Dr Naomi Fisher
@drnaomifisher.bsky.social
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Clinical psychologist, author of Changing Our Minds, When the Naughty Step Makes Things Worse and the Teenager's Guide to Burnout. Substack: Think Again naomicfisher.substack.com. Website: www.naomifisher.co.uk.
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Alternative education in the UK is under attack. Home educators are under suspicion. Small schools are shut down by VAT on fees. Part time learning groups set up by parents are treated as illegal schools. Our kids need alternative ways to learn. School isn’t always the right thing. Who is listening?
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Anni wasn’t happy at school. She was crying in the evenings and saying she had tummy aches in the morning.
Her dad went into school for a meeting. 1/
a white child's face
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Is your teenager coming out of school and not sure what to do? Here's the advice of a home educated 17-year-old.

"It can be hard if you've just come out of school to know what you're interested in, because you might think “All school stuff is boring. I'm not interested in any of that”. /1
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When I talk about the effect on children of behavioural practices which are used in some schools, I’m often told that these are trivial. Here's why I disagree.
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It's Not Trivial To Them
Why the things that we say and do to children matter
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This is a raw, hard-hitting video about the reality for many children and parents.

It shows that the ‘SEND crisis’ isn’t just about children. It’s about families whose lives are completely overturned by the lack of understanding & provision for their children.

www.theguardian.com/education/vi...
How children with special educational needs are being failed in England – video
From anxious children unable to cope with school to those with more complex, profound disabilities, support for Send children in England is broken. The Guardian meets parents and children to get a sen...
www.theguardian.com
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teresasm.bsky.social
I don't know if it could help but @drnaomifisher.bsky.social has a few courses around gelping teenagers, particularly around accepting a different path that isn't school and to heal from burnout.
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teresasm.bsky.social
I've read some of what @drnaomifisher.bsky.social says about motivation and between that and what I see with my son in school (and in the past with me): you're not going to enjoy something that you're *made* to do, you have to be scored on and is made into a chore.
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My autism courses for parents are HALF PRICE just until Sunday. Pre-recorded, short and packed full of useful information. Please share the code EASTER with any parents who might want to know.

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Dr. Naomi Fisher's Courses
Sale on Dr Naomi Fisher's autism courses on anxiety, transitions, screens and anger.
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empoweredscotland.bsky.social
Please give this a watch. The issues are similar in Scotland sadly.
drnaomifisher.bsky.social
This is a raw, hard-hitting video about the reality for many children and parents.

It shows that the ‘SEND crisis’ isn’t just about children. It’s about families whose lives are completely overturned by the lack of understanding & provision for their children.

www.theguardian.com/education/vi...
How children with special educational needs are being failed in England – video
From anxious children unable to cope with school to those with more complex, profound disabilities, support for Send children in England is broken. The Guardian meets parents and children to get a sen...
www.theguardian.com
drnaomifisher.bsky.social
My autism courses for parents are HALF PRICE just until Sunday. Pre-recorded, short and packed full of useful information. Please share the code EASTER with any parents who might want to know.

courses.naomifisher.co.uk
Dr. Naomi Fisher's Courses
Sale on Dr Naomi Fisher's autism courses on anxiety, transitions, screens and anger.
courses.naomifisher.co.uk
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drnaomifisher.bsky.social
We need to help them out.

Making home less fun improves nothing.
It needs to stop. 9/
drnaomifisher.bsky.social
This is a raw, hard-hitting video about the reality for many children and parents.

It shows that the ‘SEND crisis’ isn’t just about children. It’s about families whose lives are completely overturned by the lack of understanding & provision for their children.

www.theguardian.com/education/vi...
How children with special educational needs are being failed in England – video
From anxious children unable to cope with school to those with more complex, profound disabilities, support for Send children in England is broken. The Guardian meets parents and children to get a sen...
www.theguardian.com
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drnaomifisher.bsky.social
Our new book is OUT NOW. It's an illustrated guide for professionals and it covers how to make schools fit for children, what happens when school goes wrong&working with children outside the school system.Informed by research, professional expertise and lived experience. @elizafricker.bsky.social.
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maxpurpose.bsky.social
Just ordered this book, looking forward to reading it. @drnaomifisher.bsky.social @elizafricker.bsky.social #edpsychs
drnaomifisher.bsky.social
Our new book is OUT NOW. It's an illustrated guide for professionals and it covers how to make schools fit for children, what happens when school goes wrong&working with children outside the school system.Informed by research, professional expertise and lived experience. @elizafricker.bsky.social.
drnaomifisher.bsky.social
We need to help them out.

Making home less fun improves nothing.
It needs to stop. 9/
drnaomifisher.bsky.social
This is a high risk intervention. It risks pushing children into misery and burnout. Instead of helping, we’re making the child’s life worse.
This can’t be the solution. If children are unhappy at school, we need to ask why. 8/
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I was surprised the first time I heard a story like Anni’s. Now I’ve heard similar stories too many times. But one thing that I do know is that parents are still being told to make their children less happy at home, so that school seems like less of a contrast. 7/
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Her dad was horrified. Hang on a minute, he said.
She’s not happy at school and your suggestion is that the way to improve this is to make her less happy at home?
How will that improve things at school?
They didn’t have an answer. 6/
drnaomifisher.bsky.social
The solution? Make home less fun. Give her fewer choices, and less attention. They said that if she stayed home from school, then her parents should interact with her as little as possible. Take away her toys and put her in the front room alone.
That way school would seem better in comparison. 5/
drnaomifisher.bsky.social
Home was just too much fun and Anni was used to life being too pleasant. She was used to being able to make her own decisions and expected adults to listen to what she had to say. 4/
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He was surprised, because it turned out that the school didn’t think the problem was anything to do with Anni’s time there. The issue, as they saw it, was that Anni’s parents were too nice to her at home. 3/
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He’d expected a conversation about what was happening during the school day and whether there were any changes which could be made. 2/