Dead Angel KJ
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Dead Angel KJ
@lilikekj.bsky.social
30s non-binary trans woman (it/she)
Trying to figure out a future worth living in
Better yet just ignore it and move on, but if you’ve got to vent about it do so privately.

I promise you, some trans woman on here is not going to cause irreversible damage to your pet issue in the time it takes you to calm down.

I spent too much of my life and too many wrinkles on trivial shit
January 6, 2026 at 4:20 AM
Reposted by Dead Angel KJ
The incident in San Francisco should have resulted in these things pulled off the streets. I'm dreading these things coming to the east coast.
January 6, 2026 at 12:49 AM
Why does this have to get fucking cyclical, can’t we just fucking think people’s posts are stupid without saying it to their faces

(They/them for general sentiment not referring to Ana, I’m not aware of what she said today)
January 6, 2026 at 12:27 AM
It’s just so out of proportion and much is indistinguishable from the normal patterns of transfem disposability.

I am also aware that the same could be said of the people in her comments being incredibly fucking weird about the modder.

It’s just fucked
January 5, 2026 at 11:38 PM
So in the vein of trying to treat other women how I would like to be treated I think she deserves grace for lashing out after several hours and credit for apologizing and deleting the post
January 5, 2026 at 11:38 PM
Well I’m not here to scream at you.

If I was in a similar situation I just know I’m not going to say the kindest things to people after hours of being harassed and we all know that trans women are held to impossible standards especially when under duress.
January 5, 2026 at 11:38 PM
Faux-progressive sex negative trend, Jesus can a girl include all the words the first time
January 5, 2026 at 11:26 PM
You are good people so I don’t want my vent to hit you with strays though
January 5, 2026 at 11:25 PM
I’m willing to agree that there is a faux-progressive sex-negative but I don’t agree that Molloy was coming from that angle.

At the end of the day it fucking sucks that she got harassed to hell and back and I don’t think it was in any way justified.
January 5, 2026 at 11:25 PM
It feels like pointing at actual sex-negative feminist theories but then pointing back at the wrong person as the cultural origin or kickoff point in a way that aligns with reactionary talking points.

Along with current social trends towards anti-feminism it just leaves a bad taste in my tongue
January 5, 2026 at 11:13 PM
Ugh I don’t like that last sentence because it doesn’t feel quite right to say it like that either.
January 5, 2026 at 11:11 PM
within the industry and outside at the time.

I also think it puts too much emphasis on her contributions considering that most pop feminism was very sex positive.

So it just feels like this is inventing a history to retroactively vindicate gamergate or other reactionary tendencies in games
January 5, 2026 at 11:10 PM
I don’t necessarily agree with this. I’m willing to say a lot of the feminist-frequency stuff was very 101 but that’s kinda where the games space was at at least as far as mainstream coverage went.

It also can’t be ignored in the context of booth babes, and horrible sexual harassment of women
January 5, 2026 at 11:10 PM
I’m so fucking done with this shit, and like the people involved are old enough to know the fuck better. Like a lot of these people are in their 30s freaking out about someone calling a mod weird. Like old enough to have watched gamergate happen and understood it.
January 5, 2026 at 11:00 PM
I’m just so done with this shit, like god fucking damn it take your misplaced rage and put it towards something that matters not attempting to morally or intellectually justify harassing the fuck out of a trans woman
January 5, 2026 at 10:57 PM