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Elizabeth Ann Cunningham
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Skeptics will give you skepticism.
Cynics will give you cynicism.
People with lived-experience, will share their experience.
But only taking action will give you wisdom.
December 11, 2025 at 4:00 AM
The thing that's missing is love.
December 10, 2025 at 1:22 AM
Monogamous and non monogamous relationships can all be unhealthy.

Not because of the structure, but because of the behavior of the people in them.

Trying to fix things by changing the structure before looking at behavior, is like putting a bandaid on a bullet wound.
December 2, 2025 at 11:47 PM
Just heard an ad that said “Only in America can you trample someone for a good deal the day after you spent time being thankful for what you already have.” And I think that’s the most honest ad I’ve ever seen.
December 1, 2025 at 6:57 PM
Keep going.
November 29, 2025 at 7:02 PM
No one has anything figured out.

There’s just people who try to figure it out first before they take action, and people who take action and figure it out as they go.
November 29, 2025 at 7:01 PM
It’s the little stuff that really matters.

Research shows that in relationships, it’s not the big things make or break the relationship. It’s the little moments; smiling when they walk in, walking past and giving a squeeze, the small compliments.

What’s one small connecting thing you can do today?
November 27, 2025 at 11:38 PM
Healthy relationships happen when you can trust yourself enough to listen to your gut.
November 26, 2025 at 10:36 PM
“I bear the wounds of all the battles I avoided.” - Fernando Pessoa
November 25, 2025 at 9:06 PM
For polyamory day, most common things I hear polyamorous people say about being polyamorous:

“I’ve just always felt like I had the desire and want to love multiple people.”

“Reserving my love for just one person has never made sense to me. It feels like I’m cutting off parts of who I am.”

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November 24, 2025 at 3:46 AM
If you’re new to polyamory or non monogamy.
Actually…even if you’re not new this is a good idea.
Start with how you feel and what feels true for you and get curious about that instead of trying to find a label to fit into.
Otherwise you’re stuck “figuring it out” instead of discovering what works.
November 14, 2025 at 7:16 AM
You’ve heard it before but it bears repeating:

You can only meet people where they are at.
November 11, 2025 at 5:26 AM
May we all have friends that forgive us when we mess up.

May we all have friends that can have hard conversations that help us grow.

May we all have friends that celebrate the shit out of us and what we are up to.

May we all have friends that can give us honest feedback.
November 10, 2025 at 3:49 AM
The moment you have decided you know something, is the moment you stop learning and start becoming arrogant.

The moment you become arrogant you become judgmental.

The moment you become judgmental you slowly stop seeing the other’s humanity.

Stay open to knew information. Stay open to being wrong.
October 23, 2025 at 12:57 AM
I create because I create.
I love because I love.
I live because I live.
I’m joyful because I’m joyful.
I’m sad because I’m sad.
I’m satisfied because I’m satisfied.
I’m mad because I’m mad.
I’m free because I’m free.
I exist because I exist.
October 23, 2025 at 12:53 AM
Remember that whatever you admire in others, others admire in you.
October 13, 2025 at 6:37 PM
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You can’t get into Heaven if you go around arresting innocent people and pardoning guilty ones.
October 10, 2025 at 12:04 AM
What would make everything easier or unnecessary?

Stop fearing one another and start loving one another.
October 1, 2025 at 3:05 AM
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It’s official: AIPAC is trying to buy my election to keep me out of Congress.

Apparently, I’m a “dangerous detractor”... by believing Palestinians (like myself and my family) deserve basic human rights.

But we’re not going to let AIPAC win.
September 30, 2025 at 12:27 AM
Beautiful day to water the water in Seattle. Can anyone explain this?
September 29, 2025 at 5:17 AM
Relationship tip of the day:
Look at how people treat others because they will treat you that way eventually.

If they blame others, they will eventually blame you.

If they gossip about others, they will gossip about you.

Paying attention to people’s behavior is the best way to get to know them.
September 28, 2025 at 3:48 AM
Just because your trauma is “less bad” than someone else’s doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to heal from it.
September 26, 2025 at 7:09 PM
Think of all the things you do now that at one point scared you or you didn’t know how to do them.

Now think of things right now that you’re afraid of or you don’t know how to do.

See where I’m going with this?
September 25, 2025 at 10:56 PM
Ignorant people think there is only one way.
Arrogant people think there’s only their way.
Smart people know there are multiple ways.
Wise people know there isn’t “a way.”

And if you’re honest with yourself, you’ve been all of these people and may still be each of these people in different ways.
September 22, 2025 at 7:04 PM
If you’re a woman or a queer person, I hope your resistance involves orgasms.
September 22, 2025 at 4:17 AM