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Grateful for weather (any kind).
Here for entertainment in everyday life.
On our way to spring break in Provence. During lunch at a rest stop we got in a squabble over ordering sandwiches which lead ultimately to my husband turning around and returning 4 hours home.
End of spring break. I am dumbfounded, I absolutely don’t know what to do now.
#marriage
#marriageover
March 1, 2025 at 6:46 AM
After attacks by wild 🐗where big parts of the garden were upturned we have put an electric deterrent fence around the property. Last night the monitoring app went crazy for 30‘, many contacts. this morning we saw that over 100m a troop of boar must have tried to enter the property.
#livinginprovence
January 25, 2025 at 8:36 AM
A #closetbully manages to justify why his decision is always the most reasonable one just by picking the arguments that he rejected last time; then claims it’s what you wanted. #marriage #couples
January 4, 2025 at 6:33 AM
How often can you have existential fights with your partner before you both have to admit that it’s over? #couple #marriage
January 1, 2025 at 6:38 AM
Nothing more edifying than a clear day in the alps!
#zermatt #alps #Switzerland
December 26, 2024 at 10:56 AM
Good News from the lawyers: owner whose property borders ours does not insist anymore that we chop down our hundred-year-old, 40 m high #Cypress trees. Apparently she got cold feet that she would lose in court. Suggests now that we pay ½ for having her roof swept annually.
Victory for the trees!!🌳
December 19, 2024 at 6:58 AM
Another huge fight with #husband over nothing. How are we getting out of this cycle if he refuses #therapy? I don’t want to be in a marriage where I cry so often. But I don’t want to give up yet.
December 15, 2024 at 5:28 PM
My husband wants to go to the movies with me, shocking! Maybe our #marriage survives after all.
December 7, 2024 at 3:45 PM
Well, in the end we decided not to buy a new house and rather stay in our old mas. It’s so beautiful despite its shortcomings, and in the best village of #Provence
December 7, 2024 at 2:54 PM
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I will never understand why treating others as human beings upsets some people so much.
April 8, 2024 at 4:32 PM
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Thanks, NASA! 😂
April 7, 2024 at 2:14 AM
Beatiful Spring moment in #pointlobos
#birds
April 6, 2024 at 1:07 PM
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But have you considered getting more air defense might have cost western taxpayers upwards of $17 each?
March 22, 2024 at 4:49 PM
So our darn neighbors who installed about 100sqm of #solarpanels on their storage shed did not only forget that the sun would reflect directly into our living room.They also didn’t install them tight enough, so any wind gust makes them clank and rattle all night. This will require painful mitigation
March 23, 2024 at 6:10 AM
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SAO PAULO (AP) — Brazil's ex-President Bolsonaro is indicted for criminal association and falsifying his own COVID-19 vaccination data.
March 19, 2024 at 1:24 PM
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In my newsletter, I wrote about The Spoonbill Club--a series of birding trips that I started for Bay Area folks with long-COVID and related energy-limiting illnesses.

We've done 2 small pilots that I think worked well. Here's more on the intention & planning: buttondown.email/edyong209/ar...
March 18, 2024 at 4:50 PM
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Male class solidarity is wild.
Absolutely enraged by this detail in Christine Blasey Ford's memoir
March 15, 2024 at 3:07 PM
‚I want a world where more men do what we call “women’s work.” I want women to decline or pursue motherhood, I want the entrance to every abortion clinic to be clear. And when a doctor places a girl in a mother’s arms I want the parents to have no demands for what that child’s life will look like.‘
March 16, 2024 at 6:12 AM
So many thoughts in this I’ve been having. The being left with all the shit during covid. But I tackled the issues. Slowly, steadily. We’re still working on it.
www.salon.com/2024/02/20/a...
"A man will say he's a feminist but he doesn't wipe the counters": Lyz Lenz on the beauty of divorce
In "This American Ex-Wife," Lenz celebrates the freedom — and free time — women get from ditching their husbands
www.salon.com
March 7, 2024 at 9:54 PM
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Evergreen
March 6, 2024 at 7:02 PM
You know what this look means?

A night well slept 🛌
March 7, 2024 at 7:04 AM
House 1 is out. House 2 in negotiation phase. If we buy, we might become holiday home landlords in Provence! Exciting new ideas in my head.
February 28, 2024 at 10:48 AM
Leavin Provence with a heavy heart, like every time. Can’t wait to retire and stay here!
#provence
#retirement
February 25, 2024 at 10:37 AM
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Still the wildest op-ed in history 🫠
February 23, 2024 at 2:28 AM