Beau
@healingkind.bsky.social
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He/him, peer support professional, advocate for children's rights, evangelical homeschool survivor Sometimes I post art as well There is no pride for some of us without liberation for us all Healingkind.carrd.co
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healingkind.bsky.social
Hi folks! This is a public account for me to connect with others who have similar lived experience.

I am a peer recovery professional. That means that I'm a person in recovery who uses my lived experience to support others.

Looking forward to getting to know you all :)
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rlstollar.bsky.social
As far as I am aware, in the history of homeschooling, this is the first public workshop and roundtable on abuse prevention hosted by a state homeschool organization and featuring a homeschool alum:

facebook.com/events/s/vir....
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rlstollar.bsky.social
"The hard truth is this: there is no biblical blueprint for families. As much as we want one, as much as it might be easier if we had one, it's just not there."

@ehmcgowin.bsky.social, "Households of Faith"
healingkind.bsky.social
More #swordtember drawings
Two swords side by side. The sword on the left is labeled canine. It is a curved branch with a tennis ball on the end on the hilt. The sword on the right is labeled shell. It is an orange lobster claw
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toriglass.bsky.social
extremely fking weird to yell about “lockdown harms kids” while locking your kids in the basement and only letting them out to go to church
Signed,
a former basement kid
healingkind.bsky.social
I was warming up by doing some #swordtember prompts and this guy just appeared!
A digital sketch of a cat pointing to a sword. The quality of the line work is poor. The cat looks super excited to be holding a cool sword.
healingkind.bsky.social
That's all for now!
healingkind.bsky.social
Looking back I just want to tell myself that this is an extremely offensive thing to say. She shouldn't have said that at all. I am furious for my past self.
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healingkind.bsky.social
She wasn't trying to understand me as a human being. She was trying to win.

I responded by playing therapist. I said I wondered why she would think that. I encouraged her to explore her feelings around this.
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healingkind.bsky.social
I remember one time after I moved out (about 5 years ago) my mom asked me why I was afraid to be a woman. I could tell this was a "gotcha!" moment for her. She thought if she could just say the right line I would stop being trans.
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rlstollar.bsky.social
If violence is never the answer, let's stop hitting our own children and bombing other people's children.
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healingkind.bsky.social
I'm feeling more and more uncomfortable using social media at all lately. Sad to hear this site is more of the same. I thought we might have something different.
healingkind.bsky.social
Also I was able to get it from my library even though it just came out?! (This is why we queer our libraries folks!) They didn't have a copy of boys weekend so I will definitely be buying that one soon.
healingkind.bsky.social
Okay I gotta say something. I can no longer stay silent.

Simplicity by @mattielubchansky.com was a great read! The art style was fun, the story was delightfully weird and sweet, and the message was very heartfelt. I only wish it had lasted me a little longer.
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peezkyweezky.bsky.social
A reminder that multiple cybersecurity experts were consulted and all said they saw ZERO indication that scammers were targeting Palestinian mutual aid/donation fundraisers.

It’s just assholes and racists, acting like racist assholes as they condemn Gazans to death for “clogging their timeline”
mommunism.bsky.social
Just stop being assholes I swear
healingkind.bsky.social
I just finished reading this and can confirm it is great!
thecaseface.bsky.social
my preordered copy of @mattielubchansky.com’s new graphic novel SIMPLICITY arrived in the mail while we were in France. jet lag had me up at 5 today, so I brewed some coffee & read the book.
folks, it rips. Mattie has done it again.
a great story, amazing art, hell yeah.
you gotta read it.
A copy of the new graphic novel, SIMPLICITY, by Mattie Lubchansky (author of Boys Weekend). The cover has the book’s title and the author’s name, as well as a quote from Kristen Arnett, New York Times bestselling author of MOSTLY DEAD THINGS and WITH TEETH “Mattie Lubchansky is a genius”. The cover art depicts the novel’s protagonist upside down and entangled in glowing green vines. A set of hands reaches from the top edge of the cover.
healingkind.bsky.social
My life is better than it was 5 years ago! I'm glad I stuck around :)
daviddennisjr.bsky.social
Ok. It feels like quite literally everything is worse than it was 5 years ago. Products, commercials, the world etc.

So I ask: what are you experiencing that you feel is better than it was 5 years ago?
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dlmayfield.bsky.social
The worst part about the news about the national guard being deployed to DC is that I was raised evangelical Christian and surrounded by folks who loudly declared they would fight back against tyranny and a government who used force against its own people. Those people are absolutely silent rn.
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londonopia.bsky.social
Important public service announcement. Reading it might just save a life.
trishgreenhalgh.bsky.social
Thanks for the reminder @janemunday.bsky.social. Every summer, I repost this article DROWNING DOES NOT LOOK LIKE DROWNING. To date, I know of FOUR kids who were saved after someone who'd clicked on the link learnt how to spot actual drowning. Take time to read and pass on.

slate.com/technology/2...
Drowning Doesn’t Look Like Drowning
Drowning is not the violent, splashing call for help that most people expect.
slate.com
healingkind.bsky.social
I need to find something other than substack to host my blog and I've wanted a website for a while. Anyone got any recommendations on how to go about this with minimal experience?
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rlstollar.bsky.social
If you’re a homeschool alum leaving home for the first time ever, here are some resources to help you establish your life and keep yourself safe.
A Survival Guide for Homeschool Alumni
Here are some resources to help you establish your life and keep yourself safe.
rlstollar.com
healingkind.bsky.social
I haven't been active here or anywhere online over the past few months and it's been great for me! I miss you all sometimes though.
healingkind.bsky.social
I had planned to also publish some of my follow up thoughts and never finished writing it. Months later pretty much ready to publish! Keep an eye out for this