤
Hi y'all I very prematurely closed my old gfm and I've started a new one. Things are quite dire and it's looking like I'm going to need to hire a lawyer which I can't afford. Your help would mean the world to me truly.
CA: @margotlaine
Venmo: @marghoul
CA: @margotlaine
Venmo: @marghoul
Donate to Help Margot Recover from Financial Crisis, organized by Margot Laine
Hi, it's me, Margot. This is my situation. About two months ago, all of my savi… Margot Laine needs your support for Help Margot Recover from Financial Crisis
gofund.me
November 20, 2025 at 4:47 PM
Could we get this circulated again? I'm so sorry to ask but I had to push my root canal back a week because I couldn't afford it. I'm still going back-and-forth with the bank about fixing my situation. It's exhausting and I'm a bit broken at the moment to be honest. Any help would be amazing. Ty🖤🖤🖤
Often when I’ve had horrific doctors appointments I have had people try to convince me to make complaints about it, missing the point of how incredibly baked into the system this all is, what an exhausting use of energy it would be.
November 20, 2025 at 4:33 PM
Often when I’ve had horrific doctors appointments I have had people try to convince me to make complaints about it, missing the point of how incredibly baked into the system this all is, what an exhausting use of energy it would be.
Nothing more glamorous than suddenly going freezing cold, sweating, passing out in your kitchen, throwing up on your floor and hair, and then crying in a puddle of vomit waiting for your wife to come home because you’re too weak to move. #NEISVoid
November 19, 2025 at 1:40 AM
Nothing more glamorous than suddenly going freezing cold, sweating, passing out in your kitchen, throwing up on your floor and hair, and then crying in a puddle of vomit waiting for your wife to come home because you’re too weak to move. #NEISVoid
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Hi y'all I very prematurely closed my old gfm and I've started a new one. Things are quite dire and it's looking like I'm going to need to hire a lawyer which I can't afford. Your help would mean the world to me truly.
CA: @margotlaine
Venmo: @marghoul
CA: @margotlaine
Venmo: @marghoul
Donate to Help Margot Recover from Financial Crisis, organized by Margot Laine
Hi, it's me, Margot. This is my situation. About two months ago, all of my savi… Margot Laine needs your support for Help Margot Recover from Financial Crisis
gofund.me
November 14, 2025 at 1:56 AM
Hi y'all I very prematurely closed my old gfm and I've started a new one. Things are quite dire and it's looking like I'm going to need to hire a lawyer which I can't afford. Your help would mean the world to me truly.
CA: @margotlaine
Venmo: @marghoul
CA: @margotlaine
Venmo: @marghoul
I’ve been incredibly blessed that my close friends have rallied around me even harder… but I’ve also noticed where I stopped getting invited to. Especially around Covid cautiousness. And folks have straight up said they haven’t invited me because “it wouldn’t be safe” as though out of their control.
![@bennessb
sick pal:I'm not able to do that activity anymore due to illness
other pal: oh no! i'm so sorry! i'll really miss you in my life!
sick pal: we can still be in each other's lives, just with new activities
other pal: [not listening] RIP sick pal, you'll live forever in my heart](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:dbzmdmsaz6lkhb4tv3culzme/bafkreigbbmoejredy2cfq3yj37ccf2e4rqjl2wpsdekttirzqmdow6ryby@jpeg)
November 17, 2025 at 4:55 PM
I’ve been incredibly blessed that my close friends have rallied around me even harder… but I’ve also noticed where I stopped getting invited to. Especially around Covid cautiousness. And folks have straight up said they haven’t invited me because “it wouldn’t be safe” as though out of their control.
I fell asleep listening to A Game in Yellow and then had extremely vivid narrated dreams and sleep paralysis where I thought I had woken up but none of my devices would turn on while a looming presence watched me so that was an experience 😵💫
November 17, 2025 at 3:59 PM
I fell asleep listening to A Game in Yellow and then had extremely vivid narrated dreams and sleep paralysis where I thought I had woken up but none of my devices would turn on while a looming presence watched me so that was an experience 😵💫
One of my big fears in going back to work was that I would have enough energy to do my job but not enough for joy and these post-activity crashes make me worried that I’m heading in that direction.
It’s really emotionally challenging to know I can balance work and grad school from bed and my couch while feeling fine and then get destroyed when I try to do things that bring me joy. I’ve been in bed all day in and out of sleep, trying to regain enough energy to deal with my life.
For the second weekend in a row I did some activity and got utterly wrecked. I’ve improved enough that day to day I almost can forget I have ME, I’ve adjusted my life to live within my energy envelope and my week feels okay. Then I have fun and I’m painfully reminded how disabled I am #NEISVoid
November 16, 2025 at 10:24 PM
One of my big fears in going back to work was that I would have enough energy to do my job but not enough for joy and these post-activity crashes make me worried that I’m heading in that direction.
It’s really emotionally challenging to know I can balance work and grad school from bed and my couch while feeling fine and then get destroyed when I try to do things that bring me joy. I’ve been in bed all day in and out of sleep, trying to regain enough energy to deal with my life.
For the second weekend in a row I did some activity and got utterly wrecked. I’ve improved enough that day to day I almost can forget I have ME, I’ve adjusted my life to live within my energy envelope and my week feels okay. Then I have fun and I’m painfully reminded how disabled I am #NEISVoid
November 16, 2025 at 10:20 PM
It’s really emotionally challenging to know I can balance work and grad school from bed and my couch while feeling fine and then get destroyed when I try to do things that bring me joy. I’ve been in bed all day in and out of sleep, trying to regain enough energy to deal with my life.
For the second weekend in a row I did some activity and got utterly wrecked. I’ve improved enough that day to day I almost can forget I have ME, I’ve adjusted my life to live within my energy envelope and my week feels okay. Then I have fun and I’m painfully reminded how disabled I am #NEISVoid
November 16, 2025 at 10:18 PM
For the second weekend in a row I did some activity and got utterly wrecked. I’ve improved enough that day to day I almost can forget I have ME, I’ve adjusted my life to live within my energy envelope and my week feels okay. Then I have fun and I’m painfully reminded how disabled I am #NEISVoid