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elise
@eliseitdoesntmattr.bsky.social
41 transfem. she/her. i write (shitty) code, play guitar (badly), and describe myself (parenthetically)

https://www.last.fm/user/elise_listens
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This.

Be for something, or someone.

Connection is so important, and to repeat my favorite sappy quote from Contact:

“See, in all our searching, the only thing we've found that makes the emptiness bearable, is each other.”
The opposite of fascism isn't resistance; it's connection.

Find your tribe or tribes and connect with them. Love them. Throw your whole heart into them.

Don't fall into the trap that you just need to be against something. Be for something.
January 20, 2026 at 4:18 AM
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Getting gendered correctly at the mexican restaurant aged 43, we call that...
November 17, 2025 at 10:50 PM
i love this picture of myself. that is all.
November 14, 2025 at 3:26 PM
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I'm an unemployed mum from TERF island, I have a fundraiser to help me access the care I desperately need that the state won't give me.

I'm hoping first to get vocal surgery, which costs approx £7000 and would help me so much

Any shares much appreciated ❤️

chuffed.org/project/131234
Help Dee Get Her Gender Affirming Surgeries 🌈🏳️‍⚧️
Hi, I'm Talyn, a good friend of Dee's and I want to get her at least off to a good start fulfilling her dream of getting gender affirming surgeries.
chuffed.org
August 21, 2025 at 6:19 PM
my first face lasers tomorrow. fuck. yes.
August 5, 2025 at 10:54 PM
it used to be that i ranked pictures of myself on a scale that ranged from disgust to tolerance.

the scale has changed now. even boymode pictures are starting to look femme enough that i can tolerate them. and now, these past few months, i've started taking pictures that i sincerely love.
July 8, 2025 at 5:12 PM