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D is tired, but there is coffee
@grrlintersect.bsky.social
3.6K followers 5K following 9.1K posts
She/her fat black queer, disabled femme, leftist in my 30s, sometimes publicly slutty, sometimes publicly depressed. I talk about food and books a lot and I try to be kind.
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CN: food

Update, now it’s chicken stew. And came out OK actually. Also, this place smells like spices and good things.
A blue Dutch oven full of chicken stew
December 14, 2025 at 11:51 PM
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CN: food

it’s not stewed chicken yet because I’ve gotta add chicken, but it will be, also good morning.
A pot filled with carrots sliced potatoes, onion, and bell pepper, sprinkled with seasoning
December 14, 2025 at 6:35 PM
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Today is Tif’s birthday and I think they deserve to start this year with mountains of support. If you can help a genuinely sweet person greet the upcoming year in comfort.
Venmo: @APoeticArtist
Flyer with a floral background and image of a Black Non-Binary person smiling and looking at the camera, in front of a blue tapestry. Flyer text: "Help Tiff Afford Groceries on their Birthday Month! Tiff (@poeticoldsoul) is Black, Disabled, Chronically Ill, Queer, Non-Binary, AuDHD, Homebound, and Bay Area born + raised. They live on a fixed low income and have to fundraise monthly for ~$450 grocery and household expenses. Right now $130+ is needed for the month of May! May is Tiff's Birthday month so give generously! Venmo: @APoeticArtist Use emojis ONLY for note" End ID.
May 11, 2025 at 5:08 PM
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My beloved friend (anonymous) is a covid cautious and disabled QTBIPOC community member who is experiencing intense pain flare ups and struggling financially after clients cancelling for weeks, alongside mental health struggles without access to medication. They urgently need mutual aid in order to pay for rent and food this month. goal is $2000! even if you only have $1, $5, $15, or more, anything helps! venmo: @raidang
May 6, 2025 at 12:46 PM
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Having a stable place to rest means so much and being able to recover if you are able to help. Donate or re-share if you can.

Re shareable IG post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DIpHUsxTPPJ/
text post with blue and pink floral background. Picture of masked Filipinx person in brown coat is at the bottom the the image. Text reads: Mutual Aid Request. I am a disabled queer and trans filipinx person requesting mutual aid to help me attain secure housing and avoid homelessness. I lost my housing in March due to an extreme mold issue that rendered my apartment uninhabitable. inclement weather and lack of building maintenance by the landlord exacerbated the issue to the point that my roommate and I became very ill. In the end, the only solution available was to end our lease immediately and find emergency housing elsewhere. I am now temporarily staying with a fellow under resourced friend across the country, and recovering from the heavy physical and mental toll of the move. I am over halfway to my goal, which will help me get back up on my feet, secure housing, and afford immediate needs like food, house supplies, and utility costs. Please consider donating if you have the resources, and if not, sharing this post helps too! bottom text box reads: please screenshot, share, and donate if you can! Goal: $2664/$5000. v3nmo: @ka_bangbang. P@ypal: kabangbang. Zelle: DM me.,
April 20, 2025 at 7:04 PM
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3/4 to the goal. Anything helps, tysm! it really does mean so so much.

Cashapp + Venmo: @Grrlintersect
Paypal: @Dgrrl39
Please re-share!"
ID: flyer with a photo of D standing in a leopard print dress and smiling in the upper right corner. Flyer text: "Mutual aid needed Update - $1418/2000 raised! $582 still needed D (@grrlintersect.bsky.social) is an unhoused, fat Black, queer, blind, and chronically ill SW. She is part of Mask-erade and the COVID conscious community in the Bay Area and Florida. D is struggling to pay for her basic needs. She is bouncing between staying with friends and hotels to survive, while waiting for accessible public housing. Her situation is not sustainable. We are trying to raise at least $2000 in survival funds for D. Any donations big or small are appreciated. Thank you community! Cashapp + Venmo: @Grrlintersect Paypal: @Dgrrl39 Please re-share!"
April 13, 2025 at 6:02 PM
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Just a bit over halfway there, and honestly, it means more than I have words for.
Cash app and Venmo are @grrlintersect
PayPal dgrrl39
Flyer with an orange and pink background. It shows an image of D in the top right corner wearing a leopard print dress and standing outside smiling. Flyer text: "Mutual Aid Needed! Update - almost halfway to the goal! D (@grrlintersect.bsky.social) is unhoused and struggling to pay for her basic needs. She is part of the COVID conscious community in the Bay Area and Florida. D is a fat Black, queer, blind, and chronically ill SW. We're raising $2000 to help her with survival and stability. Our last post made good progress and raised $848/2000. This is our next push to keep going; if can, please send some funds to help! $1152 is still needed. Thank you community! Cashapp + Venmo: @Grrlintersect Paypal: @Dgrrl39 Please re-share!".
April 6, 2025 at 4:30 PM
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I’m a little more than 25% of the way to meeting this goal and just, it’s been a really really long two years.
Cash app & Venmo: @grrlintersect

PayPal: @dgrrl39
The flyer has a light blue background. There's a yellow and pink box as the header that says "Mutual aid needed." A photo of D standing outside in a leopard print dress is at the top right in a circular frame. The main body of the flyer is a light gray box, emphasized with a dark blue shadow behind it. The text says: "D (@grrlintersect.bsky.social) is an unhoused, fat Black, queer, blind, and chronically ill SW. She is part of the COVID conscious community in the Bay Area and Florida. D is struggling to pay for her basic needs. She is bouncing between staying with friends and hotels to survive, while waiting for accessible public housing. Her situation is not sustainable. We are trying to raise at least $2000 in survival funds for D. Any donations big or small are appreciated. Thank you community!" In the lower left corner, a yellow and pink box with a dollar symbol lists Cashapp and Venmo: @grrlintersect and PayPal: @dgrrl39 On the bottom right corner, another box says "Please re share" with an arrow next to it.
March 30, 2025 at 10:28 PM
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$MutualAidRequest
Help make this move s smooth as possible if you can.
with a pink patterned background and a picture of Dolly lying on a bed wearing a black top, red lipstick, and gold earrings, looking at the camera. Flyer text: "Funds needed! Dolly (@the_dollyrose) needs $1000 by April 1st to pay for moving expenses. She secured a new apartment but is too disabled to move without hiring movers, and has no extra money. Dolly does so much to build community for queer, trans, Black, and BIPOC kinksters. Including co-organizing Tituba's revenge, which is the only mask required, QTBIPOC play party in the bay area. Let's help her out in her moment of need! Thanks so much community! Cashapp: $TheDolly Rose PayPal: @The Dolly Rose Please re-share!"
March 25, 2025 at 1:47 AM
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I mean some of us think of fighting as just a flirting escalation really.
Single or not put this on your timeline and whoever hearts it. wants to fight you in the Home Depot parking lot..
March 8, 2025 at 9:32 PM
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#HarborLights
"Stay Hydrated" handwritten in cursive. There are small roses around the text, and the initials "Ahd" followed by a heart symbol are written at the bottom right. The text and rose drawings are in dark green on a light background
February 18, 2025 at 10:55 PM
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#HarborLights
"The pace of repression outstrips our ability to understand it." - Star Wars: Andor written in black letters with orange decorations around the edges and at the corners. In the left corner are the initials AHD written as a symbol and a heart emoji.
February 10, 2025 at 5:28 PM
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#HarborLights
"look for the helpers then help them" handwritten in gold ink on white paper with a watercolor yellow wash. the initials AHD have been written as one sigil with a heart emoji and a box drawn around
February 2, 2025 at 9:40 PM
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Cn: food

The kitchen is a mess and likely will remain a mess, but there is fruit crisp, I am saying that this is winning today is all.
A fruit crisp in its pan cooling on top of the stove, you can see peaches and strawberries, peeking out from under the top layer.
January 20, 2025 at 10:53 PM
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#HarborLights
a notepad with a calendar header at the top. In the middle of the page, a handwritten message, "Do The Best You Can. Let The Rest Go." ❤️ADH
January 20, 2025 at 4:44 PM
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GO FUND ME LANGUAGE To avoid potential conflicts with FEMA assistance, it's important to frame your GoFundMe campaign carefully. Here are some ways to rephrase your request for donations: "Your contributions will help us through this challenging time." "We're seeking support to cover unexpected costs and to get back on our feet." "These funds will assist with needs that might not be fully covered by other sources of aid." "Your help will allow us to address the many aspects of recovery and support our family through this crisis." "We're raising funds to recover and support our neighbors and family." Avoid specifying that the funds are for disaster related expenses like home repairs, rebuilding, medical bills, or cleanup if you intend to apply for FEMA assistance for those specific purposes. Instead, keep the language broader to reflect general recovery and supplemental needs.
January 14, 2025 at 6:03 PM
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This place definitely needs a photo box, but you should be able to see the handle here.
Teacup with vertical lines on a glass table in front of a black backpack. Delicate curved handle of the mug is visible.
December 10, 2024 at 7:09 PM
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People of blue sky I come to you with a problem, girl is down to just one of her favorite tea cups, and where she got them is lost to history, if any of you recognize this, I would appreciate identification #SignalBoost
View of a white teacup with textured vertical lines from the side. View of the same teacup from the bottom
December 10, 2024 at 5:10 PM
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My brain/body is currently at war with me, so let’s distract ourselves
get to know me: 1 like 1 answer 1. favorite scent 2. something you collect 3. dream date/romantic fantasy 4. favorite mythical creature 5. fun fact about yourself 6. fun fact not about yourself 7. an unforgettable experience you've had 8. your mundane superpower 9. dumbest way you've been injured 10. deep sea vs. deep space 11. love language(s) 12. tattoos/piercings/body modifications 13. a food you're good at cooking 14. song/album you love right now 15. something very stupid that you've done
November 20, 2024 at 12:30 AM
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Bluesky now has over 10 million users, and I was #87,456!
An image showing that I am one of the first 10% of users.
September 18, 2024 at 8:27 AM
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the skyline can have a little cleavage as a treat.
I am a fat mixed race femme with long curly dark hair standing against a wooden door wearing a black dress with a very deep neckline that exposes a portion of the tops of my breasts and a large blue and white pendant. I am looking up and slightly away from the camera with a relaxed expression.
August 15, 2024 at 11:56 PM
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Let’s guillotine some billionaires
Picture of two women, one of whom appears to be whispering something into the other’s ear. Text on the photo reads “Post the four words every girl wants whispered in her ear”
August 15, 2024 at 11:12 PM
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I was supposed to have keys and be settling into my new place, but because rental companies are evil, I am not, trying to get some groceries and also afford another week in this hotel room instead, anything helps:
Cash app $grrlintersect
Venmo @Grrlintersect

I am a dark haired light skinned, fat black woman sitting at an outdoor patio table, I am smiling and wearing a black dress and pearl necklace with a print cocktail menu in front of me. They always give me a print menu, I never understand why.
July 27, 2024 at 11:23 AM
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I hope you humans have some good words for me
Screenshot of pink all caps text on black background. Text reads: “Put this on your page and let everyone describe you in one word”
July 26, 2024 at 9:50 AM
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This is from the best day, a day when we made duck friends.
A group of ducks walking across a paved pathway.
July 18, 2024 at 10:19 PM