I don't want a video explaining how to do the thing. I want step-by-step instructions in a plain text document, on a single page, ideally that I can see all of without scrolling while using a reasonably big font.

You simply don't have to be something that you're not to write about it. You don't have to be a detective or a police to write about them.

This idea that the only people who can make works of fictions about traumatic things are the ones who suffered from them comes from people who don't want -

I'm preaching to the choir here, but family should have to earn your respect and place in your life just the same as anybody else. They don't get a free pass or more grace just because you happen to be born into the same group of people.