It Girl Complex
@itgirlcomplex.bsky.social
Life is complex. You double back on choices you swore were final and love people longer than you should. It Girl Complex is about the beauty in that state of being. 💖✨
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How To: Practicing Self-Care Like an It Girl 💅🏽🧖🏽♀️🌸 (a thread)
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IT GIRLS!!! 🗣️🗣️
It girls, I know I haven’t been active on IGC. I recently got a promotion at work and I’ve been pouring so much of me into that aspect of my life. I’ll be back soon with self care tips that are targeted toward mental health and career growth. ✨💖
May 19, 2025 at 10:24 PM
IT GIRLS!!! 🗣️🗣️
IT GIRLS!!! 🗣️🗣️
It girls, I know I haven’t been active on IGC. I recently got a promotion at work and I’ve been pouring so much of me into that aspect of my life. I’ll be back soon with self care tips that are targeted toward mental health and career growth. ✨💖
May 19, 2025 at 10:24 PM
IT GIRLS!!! 🗣️🗣️
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At the end of it all, you still win. So move boldly! Everything you desire is already aligning. Favor is on your side. ✨🔥💫
May 18, 2025 at 1:48 PM
At the end of it all, you still win. So move boldly! Everything you desire is already aligning. Favor is on your side. ✨🔥💫
At the end of it all, you still win. So move boldly! Everything you desire is already aligning. Favor is on your side. ✨🔥💫
May 18, 2025 at 1:48 PM
At the end of it all, you still win. So move boldly! Everything you desire is already aligning. Favor is on your side. ✨🔥💫
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This chapter of my life is about truth, not performance.✨ I’m choosing authenticity, especially when it’s uncomfortable.🪞 🌸
May 13, 2025 at 1:58 PM
This chapter of my life is about truth, not performance.✨ I’m choosing authenticity, especially when it’s uncomfortable.🪞 🌸
This chapter of my life is about truth, not performance.✨ I’m choosing authenticity, especially when it’s uncomfortable.🪞 🌸
May 13, 2025 at 1:58 PM
This chapter of my life is about truth, not performance.✨ I’m choosing authenticity, especially when it’s uncomfortable.🪞 🌸
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yes youre fake, why you sending ss anyways?? apologize to her and then end the friendship🤷🏾
🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘
I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
May 12, 2025 at 6:34 PM
yes youre fake, why you sending ss anyways?? apologize to her and then end the friendship🤷🏾
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I think if you in the chat defending her, then i don’t think she would block you. Whether you said it or someone else, you can’t call yourself her friend if you didn’t defend her. I do think you should tell the rest about what you did and her reaction though.
May 12, 2025 at 2:33 PM
I think if you in the chat defending her, then i don’t think she would block you. Whether you said it or someone else, you can’t call yourself her friend if you didn’t defend her. I do think you should tell the rest about what you did and her reaction though.
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🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘
I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
May 12, 2025 at 1:57 PM
🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘
I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘
I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
May 12, 2025 at 1:57 PM
🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘
I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
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How To: Practicing Self-Care Like an It Girl 💅🏽🧖🏽♀️🌸 (a thread)
March 25, 2025 at 6:46 PM
How To: Practicing Self-Care Like an It Girl 💅🏽🧖🏽♀️🌸 (a thread)
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I am not for everyone, and that’s my power. The right rooms, the right eyes, & the right opportunity will recognize me at the right time. 💝✨🌷
May 3, 2025 at 3:25 PM
I am not for everyone, and that’s my power. The right rooms, the right eyes, & the right opportunity will recognize me at the right time. 💝✨🌷
I am not for everyone, and that’s my power. The right rooms, the right eyes, & the right opportunity will recognize me at the right time. 💝✨🌷
May 3, 2025 at 3:25 PM
I am not for everyone, and that’s my power. The right rooms, the right eyes, & the right opportunity will recognize me at the right time. 💝✨🌷
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Stop repeating yourself.
They heard you the first time.
They will not change.
They heard you the first time.
They will not change.
April 21, 2025 at 9:22 PM
Stop repeating yourself.
They heard you the first time.
They will not change.
They heard you the first time.
They will not change.
Stop repeating yourself.
They heard you the first time.
They will not change.
They heard you the first time.
They will not change.
April 21, 2025 at 9:22 PM
Stop repeating yourself.
They heard you the first time.
They will not change.
They heard you the first time.
They will not change.
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There’s a version of you that’s already living the life you dream about… she’s not waiting for permission, she’s not doubting her worth, and she’s definitely not playing small 💅✨
She’s just waiting on you to show up.
Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck 💖
She’s just waiting on you to show up.
Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck 💖
April 20, 2025 at 12:31 PM
There’s a version of you that’s already living the life you dream about… she’s not waiting for permission, she’s not doubting her worth, and she’s definitely not playing small 💅✨
She’s just waiting on you to show up.
Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck 💖
She’s just waiting on you to show up.
Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck 💖
There’s a version of you that’s already living the life you dream about… she’s not waiting for permission, she’s not doubting her worth, and she’s definitely not playing small 💅✨
She’s just waiting on you to show up.
Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck 💖
She’s just waiting on you to show up.
Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck 💖
April 20, 2025 at 12:31 PM
There’s a version of you that’s already living the life you dream about… she’s not waiting for permission, she’s not doubting her worth, and she’s definitely not playing small 💅✨
She’s just waiting on you to show up.
Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck 💖
She’s just waiting on you to show up.
Start now. Start messy. Start scared. Just don’t stay stuck 💖
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I give myself grace to grow. Consistency doesn’t mean being perfect. It means showing up for myself, again and again. My journey isn’t always linear, but I keep going. Every small step counts, and I’m proud of how far I’ve come.🌷🪞✨
April 17, 2025 at 4:40 PM
I give myself grace to grow. Consistency doesn’t mean being perfect. It means showing up for myself, again and again. My journey isn’t always linear, but I keep going. Every small step counts, and I’m proud of how far I’ve come.🌷🪞✨
I give myself grace to grow. Consistency doesn’t mean being perfect. It means showing up for myself, again and again. My journey isn’t always linear, but I keep going. Every small step counts, and I’m proud of how far I’ve come.🌷🪞✨
April 17, 2025 at 4:40 PM
I give myself grace to grow. Consistency doesn’t mean being perfect. It means showing up for myself, again and again. My journey isn’t always linear, but I keep going. Every small step counts, and I’m proud of how far I’ve come.🌷🪞✨
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My husband @calmingskies.bsky.social said my grey hairs "look like shooting stars in the night sky" 🖤💫🖤
April 11, 2025 at 4:27 PM
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"You are a breath of fresh air, light in a dark room, the calm in the middle of the storm, a ball of contagious laughter, an undeniably safe space. I'm better for knowing you"
April 10, 2025 at 2:18 PM
"You are a breath of fresh air, light in a dark room, the calm in the middle of the storm, a ball of contagious laughter, an undeniably safe space. I'm better for knowing you"
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my voice therapist saying “Kelsey…you made it” after i told her about my background in theatre and opera school and what i do for a living now 😭😭😭
IT GIRLS, LET’S BRAG A LITTLE! ✨💅🏽
What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received? The one that made you feel so good about yourself.
Drop it in the comments! 💬
Brag on yourself! You deserve it. 👑
What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received? The one that made you feel so good about yourself.
Drop it in the comments! 💬
Brag on yourself! You deserve it. 👑
April 10, 2025 at 6:15 PM
my voice therapist saying “Kelsey…you made it” after i told her about my background in theatre and opera school and what i do for a living now 😭😭😭
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my friend said this to me yesterday
April 10, 2025 at 4:36 PM
my friend said this to me yesterday