Trying to find all my lovely people from the bird hellsite here - it may take me a while, I'm easily distracted... Oh yeah, stuff about me - Intersectional feminist ♿ Autistic + ADHD hEDS, used to sew, still try to paint and crochet
That seems wildly unsafe. Imagine going to the loo with only one easy to break lock between you and 3 cis men with guns. How does that protect us? They're from the section of humanity that commits the most sex crimes, they're armed and can lie for each other.
December 16, 2025 at 5:57 PM
That seems wildly unsafe. Imagine going to the loo with only one easy to break lock between you and 3 cis men with guns. How does that protect us? They're from the section of humanity that commits the most sex crimes, they're armed and can lie for each other.
Ooh I do hate it when people do that. "It's not me, it's that nasty person over there". So many problems with that, especially when children are involved.
June 6, 2025 at 3:32 PM
Ooh I do hate it when people do that. "It's not me, it's that nasty person over there". So many problems with that, especially when children are involved.
Do you have pets? One of my daughters has cats that love to steal and hide things and I have a saluki lurcher that does the same. He steals anything he thinks we like so he can give it back at a later date as a gift. Generally when he thinks he's done something bad.
June 6, 2025 at 3:26 PM
Do you have pets? One of my daughters has cats that love to steal and hide things and I have a saluki lurcher that does the same. He steals anything he thinks we like so he can give it back at a later date as a gift. Generally when he thinks he's done something bad.
In my case (as everyone in the family knows I'm autistic) I would be pointing out, in a positive tone of voice, anything she does that is indicative of autism, without mentioning the word autistic. "Oh I used to do that too" kind of thing. Depends how old she is too though.
May 26, 2025 at 5:17 PM
In my case (as everyone in the family knows I'm autistic) I would be pointing out, in a positive tone of voice, anything she does that is indicative of autism, without mentioning the word autistic. "Oh I used to do that too" kind of thing. Depends how old she is too though.