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Julie S. Lalonde
@julieslalonde.bsky.social
6x award-winning feminist buzzkill.
Franco-ontarienne du nord de l'Ontario.
🏳️‍🌈 Femme.
I teach community care for a living and wrote a book about why resilience is futile, babyyyy ✌🏻
Actually fun™️

📍Ottawa, Canada

YellowManteau.com
I once overheard someone *at the vigil* complaining that it was so cold and why did we have to do do it in December. I was like "TAKE IT UP WITH MARC, BABE"
December 6, 2025 at 6:28 PM
Here is what I wrote in 2020, once again exhausted at people's refusal to name the problem for what it is - misogyny.
From The Montreal Massacre To The Van Attack: Here We Are, Again - Chatelaine
We can resign ourselves to accepting the violence or we can commit to fighting like hell to ensure it never happens again.
chatelaine.com
December 6, 2025 at 2:52 PM
I have absolutely nothing new to say about this day.

So, I'll just repeat what I've said before.

Here is what I wrote right after the Van Attack where I drew a through line through all this horror:
Julie Lalonde: “It's Not Up to Women to End the Violence We Experience" - FASHION Magazine
Trust me, we've tried
fashionmagazine.com
December 6, 2025 at 2:52 PM
As the article lays out, countries that have adopted it first had to come up with a definition and there are some variations from country to country. But it's typically understood as the former; a murder of a woman because of gendered circumstances.
December 5, 2025 at 8:37 PM
Well said!
December 5, 2025 at 6:00 PM
"At the time Dr. Sirpal began working in [...] Amherst, N.S., in 2023, he had also been charged criminally with assaulting his former girlfriend and trying to get her to forge a document to obstruct the investigation that led the Quebec college to delicense him."
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December 4, 2025 at 10:39 PM
His entire campaign platform on 'safety' was responsive - more policing, more laws, etc. Even looking at my portfolio, his proposed solutions to the femicide epidemic were entirely criminal code changes and more cops. CC needs some changes, sure. But ZERO focus on true prevention or systemic causes.
December 4, 2025 at 7:19 PM
For sure. Same happened with non-consensual sharing of nudes. The first legal mechanism we had was the (at the time) "creation of child pornography" if the images were of girls and boys. Then we criminalized the sharing of ANYONE'S nudes without consent, regardless of age. Law needs to catch up.
December 4, 2025 at 5:37 PM
He's also being charged with "Criminal Harassment" AKA stalking.

I don't think the legal system is ever going to solve the issue of gender-based violence but while we're stuck with this carceral system, I'm glad it's recognizing this as a form of stalking because it is!
December 4, 2025 at 5:26 PM
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I also just love this genre of post. "My friend, who absolutely sucks shit, is struggling to find a partner."
December 3, 2025 at 7:25 PM
Reposted by Julie S. Lalonde
This feels like the central toxicity of these dude-gurus: They're feeding men an ideology that immediately casts it as "virtue signaling" whenever anyone states a moral value of any kind. An explicitly nihilistic worldview and a recipe for lifelong misery.
December 3, 2025 at 7:22 PM