Murphy Villalobos
@murphy-in-entropy.bsky.social
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cuddlist.com/cuddlers
How are you supporting small businesses this year? Drop ideas in the comments ⬇️
How are you supporting small businesses this year? Drop ideas in the comments ⬇️
November 14, 2025 at 2:05 AM
cuddlist.com/cuddlers
How are you supporting small businesses this year? Drop ideas in the comments ⬇️
How are you supporting small businesses this year? Drop ideas in the comments ⬇️
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Visit cuddlist.com/cuddlers to connect with a certified practitioner today
#connection #loneliness #depression
#connection #loneliness #depression
November 14, 2025 at 10:37 PM
Visit cuddlist.com/cuddlers to connect with a certified practitioner today
#connection #loneliness #depression
#connection #loneliness #depression
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sometimes things with my name on tumblr are ... kinda amazing
(ps I WISH that was my whole job)
(ps I WISH that was my whole job)
November 3, 2025 at 6:29 AM
sometimes things with my name on tumblr are ... kinda amazing
(ps I WISH that was my whole job)
(ps I WISH that was my whole job)
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You walk into a haunted house, and instead of the regular ghouls and goblins, what would absolutely terrify you? Here's what the Cuddlist crew came up with!
Drop yours in the comments ⬇️
#hauntedhouse #cuddletherapy #horrorshow #boo
Drop yours in the comments ⬇️
#hauntedhouse #cuddletherapy #horrorshow #boo
October 24, 2025 at 5:45 PM
You walk into a haunted house, and instead of the regular ghouls and goblins, what would absolutely terrify you? Here's what the Cuddlist crew came up with!
Drop yours in the comments ⬇️
#hauntedhouse #cuddletherapy #horrorshow #boo
Drop yours in the comments ⬇️
#hauntedhouse #cuddletherapy #horrorshow #boo
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You walk into a haunted house, and instead of the regular ghouls and goblins, what would absolutely terrify you? Here's what the Cuddlist crew came up with!
Drop yours in the comments ⬇️
#hauntedhouse #cuddletherapy #horrorshow #boo
Drop yours in the comments ⬇️
#hauntedhouse #cuddletherapy #horrorshow #boo
October 24, 2025 at 5:52 PM
You walk into a haunted house, and instead of the regular ghouls and goblins, what would absolutely terrify you? Here's what the Cuddlist crew came up with!
Drop yours in the comments ⬇️
#hauntedhouse #cuddletherapy #horrorshow #boo
Drop yours in the comments ⬇️
#hauntedhouse #cuddletherapy #horrorshow #boo
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Power exchange is powerful—and sometimes painfully so. If you want a space to explore, grieve, and grow with others who get it, come to the workshops: http://bit.ly/28XyoH8
October 17, 2025 at 3:00 AM
Power exchange is powerful—and sometimes painfully so. If you want a space to explore, grieve, and grow with others who get it, come to the workshops: http://bit.ly/28XyoH8
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Do you feel like it's time to up your comprehensive consent ideals as a traditional talk therapist?
Come to 2025 Innovations is Psychotherapy from October 8-11 to hear everything Keeley Shoup, Michelle Renee, Kelly C and the Cuddlist crew discuss how therapy can grew up into consent culture.
#fop
Come to 2025 Innovations is Psychotherapy from October 8-11 to hear everything Keeley Shoup, Michelle Renee, Kelly C and the Cuddlist crew discuss how therapy can grew up into consent culture.
#fop
October 4, 2025 at 12:57 PM
Do you feel like it's time to up your comprehensive consent ideals as a traditional talk therapist?
Come to 2025 Innovations is Psychotherapy from October 8-11 to hear everything Keeley Shoup, Michelle Renee, Kelly C and the Cuddlist crew discuss how therapy can grew up into consent culture.
#fop
Come to 2025 Innovations is Psychotherapy from October 8-11 to hear everything Keeley Shoup, Michelle Renee, Kelly C and the Cuddlist crew discuss how therapy can grew up into consent culture.
#fop
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Not all growth is visible 🌱 Take a few moments and reflect on all the growth you have done this year, even invisible growth deserves to be noticed.
#growth #invisiblegrowth #noticing
#growth #invisiblegrowth #noticing
September 24, 2025 at 12:57 PM
Not all growth is visible 🌱 Take a few moments and reflect on all the growth you have done this year, even invisible growth deserves to be noticed.
#growth #invisiblegrowth #noticing
#growth #invisiblegrowth #noticing
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This week's cuddle position is Spooning🥄🥄
For this cuddle position, all cuddle partners will be lying down on their sides, facing the same directions, with as much body contact as possible and comfortable.
Spooning is a great opportunity for napping during a cuddle experience!
#cuddlepositions
For this cuddle position, all cuddle partners will be lying down on their sides, facing the same directions, with as much body contact as possible and comfortable.
Spooning is a great opportunity for napping during a cuddle experience!
#cuddlepositions
September 25, 2025 at 7:44 PM
This week's cuddle position is Spooning🥄🥄
For this cuddle position, all cuddle partners will be lying down on their sides, facing the same directions, with as much body contact as possible and comfortable.
Spooning is a great opportunity for napping during a cuddle experience!
#cuddlepositions
For this cuddle position, all cuddle partners will be lying down on their sides, facing the same directions, with as much body contact as possible and comfortable.
Spooning is a great opportunity for napping during a cuddle experience!
#cuddlepositions
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September 26, 2025 at 12:02 AM
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like any kind of sex or relationship, kink CAN be abusive, but it is not inherently abusive. there are many, many differences between BDSM & abuse.
this list from the Lesbian Sex Mafia breaks things down well http://bit.ly/2PODBng
this list from the Lesbian Sex Mafia breaks things down well http://bit.ly/2PODBng
September 19, 2025 at 5:00 PM
like any kind of sex or relationship, kink CAN be abusive, but it is not inherently abusive. there are many, many differences between BDSM & abuse.
this list from the Lesbian Sex Mafia breaks things down well http://bit.ly/2PODBng
this list from the Lesbian Sex Mafia breaks things down well http://bit.ly/2PODBng
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do you enjoy writing but never make time for writing? here are my tips for developing a writing habit. got any other tips to add? https://bit.ly/3P3J36d
On Developing A Writing Habit
erotica writingOn Developing A Writing HabitPosted on February 15, 2022by Sinclair Sexsmith This site contains explicit writings on kink practices, dominant/submissive relationships, and queer kink erotica (among other things). All characters in role play or non-consent scenes are consenting adults....
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September 17, 2025 at 9:40 PM
do you enjoy writing but never make time for writing? here are my tips for developing a writing habit. got any other tips to add? https://bit.ly/3P3J36d
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Presenting the Gamification of Consent: consent & permission. Where consent is co-op play, and permission is versus.
With consent, the win condition is a mutually satisfying experience. With permission, it is the thing 1 person wants.
Let me know what you think of this new explanation!
With consent, the win condition is a mutually satisfying experience. With permission, it is the thing 1 person wants.
Let me know what you think of this new explanation!
August 28, 2025 at 12:35 AM
Presenting the Gamification of Consent: consent & permission. Where consent is co-op play, and permission is versus.
With consent, the win condition is a mutually satisfying experience. With permission, it is the thing 1 person wants.
Let me know what you think of this new explanation!
With consent, the win condition is a mutually satisfying experience. With permission, it is the thing 1 person wants.
Let me know what you think of this new explanation!
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more details shortly — save the date! Heat on the Page erotica writing discussion with me, Tobi Hill-Meyer, & Kiki DeLovely on October 14th!
September 4, 2025 at 11:06 PM
more details shortly — save the date! Heat on the Page erotica writing discussion with me, Tobi Hill-Meyer, & Kiki DeLovely on October 14th!
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TOMORROW the 2nd episode of Finding Ourself Podcast airs. @yourcuddlist.bsky.social and @meetmichellerenee.bsky.social sit down with Cuddlist practitioner Clarissa!
Subscribe to our YouTube channel o never miss an episode of Finding Ourself, A Heartfelt Cuddlist Podcast: cuddlist.com/podcast
Subscribe to our YouTube channel o never miss an episode of Finding Ourself, A Heartfelt Cuddlist Podcast: cuddlist.com/podcast
September 2, 2025 at 4:55 PM
TOMORROW the 2nd episode of Finding Ourself Podcast airs. @yourcuddlist.bsky.social and @meetmichellerenee.bsky.social sit down with Cuddlist practitioner Clarissa!
Subscribe to our YouTube channel o never miss an episode of Finding Ourself, A Heartfelt Cuddlist Podcast: cuddlist.com/podcast
Subscribe to our YouTube channel o never miss an episode of Finding Ourself, A Heartfelt Cuddlist Podcast: cuddlist.com/podcast
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"I primarily do somatic expressive arts work and EMDR the4rapy. Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing therapy, which is a specific kind of bottom-up processing model that helps people process through trauma. Look it up if you're interested!"
Come see Erin Kelly speak at the EMDRIA Conference 25
Come see Erin Kelly speak at the EMDRIA Conference 25
September 5, 2025 at 5:52 PM
"I primarily do somatic expressive arts work and EMDR the4rapy. Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing therapy, which is a specific kind of bottom-up processing model that helps people process through trauma. Look it up if you're interested!"
Come see Erin Kelly speak at the EMDRIA Conference 25
Come see Erin Kelly speak at the EMDRIA Conference 25
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Navigating challenging conversations using the OCEAN method:
O: Observation
C: Compassion
E: Effect
A: Ask
N: No Thank You
Remember, it’s hard to predict how someone will respond when you have an OCEAN conversation with them. Maybe, with your help, they can take the steps to change their behavior.
O: Observation
C: Compassion
E: Effect
A: Ask
N: No Thank You
Remember, it’s hard to predict how someone will respond when you have an OCEAN conversation with them. Maybe, with your help, they can take the steps to change their behavior.
July 31, 2025 at 12:35 AM
Navigating challenging conversations using the OCEAN method:
O: Observation
C: Compassion
E: Effect
A: Ask
N: No Thank You
Remember, it’s hard to predict how someone will respond when you have an OCEAN conversation with them. Maybe, with your help, they can take the steps to change their behavior.
O: Observation
C: Compassion
E: Effect
A: Ask
N: No Thank You
Remember, it’s hard to predict how someone will respond when you have an OCEAN conversation with them. Maybe, with your help, they can take the steps to change their behavior.
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the erotica I love is gender affirming, includes trans characters & nonbinary characters who are complex/ multifaceted, celebrating their own sexual desires, wants, & powers. it includes kink & sex acts that show how that character is seen. what kind of erotica do you love?
August 19, 2025 at 9:58 PM
the erotica I love is gender affirming, includes trans characters & nonbinary characters who are complex/ multifaceted, celebrating their own sexual desires, wants, & powers. it includes kink & sex acts that show how that character is seen. what kind of erotica do you love?
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poll: which one of these erotica stories would you most want to read based off the first line? there's no right or wrong answer — part of it is just about what you personally like & resonate with https://bit.ly/3RapM5Q
August 20, 2025 at 5:30 PM
poll: which one of these erotica stories would you most want to read based off the first line? there's no right or wrong answer — part of it is just about what you personally like & resonate with https://bit.ly/3RapM5Q
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Did you know that chronic people pleasing, and often emotional repression, are leading contributing factors to developing fatal diseases like cancers, ALS, and MS?
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When was the last time you practiced saying no?
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When was the last time you practiced saying no?
June 20, 2025 at 4:48 PM
Did you know that chronic people pleasing, and often emotional repression, are leading contributing factors to developing fatal diseases like cancers, ALS, and MS?
🔷
When was the last time you practiced saying no?
🔷
When was the last time you practiced saying no?
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"Her bottom is blushing pink under my palms, despite her dark skin; she is warming up quite nicely. She’s starting to move her hips in that undulating, pulsing desirous way that makes me ache..."
read more of Leather & Lust on Theo: www.theoreads.com/story/f690cb...
read more of Leather & Lust on Theo: www.theoreads.com/story/f690cb...
June 11, 2025 at 5:49 AM
"Her bottom is blushing pink under my palms, despite her dark skin; she is warming up quite nicely. She’s starting to move her hips in that undulating, pulsing desirous way that makes me ache..."
read more of Leather & Lust on Theo: www.theoreads.com/story/f690cb...
read more of Leather & Lust on Theo: www.theoreads.com/story/f690cb...
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The most stressful part of any modern documentary is when they start simulating the phone texts and you keep checking your phone in a Pavlovian frenzy.
May 3, 2025 at 5:21 AM
The most stressful part of any modern documentary is when they start simulating the phone texts and you keep checking your phone in a Pavlovian frenzy.
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What I Will Call You, by Macsen K. Rhaff, is SO good
"Boy. That is what I will call you. When you’re on your knees. Mouth full. Spit slippery on silicone. Hands behind your back... Looking up at me, so I can see how much you want to please me."
read it all >>> www.sugarbutch.net/2025/05/what...
"Boy. That is what I will call you. When you’re on your knees. Mouth full. Spit slippery on silicone. Hands behind your back... Looking up at me, so I can see how much you want to please me."
read it all >>> www.sugarbutch.net/2025/05/what...
May 30, 2025 at 4:31 AM
What I Will Call You, by Macsen K. Rhaff, is SO good
"Boy. That is what I will call you. When you’re on your knees. Mouth full. Spit slippery on silicone. Hands behind your back... Looking up at me, so I can see how much you want to please me."
read it all >>> www.sugarbutch.net/2025/05/what...
"Boy. That is what I will call you. When you’re on your knees. Mouth full. Spit slippery on silicone. Hands behind your back... Looking up at me, so I can see how much you want to please me."
read it all >>> www.sugarbutch.net/2025/05/what...