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A collection of three IID random variables stacked on top of each other in a trench-coat she/her
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iid.bsky.social
it's more than a little crazy making that the last decade has been a decided slide down the slippery slope to total loss of reproductive freedom and yet at every point the Smart Cool take has been that the women crying misogyny are hysterical
iid.bsky.social
but anyway happy christmas
iid.bsky.social
anyway happy christmas 🎄🎄🎄
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dov.bsky.social
not one of you has actually said "you are not inferior for not having children", probably because you do in fact believe that we are :)
iid.bsky.social
No one seems willing to admit that's its obvious why you might not want a government that phrases policy in openly misogynistic terms, *even if the policy is economically identical.* It's a vision of economic policy as a video game or a program instead of something implemented by people
iid.bsky.social
the funny thing is I searched on the /r/natalism subreddit for this topic and there is universal rejection and disgust so this really truly is a Bluesky special
iid.bsky.social
Can't help but think it's intentional!
iid.bsky.social
But I repeat myself

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iid.bsky.social
A government that understands its purpose as punishing women who fail to produce children is a reactionary misogynistic government. This does matter and is material.
opfuchs.gay
Perhaps in terms of the raw accounting yes they are the same, but the symbolic politics of "tax relief for a big life expense" vs. "punitive tax for non-participation in the heterosexual reproductive project" are extremely different. And symbolic politics are not "merely" so but themselves material.
iid.bsky.social
It adds up to the same thing! yes, we did have to hire a bunch of sweaty guys who were really excited to punch the "tax the whores" button, but I'm sure that's fine. It adds up to the same thing!
iid.bsky.social
but I repeat myself

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iid.bsky.social
me explaining the concept of path dependence to economists who want to put a sin tax on reproductive choices
iid.bsky.social
I'm sorry but it is ridiculous to pretend that that post read like a proposal to expand the child credit rather than a proposal to do a sin tax on childlessness. It's bald faced lying to pretend that that's what it says, and it's farcical to pretend those things aren't different.
jdaehan1.bsky.social
When people say we have a literacy crisis they need to include their fellow progressives and libs. Insane replies on a post that is just explaining the Child Tax Credit
opinionhaver.bsky.social
My most controversial take on this is probably that while I think reproductive freedom should be sacrosanct, I don’t really have any problem with additional taxes on (high income) childless people. Someone gotta pay into the pensions!
iid.bsky.social
anyway happy christmas 🎄🎄🎄
iid.bsky.social
me explaining the concept of path dependence to economists who want to put a sin tax on reproductive choices
iid.bsky.social
well, yes, except that roughly half the country believes Trump creates reality
nycsouthpaw.bsky.social
Everyone can set aside partisanship, psychologizing, pathologizing, whatever, and—I would hope—still see that it’s incredibly dangerous for a political leader to be this disconnected from the real conditions in the country.
atrupar.com
Trump: "I don't know what could be worse than Portland. You don't even have stores anymore. They don't even put glass up. They put plywood on their windows."
iid.bsky.social
Oh also as a note this happened while I was standing next to a male colleague who is also childless, and older than me; nothing was said to him.
iid.bsky.social
if you’re wondering why birth rate stuff is personal it’s because I have gotten shamed multiple times, AT MY WORKPLACE, in public, in front of colleagues, by men who felt the need to accuse me of selfishness when I said I don’t have children. Explicitly making my reproductive choices their business
iid.bsky.social
Colin turn away. Avert your eyes lest ye melt like the guys in raiders of the lost ark
iid.bsky.social
Guy who just really fucking loves to type “barren whores” has logged on
iid.bsky.social
like why would a guys hobby be going online and getting everyone riled up about whether or not childless women are leeches on society. what particular condition of the mind would make someone do that. Food for thought!
iid.bsky.social
don’t think that poster is a eugenicist or anti immigration btw, I know he’s pro immigration. but he is the poster most responsible for bringing up the natalist argument On Here over and over and always goes the line of “punishing barren whores” and at some point you have to wonder.
iid.bsky.social
Honestly, if I had the ability to force every man who floats this stuff to endure pregnancy,
iid.bsky.social
I am so fucking sick of my body being a topic for men who will never bleed out on a birthing table to speculate and chuckle about in their dispassionate “well it’s just plain economics” smugness. They outright refuse to understand how dehumanizing this whole conversation is
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dov.bsky.social
Weird how not a single one of the people who revive natalism discourse on this website are women.
iid.bsky.social
This is some real “I struggle to discern the subtleties in human interaction” posting
iid.bsky.social
The thing is we already have childlessness taxes. The numbers have been crunched: the tax on singles adds up to well north of a million dollars over a life time. The natalists have what they want, they have always had it. but it’s not enough, they need to fantasize about punishing women more
iid.bsky.social
A) charisma bears everything else
B) as a politician it’s better to be aspirational than relatable. It’s like being a pop star: you’re supposed to present as super human, that’s the whole appeal
whstancil.bsky.social
The most effective Democratic messenger of my lifetime is the guy who broke every single rule Democrats are currently trying to follow: Barack Hussein Obama, the guy with the weird name who talked like a professor, made sweeping appeals to higher principles, and never once appeared salt-of-the-earth