Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate
@elchefe.me
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BJJ practitioner and teacher, empathetic technology advocate. Neurospicy, mentally ill, and unapologetic. Black/Latino, nonbinary (they/them) , pan/poly. spüße müße. Opinions are my own. EN/SP/PT
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elchefe.me
1000000% this
kschwenky.bsky.social
Everything we’re dealing with, this fresh hell every fucking day is thanks to the Dems/DNC kneecapping progressives instead of republicans.
walkerbragman.bsky.social
77-year-old Maine Gov. Janet Mills has apparently been coaxed into jumping into the Maine Senate race, challenging Graham Platner in a Democratic primary.

The 40-year-old Platner has become a favorite of progressives and Democrats wanting a more muscular response to Trump. He has raised millions.
elchefe.me
If that’s what you took away from her post, it speaks more to your own personal sense of inferiority than anything she said.
elchefe.me
While she deserves better than this world, I hope she will bless us with her presence for a while longer
elchefe.me
If it won't affect whether or not the law goes into effect, I don't see the point in calling. You already know by the fact that he hasn't signed them that he doesn't hold protecting trans rights as a value. Punish him at the polls for it.
elchefe.me
But again, if he doesn't sign them, they still become law, right?
elchefe.me
I absolutely agree that it is morally the right thing to do. And if he was a moral, ethical person, he would have done so already.

If you have to ask him to do it, it already tells you that he is not a moral or ethical person.

"When someone shows you who they are, believe them" kinda vibe.
elchefe.me
My question is, then, why would you be asking people to call him and ask him to sign it?
elchefe.me
I suppose, but a pocket veto is still a veto.
elchefe.me
If a person wants to get votes progressive and leftist votes for the democrat party nomination (or votes from them in general), you shouldn't have to beg that person to protect trans rights when bills come across their desk.
elchefe.me
Seemingly, if he held trans rights as a value, you wouldn't have to beg him to sign the bills, no?

Like, the very notion that he needs people to call him to persuade him to do this tells you that he can't be trusted to protect trans folks if it's not politically expedient.
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mskellymhayes.bsky.social
Y'all who keep lecturing protesters to "not give them an excuse" need to pause for a minute. Imagine yourself telling a DV victim, "Be sure not to mouth off or make any mistakes so he won't hit you. Don't give him an excuse! It's what he wants!" That's what you fools sound like.
elchefe.me
And I don't even have to argue "what if it was the other way around" because it doesn't matter. Shaming people for their sex drives is shitty. Full stop.
elchefe.me
This may be a hot take, but if you respect people's bodily autonomy, you understand how age and stress affect the body, and that relationships change over time, then you wouldn't be pointing fingers and laughing at someone who decided that feeling pressure for sex is cause for ending a relationship.
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codefreedomritr.bsky.social
Does anyone have any resources to help explain to a developmentally disabled adult that they have cancer in an appropriate way? Are there books for this? I’m so overwhelmed
elchefe.me
Stop your messin' around...
elchefe.me
My only thought on impeachment is that it would actually shore up sympathy from his base if they did this now, especially since they’d never have the votes for it.
zachrabiroff.com
That this is not only considered implausible, but that nobody in the top echelons of Congress (in either party!) will even consider being gauche enough to say the i-word, is the surest sign that the entire federal legislative branch has declared bankruptcy as a going concern.
grudgie.bsky.social
Look. Invading our own country is about as straightforward a case as you can have for impeachment. The GOP abandoning the Constitution is kind of the only story there is and it gets no coverage.
elchefe.me
Aside from posting in all caps on Twitter and shuffling paperwork in court, what are you doing to do to protect the people of your state against ICE agents, red state national guard, and your own state/local police who are acting as deputized brown shirts?
Do you have any power as governor or not?
elchefe.me
Tell us, whats been happening to the immigrants and protestors who’ve been peaceful and defiant so far?
Have the brown shirts peacefully acquiesced to their demands?
elchefe.me
The fact that you think that Trump would allow the normal democratic process to proceed tells us you have no grasp on the current situation.
Further, your notion of “just want 4 more years” seems like you aren’t very concerned about the irreparable damage to lives that would happen in that time.
elchefe.me
Anthropomorphizing a software program to the point where you’re defending it from “slurs” is a good indicator that you need to spend more time outside and also in a therapist’s office
gaudipern.bsky.social
People... are allowed to come up with mean names for inanimate objects. If you compare this practice to racial slurs, I'm going to think you believe people of other races hold the same concrete significance and value as inanimate objects. This is one of those slips that does not look good on anyone.
elchefe.me
You get to see it every time!
elchefe.me
Honestly, Newsome’s messaging and energy aren’t holding a candle to Zohran Mamdani, and he’s doing without selling out marginalized folks to come to the middle.
elchefe.me
I def rock crop tops and 5” inseam shorts around the house and gym, but I don’t think anyone want to see me post those pictures on here 😄😄