Miranda ~*Randi*~ Doerfler
@docsaico.bsky.social
Chef. Honk. Horror Mage. Cat Mom to Dairy Queen. Techno-Zen Hippy. Progressive Liberal. Unavailable. Uninterested. Anti-AI. ACAB. Always be kind. Mind your own business.
HAHA! 😅 He was still hella cute in the dream.
January 14, 2026 at 6:03 PM
HAHA! 😅 He was still hella cute in the dream.
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Really excellent point. I’m so grateful to have you guys to talk to. ♥️♥️
January 13, 2026 at 11:11 PM
Really excellent point. I’m so grateful to have you guys to talk to. ♥️♥️
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Be direct. You have boundaries and that anxiety exists for a reason. If you’re not comfortable, you’re not comfortable. Communicate your needs.
January 12, 2026 at 10:08 PM
Be direct. You have boundaries and that anxiety exists for a reason. If you’re not comfortable, you’re not comfortable. Communicate your needs.
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I'd say speak to him about prefering to meet in person, and follow up by asking what the appeal of a phone call is for him; then you both know what will make the other comfortable and you can decide from there
January 12, 2026 at 9:42 PM
I'd say speak to him about prefering to meet in person, and follow up by asking what the appeal of a phone call is for him; then you both know what will make the other comfortable and you can decide from there
Thank you!! Okay, I shall!
January 12, 2026 at 10:31 PM
Thank you!! Okay, I shall!
This is great advice, thank you!
January 12, 2026 at 10:31 PM
This is great advice, thank you!
It just does always seem like I’m following other people’s rules, but they don’t care about or respect mine. Why can’t we text? Why do we have to talk on the phone? Ugh.
January 12, 2026 at 9:41 PM
It just does always seem like I’m following other people’s rules, but they don’t care about or respect mine. Why can’t we text? Why do we have to talk on the phone? Ugh.
I did have weird dreams, though. Don’t remember what was going on, just random details? Casino, people I was avoiding/hiding from, Maya, friends I hardly see, an elevator, a movie theater…weird.
January 11, 2026 at 5:22 PM
I did have weird dreams, though. Don’t remember what was going on, just random details? Casino, people I was avoiding/hiding from, Maya, friends I hardly see, an elevator, a movie theater…weird.