Sinclair Sexsmith
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Sinclair Sexsmith
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· Oct 21
I'm officially taking a break until the end of January.
no scheduled posts, no promo. I'll still be doing some teaching, and will send out newsletters monthly with the schedule & info. and I will do some promo for Year in Kink because — it's that time of year!
otherwise, I'm on social media break
no scheduled posts, no promo. I'll still be doing some teaching, and will send out newsletters monthly with the schedule & info. and I will do some promo for Year in Kink because — it's that time of year!
otherwise, I'm on social media break
I started his & hers (on netflix), and I just finished Tourist Season by Brynn Weaver
I'm struck by how much dementia/alzheimer's is a common narrative in all sorts of stories I consume — from dark romance / serial killer 4 serial killer rom-com, to cop procedural dramas — is growing
I'm struck by how much dementia/alzheimer's is a common narrative in all sorts of stories I consume — from dark romance / serial killer 4 serial killer rom-com, to cop procedural dramas — is growing
January 19, 2026 at 10:35 AM
I started his & hers (on netflix), and I just finished Tourist Season by Brynn Weaver
I'm struck by how much dementia/alzheimer's is a common narrative in all sorts of stories I consume — from dark romance / serial killer 4 serial killer rom-com, to cop procedural dramas — is growing
I'm struck by how much dementia/alzheimer's is a common narrative in all sorts of stories I consume — from dark romance / serial killer 4 serial killer rom-com, to cop procedural dramas — is growing
honestly perhaps the worst part about going through the Big Dark season in the PNW this particular year is that none of my friends are into heated rivalry the way that I am
January 19, 2026 at 9:32 AM
honestly perhaps the worst part about going through the Big Dark season in the PNW this particular year is that none of my friends are into heated rivalry the way that I am
around 5pm today, friday, I thought: I have nothing going on tonight! I can rewatch 4,5,6, as I've been itching to do the last 5 nights. and now it's after midnight and I haven't, and I miss my boyfriends.
honestly I'm fascinated by the cultural phenomenon that is this show #heatedrivalry #rewatch
honestly I'm fascinated by the cultural phenomenon that is this show #heatedrivalry #rewatch
January 17, 2026 at 8:47 AM
around 5pm today, friday, I thought: I have nothing going on tonight! I can rewatch 4,5,6, as I've been itching to do the last 5 nights. and now it's after midnight and I haven't, and I miss my boyfriends.
honestly I'm fascinated by the cultural phenomenon that is this show #heatedrivalry #rewatch
honestly I'm fascinated by the cultural phenomenon that is this show #heatedrivalry #rewatch
why does it feel SO much dirtier to watch porn from my laptop instead of my phone?
January 17, 2026 at 4:37 AM
why does it feel SO much dirtier to watch porn from my laptop instead of my phone?
@kitrocha.com @mostlybree.kitrocha.com hey! we chatted once (on twitter I think) — I'm producing an online erotica reading soon and thought of you, can I DM you?
January 16, 2026 at 11:51 PM
@kitrocha.com @mostlybree.kitrocha.com hey! we chatted once (on twitter I think) — I'm producing an online erotica reading soon and thought of you, can I DM you?
who's your favorite current smutty writers? (maybe ones that have a new book out??)
January 15, 2026 at 10:41 PM
who's your favorite current smutty writers? (maybe ones that have a new book out??)
@rdotspoon.bsky.social hey! can I DM you, or would you prefer I email you? I'd like to ask you to join an online erotica reading, if you'd be interested
January 15, 2026 at 9:07 PM
@rdotspoon.bsky.social hey! can I DM you, or would you prefer I email you? I'd like to ask you to join an online erotica reading, if you'd be interested
soo who’s got the #heatedrivalry edit of just the sex scenes? cuz you know max is taking all of those off of pornhub faster than you can say “team of lawyers”
but I want to see it
but I want to see it
January 13, 2026 at 11:19 AM
soo who’s got the #heatedrivalry edit of just the sex scenes? cuz you know max is taking all of those off of pornhub faster than you can say “team of lawyers”
but I want to see it
but I want to see it
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Remembering today that having your heart broken is a necessary step on the path to becoming fully human. Whichever heartbreak is your first, it’s probably critical that a state break your heart so that you can develop a political imagination. If this is your first, I’m sorry and also welcome.
January 8, 2026 at 10:33 PM
Remembering today that having your heart broken is a necessary step on the path to becoming fully human. Whichever heartbreak is your first, it’s probably critical that a state break your heart so that you can develop a political imagination. If this is your first, I’m sorry and also welcome.
in case you haven't seen it, canada just passed a new law that changed citizen-by-birth nationality laws.
passed in Dec, Bill C-3 now says basically anyone with Canadian ancestry IS a canadian.
do your own research, I'm not an expert, but all of us americans should know about this & look into it
passed in Dec, Bill C-3 now says basically anyone with Canadian ancestry IS a canadian.
do your own research, I'm not an expert, but all of us americans should know about this & look into it
January 8, 2026 at 11:06 PM
in case you haven't seen it, canada just passed a new law that changed citizen-by-birth nationality laws.
passed in Dec, Bill C-3 now says basically anyone with Canadian ancestry IS a canadian.
do your own research, I'm not an expert, but all of us americans should know about this & look into it
passed in Dec, Bill C-3 now says basically anyone with Canadian ancestry IS a canadian.
do your own research, I'm not an expert, but all of us americans should know about this & look into it
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To all the Americans now realize that their skin color will not protect from ICE brutality.
Welcome to the resistance.
Welcome to the resistance.
January 8, 2026 at 10:51 PM
To all the Americans now realize that their skin color will not protect from ICE brutality.
Welcome to the resistance.
Welcome to the resistance.
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Reading is sexy and if you want to check out some of my stuff, I'm published in this!
Huge shout out to the one and only @sugarbutch.net for their top shelf writing and editing and organizational skills 💪
nowherebookshop.com/book/9781627...
Huge shout out to the one and only @sugarbutch.net for their top shelf writing and editing and organizational skills 💪
nowherebookshop.com/book/9781627...
January 8, 2026 at 7:29 PM
Reading is sexy and if you want to check out some of my stuff, I'm published in this!
Huge shout out to the one and only @sugarbutch.net for their top shelf writing and editing and organizational skills 💪
nowherebookshop.com/book/9781627...
Huge shout out to the one and only @sugarbutch.net for their top shelf writing and editing and organizational skills 💪
nowherebookshop.com/book/9781627...
I went from heated rivalry to pluribus.
(I fear I might have made a mistake.)
take me back to the cottage pls k thx
(I fear I might have made a mistake.)
take me back to the cottage pls k thx
January 8, 2026 at 7:22 AM
I went from heated rivalry to pluribus.
(I fear I might have made a mistake.)
take me back to the cottage pls k thx
(I fear I might have made a mistake.)
take me back to the cottage pls k thx
went down a film rabbit hole last night & ended up doing a bunch of research on:
- films with incredible music scores
- wlw / sapphic / girls kissing films (or, films where girls should have kissed)
- trans masc characters
letterboxd.com/mrsexsmith/l...
- films with incredible music scores
- wlw / sapphic / girls kissing films (or, films where girls should have kissed)
- trans masc characters
letterboxd.com/mrsexsmith/l...
mrsexsmith’s lists
mrsexsmith’s lists
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January 7, 2026 at 7:30 PM
went down a film rabbit hole last night & ended up doing a bunch of research on:
- films with incredible music scores
- wlw / sapphic / girls kissing films (or, films where girls should have kissed)
- trans masc characters
letterboxd.com/mrsexsmith/l...
- films with incredible music scores
- wlw / sapphic / girls kissing films (or, films where girls should have kissed)
- trans masc characters
letterboxd.com/mrsexsmith/l...
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December 31, 2025 at 1:01 PM
No country has ever increased freedom and liberty by banning books - www.bookbanpetition.us
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there were transphobes outside my grocery store today!!
yelling about voting for a particular ballot measure to "keep boys out of girl's sports" and "put parental rights back in the classroom"
wish I'd had glitter in my pocket to shower them with
yelling about voting for a particular ballot measure to "keep boys out of girl's sports" and "put parental rights back in the classroom"
wish I'd had glitter in my pocket to shower them with
December 31, 2025 at 12:51 AM
there were transphobes outside my grocery store today!!
yelling about voting for a particular ballot measure to "keep boys out of girl's sports" and "put parental rights back in the classroom"
wish I'd had glitter in my pocket to shower them with
yelling about voting for a particular ballot measure to "keep boys out of girl's sports" and "put parental rights back in the classroom"
wish I'd had glitter in my pocket to shower them with
finally remembering how to use an app like bsky — when I'm tempted to text someone something, but it's actually quite random and they don't really need to know and I don't need to keep bothering them with bids for attention
December 31, 2025 at 12:50 AM
finally remembering how to use an app like bsky — when I'm tempted to text someone something, but it's actually quite random and they don't really need to know and I don't need to keep bothering them with bids for attention
one of the things I kept up in 2025 — which was some of my most pleasurable and fun — was sexting with you pervs. amazing how much we can do with so little words, and how quickly we can fall into a banter of a story, or power, or dirty talk. I love it www.sextpanther.com/dirtywordsda...
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December 30, 2025 at 10:06 PM
one of the things I kept up in 2025 — which was some of my most pleasurable and fun — was sexting with you pervs. amazing how much we can do with so little words, and how quickly we can fall into a banter of a story, or power, or dirty talk. I love it www.sextpanther.com/dirtywordsda...
started watching "your friends & neighbors" and it's so much better than I expected! I do like jon hamm, so I figured I'd enjoy it, but wow the commentary on rich middle-aged white america is pretty scathing. what a foreign world (to me, anyway)
December 30, 2025 at 9:56 PM
started watching "your friends & neighbors" and it's so much better than I expected! I do like jon hamm, so I figured I'd enjoy it, but wow the commentary on rich middle-aged white america is pretty scathing. what a foreign world (to me, anyway)
if someone says they have a "partner" and a "boyfriend" (or girlfriend), which would you assume is the more significant relationship?
December 25, 2025 at 3:28 AM
if someone says they have a "partner" and a "boyfriend" (or girlfriend), which would you assume is the more significant relationship?
hiii if you're into films, let's be friends on letterboxd letterboxd.com/mrsexsmith/
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mrsexsmith uses Letterboxd to share film reviews and lists. 1,119 films watched. Favorites: True Romance (1993), Bound (1996), Station Eleven (2021), The Usual Suspects (1995).
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December 24, 2025 at 1:09 AM
hiii if you're into films, let's be friends on letterboxd letterboxd.com/mrsexsmith/
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When I hear "there's no gay romance" "m/m was created by women" "romance is for women" I think of the number of author bios in the back of "Best Gay Romance" books, or magazines, especially the 90s, ending with notations of when those authors died and I get so fucking angry I cannot even tell you.
December 22, 2025 at 2:05 AM
When I hear "there's no gay romance" "m/m was created by women" "romance is for women" I think of the number of author bios in the back of "Best Gay Romance" books, or magazines, especially the 90s, ending with notations of when those authors died and I get so fucking angry I cannot even tell you.
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Four books. One grand prize. Five days left until voting ends.
2025 was the year of the transfeminine contemporary novel, and the four novels shortlisted for Best Transfeminine Fiction are leading the charge.
If you haven't voted yet, now is the time. Voting closes Dec. 26th at 11:59pm EST 🩷
2025 was the year of the transfeminine contemporary novel, and the four novels shortlisted for Best Transfeminine Fiction are leading the charge.
If you haven't voted yet, now is the time. Voting closes Dec. 26th at 11:59pm EST 🩷
The 2025 Shortlist for Best Transfeminine Fiction (TFR Awards)
Four books. One grand prize. Vote now in the 2025 TFR Awards, open until Dec. 26 at 11:59pm EST.
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December 22, 2025 at 2:03 AM
Four books. One grand prize. Five days left until voting ends.
2025 was the year of the transfeminine contemporary novel, and the four novels shortlisted for Best Transfeminine Fiction are leading the charge.
If you haven't voted yet, now is the time. Voting closes Dec. 26th at 11:59pm EST 🩷
2025 was the year of the transfeminine contemporary novel, and the four novels shortlisted for Best Transfeminine Fiction are leading the charge.
If you haven't voted yet, now is the time. Voting closes Dec. 26th at 11:59pm EST 🩷
watching the lovely Brandi Carlile holiday livestream concert tonight — this is about as much xmas music as I can take these days tbh
December 22, 2025 at 2:35 AM
watching the lovely Brandi Carlile holiday livestream concert tonight — this is about as much xmas music as I can take these days tbh