tee ✨ they/them
banner
comrademum.bsky.social
tee ✨ they/them
@comrademum.bsky.social
gender chaotic gremlin
antifascist antiracist ancom
love is revolutionary
can i just say, despite all the shit 2025 lobbed at me, this has been one of the best years of my life. i was freed from a shitty marriage, worked on myself, made new friends, travelled, got two raises, and fell head over heels in love. thank you 2025 for giving me my life back 🖤
December 19, 2025 at 1:33 AM
also, this weekend was incredible in all the best possible ways and i am so sad to be going home 😭
December 15, 2025 at 4:12 PM
holy shit, so my ex texted as my flight was getting in on friday… he’s signing the agreement on wednesday 😭 im so close to being free!!!
December 15, 2025 at 4:11 PM
i forgot how much i hate flying… was supposed to have 1hr 50m layover… flight left late… i’ll have 15 minutes to catch my connecting from YYC to YEG 🫠 universe is really testing my patience today
December 12, 2025 at 9:28 PM
14 years of anticipation means i am wound tighter than grandmas girdle… can it please be tomorrow now?!
December 11, 2025 at 8:25 PM
omg it’s almost tomorrow 😭 i am going to be useless at work for the next few hours
December 11, 2025 at 8:24 PM
all i want to do is sleep so it can be friday, but insomnias a bitch
December 11, 2025 at 6:27 AM
3 DAYSSSSSS 🎉
December 9, 2025 at 6:18 PM
it’s so fucking wild to me that my life is this amazing rn… by all accounts i should feel like shit, but the freedom and happiness that comes with becoming a divorcee and an empty nester at the same time is overwhelming
December 9, 2025 at 6:17 PM
i think the most agonising part of getting divorced is waiting on the dumb fuck who asked for it to sign off so you can be free of their bullshit once and for all
December 3, 2025 at 4:11 AM
if you’re looking for me, i’ll be in my room listening to “why can’t i” by liz phair on repeat for the next… 9ish days
December 3, 2025 at 4:09 AM
i forgot how amazing happy feels
December 3, 2025 at 4:08 AM
i know i’ve posted this before but holy shit the accuracy 😂
has it ever hit you, all of a sudden out & of the blue, how nearly 16.5 years ago, you met your ex-spouse, and you were so excited that someone actually liked you (you, who felt was unlovable & unlikable), that you promptly tossed your own needs and personality out and settled?
December 3, 2025 at 4:03 AM
i literally could cry. after the longest period of writers block in my entire goddamn life, i’m fucking BACK, baby!
November 13, 2025 at 7:46 AM
it is so exhausting to give 150% to everything. the pools just started filling and i’m ready to cannonball already 😂
November 1, 2025 at 10:32 PM
Reposted by tee ✨ they/them
The U.S. military is illegally killing civilians in international waters — and Canada is involved.

Read our detailed blog post to learn more: drugpolicy.ca/canadas-comp...
October 30, 2025 at 8:43 PM
it only took 8 months post separation for me to be dancing and singing in my kitchen again. noting this as a reminder that i never again want to reach a place where i stop doing this bc of a man
October 30, 2025 at 7:16 PM
Reposted by tee ✨ they/them
‘The truth is there’s a lot of rock bottoms’: Musician Francis Baptiste aims to break down the stigma of addiction through his music.

He credits consistent, daily effort for helping him overcome addiction.

Watch the full Face to Face interview: youtu.be/_DZEygv6uo8
October 30, 2025 at 7:11 PM
okay i only waited an hour to check it but positive response so i’ll take it
October 30, 2025 at 6:21 AM
there’s nothing quite like sending a risky text and then immediately putting your phone on dnd and hiding from the response 🫠
October 30, 2025 at 4:48 AM
i can’t say 100% for sure, but i have reasonable suspicion that a rewatch of @danielsloss.bsky.social ‘s jigsaw ended my marriage… 👀 how many is that now?
August 4, 2025 at 8:23 PM
i am tired of seeing patterns long before disaster strikes and being gaslit about it, only to be proven ENTIRELY CORRECT
April 23, 2025 at 6:18 AM
nothing like watching the debate and discussing with a friend only to find out they’re voting conservative 😭😭😭
April 18, 2025 at 2:43 AM
Reposted by tee ✨ they/them
Sharing my heartbreak and solidarity with my trans siblings in the UK today. To paraphrase MLK: we are not finished when we are defeated; we are only finished when we quit.

Today may be a defeat but we will not quit - we will continue to fight and we will win! 🏳️‍⚧️
April 16, 2025 at 7:42 PM
Reposted by tee ✨ they/them
Is Kilmar Abrego Garcia alive? Because the amount of resistance to addressing his being trafficked gives the distinct impression that either he is dead or what they have done to him is so unspeakable that they cannot afford for him to be freed, seen, or spoken with.
April 16, 2025 at 7:20 PM