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it’s great to have things in common with my partner, but i don’t think we necessarily need to share the experience of sudden weird lower limb pain. long-distance.
December 27, 2025 at 1:24 AM
it’s great to have things in common with my partner, but i don’t think we necessarily need to share the experience of sudden weird lower limb pain. long-distance.
i did houseplant related activities and now i need to clean up after myself which i feel is very unfair
December 26, 2025 at 3:48 PM
i did houseplant related activities and now i need to clean up after myself which i feel is very unfair
”Thanks, Dean”
Just passing through the Pennines (namely Royston Vasey) as I head back to Manchester. The shops offer some rather questionable Christmas card options.
December 23, 2025 at 12:51 AM
”Thanks, Dean”
late by a day but luckily the sun doesn’t run according to my schedule and will do its thing regardless. happy solstice!
December 23, 2025 at 12:27 AM
late by a day but luckily the sun doesn’t run according to my schedule and will do its thing regardless. happy solstice!
a scarily accurate picture of my partner 😳
December 18, 2025 at 5:31 PM
a scarily accurate picture of my partner 😳
bought a huge piece of art today from someone who didn’t have a place for it. it belonged to their late mother and is maybe from china and maybe painted on silk. it’s absolutely gorgeous irl, almost looks alive
December 17, 2025 at 7:16 PM
bought a huge piece of art today from someone who didn’t have a place for it. it belonged to their late mother and is maybe from china and maybe painted on silk. it’s absolutely gorgeous irl, almost looks alive
i was watching some old eps of that wedding dress show and there was this bride whose twin brothers very badly wanted to see her in a form-fitting dress. they where all 😍🥰 when she finally gave in and i just think that incest
December 14, 2025 at 10:48 PM
i was watching some old eps of that wedding dress show and there was this bride whose twin brothers very badly wanted to see her in a form-fitting dress. they where all 😍🥰 when she finally gave in and i just think that incest
my therapist today: the usual assumption is that if something is expected of you at a funeral, those organizing it should let you know in advance. you’re not ”being difficult” or ”demanding too much” if you ask for that info.
December 13, 2025 at 12:45 AM
my therapist today: the usual assumption is that if something is expected of you at a funeral, those organizing it should let you know in advance. you’re not ”being difficult” or ”demanding too much” if you ask for that info.
i just saw an ad for an AI toothbrush. i don’t think we, as a civilization, deserve to survive
December 10, 2025 at 5:12 PM
i just saw an ad for an AI toothbrush. i don’t think we, as a civilization, deserve to survive
day three without a father (for real) and honestly the strange calm sense of things finally being as they should just continues
December 10, 2025 at 1:17 AM
day three without a father (for real) and honestly the strange calm sense of things finally being as they should just continues
my (first) abusive and (then) distant father died last night and it took a while for me to figure out why the relief i feel is so familiar: it’s similar to when i had my mastectomy—my outer reality finally matches my inner one
December 7, 2025 at 9:09 AM
my (first) abusive and (then) distant father died last night and it took a while for me to figure out why the relief i feel is so familiar: it’s similar to when i had my mastectomy—my outer reality finally matches my inner one
in other news: our local hr rep was suddenly made redundant and the vibes at the office are grim
December 3, 2025 at 3:40 PM
in other news: our local hr rep was suddenly made redundant and the vibes at the office are grim
listening to 像阳光一样 on my way home from work and damn am i glad i saved a version on my playlist before the official one was removed from the cursed music app
December 3, 2025 at 3:39 PM
listening to 像阳光一样 on my way home from work and damn am i glad i saved a version on my playlist before the official one was removed from the cursed music app
got to the end of the yi city arc with my partner, who is seeing cql for the first time (and hasn't seen any c-drama before). they were confused about the significance of this side-plot, but thought that underneath the over-the-top drama the yi city trio has pretty fascinating dynamics going on
November 30, 2025 at 6:29 PM
got to the end of the yi city arc with my partner, who is seeing cql for the first time (and hasn't seen any c-drama before). they were confused about the significance of this side-plot, but thought that underneath the over-the-top drama the yi city trio has pretty fascinating dynamics going on
heard today that we have a ”mentalist” booked for our office xmas party and am planning my own vanishing act accordingly. my mental health is precarious enough that any sort of participatory mental poking is out of the question, even if ”just for funsies”
November 26, 2025 at 6:42 PM
heard today that we have a ”mentalist” booked for our office xmas party and am planning my own vanishing act accordingly. my mental health is precarious enough that any sort of participatory mental poking is out of the question, even if ”just for funsies”
usually my doctor* responds to a message within 1-3 business days, in writing. this time she called me within an hour. and booked me an appointment with a psychiatrist for the next day. so that’s how my mental health is going
November 20, 2025 at 8:48 PM
usually my doctor* responds to a message within 1-3 business days, in writing. this time she called me within an hour. and booked me an appointment with a psychiatrist for the next day. so that’s how my mental health is going
rare instance of me making a big portion of food-food. this was so good, and there’s a lot left over for tomorrow AND some in the freezer too!
November 10, 2025 at 6:21 PM
rare instance of me making a big portion of food-food. this was so good, and there’s a lot left over for tomorrow AND some in the freezer too!
woodworking youtubers be like: ”hey guys! today we’re going to do a little DIY ikea flip” *proceeds to use 20 different tools in a professionally set up space* ”anyway i think this was a nice beginner friendly project so give it a try! see you guys next time! bye!”
October 29, 2025 at 8:43 AM
woodworking youtubers be like: ”hey guys! today we’re going to do a little DIY ikea flip” *proceeds to use 20 different tools in a professionally set up space* ”anyway i think this was a nice beginner friendly project so give it a try! see you guys next time! bye!”
unable to fall asleep, so my brain loops sex thoughts. how being gray ace can often be frustrating (to me, not speaking about anyone else’s experience) but comes in handy when i’m asked to do stuff opposite to my preferences
October 22, 2025 at 10:49 PM
unable to fall asleep, so my brain loops sex thoughts. how being gray ace can often be frustrating (to me, not speaking about anyone else’s experience) but comes in handy when i’m asked to do stuff opposite to my preferences
my person: you know, i think we've had pretty vanilla sex this time around
me: ... you tied me up
them: really gently!
me: ..... and gagged me
me: ... you tied me up
them: really gently!
me: ..... and gagged me
October 22, 2025 at 5:25 PM
my person: you know, i think we've had pretty vanilla sex this time around
me: ... you tied me up
them: really gently!
me: ..... and gagged me
me: ... you tied me up
them: really gently!
me: ..... and gagged me
”the sheet you shared with me causes anxiety, could you like not share it?”
my manager at work today, to a colleague
my manager at work today, to a colleague
October 15, 2025 at 3:57 PM
”the sheet you shared with me causes anxiety, could you like not share it?”
my manager at work today, to a colleague
my manager at work today, to a colleague
hi hello did you know it’s weird and quiet and beautiful up north?
October 12, 2025 at 10:15 PM
hi hello did you know it’s weird and quiet and beautiful up north?
omg yay! it’s been a while since i’ve posted anything but reading this i was instantly transported back to fighting in this particular trench
Ooh this AO3 bug has been making me mad for years! It's fixed!!!!
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October 2, 2025 at 4:41 PM
omg yay! it’s been a while since i’ve posted anything but reading this i was instantly transported back to fighting in this particular trench
in completely different news: i’m going on a week-long trip to north to see the area my partner grew up in, and i don’t know if i’m more scared to meet my partner’s parents or the… entity(??) who guards the house we’ll be staying in
September 29, 2025 at 6:20 PM
in completely different news: i’m going on a week-long trip to north to see the area my partner grew up in, and i don’t know if i’m more scared to meet my partner’s parents or the… entity(??) who guards the house we’ll be staying in
i don’t like it when Things keep piling up. found out two days ago that there’ll be major renovations happening in my building starting from today and likely to last until march. just when i got my wfh desk ergonomy situation sorted, too 😭
September 29, 2025 at 6:05 PM
i don’t like it when Things keep piling up. found out two days ago that there’ll be major renovations happening in my building starting from today and likely to last until march. just when i got my wfh desk ergonomy situation sorted, too 😭