Sinclair Sexsmith
@sugarbutch.net
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Sinclair Sexsmith
@sugarbutch.net
· Oct 21
I'm officially taking a break until the end of January.
no scheduled posts, no promo. I'll still be doing some teaching, and will send out newsletters monthly with the schedule & info. and I will do some promo for Year in Kink because — it's that time of year!
otherwise, I'm on social media break
no scheduled posts, no promo. I'll still be doing some teaching, and will send out newsletters monthly with the schedule & info. and I will do some promo for Year in Kink because — it's that time of year!
otherwise, I'm on social media break
doing Daddy 101 through Wicked Grounds tonight, I freakin love that workshop! always inspires me
(it really is a 101, but I've been working on a 201!)
(it really is a 101, but I've been working on a 201!)
November 26, 2025 at 1:54 AM
doing Daddy 101 through Wicked Grounds tonight, I freakin love that workshop! always inspires me
(it really is a 101, but I've been working on a 201!)
(it really is a 101, but I've been working on a 201!)
I didn't even know vaginal plugs were a thing until Uberrime's! and tbh I love them — wearing them under a harness is a pro move if you like internal stimulation.
The Sensi Vaginal Plug, a short plump toy with a rounded head for clenching.
Great for kegeling, warming up for something larger/longer, or avoiding the bulky base or cumbersome length of a dildo.
Available in 3 sizes, in your choice of firmness and 1-3 colors: uberrime.com/a/search?q=s...
Great for kegeling, warming up for something larger/longer, or avoiding the bulky base or cumbersome length of a dildo.
Available in 3 sizes, in your choice of firmness and 1-3 colors: uberrime.com/a/search?q=s...
November 26, 2025 at 12:02 AM
I didn't even know vaginal plugs were a thing until Uberrime's! and tbh I love them — wearing them under a harness is a pro move if you like internal stimulation.
I started Orphan Black Echoes + I'm *obsessed*
I really liked the first OB series, and this builds on it in amazing ways
(I'm spending a lot of time on my own = watching a lot of shows = yes I'm ok but also)
I really liked the first OB series, and this builds on it in amazing ways
(I'm spending a lot of time on my own = watching a lot of shows = yes I'm ok but also)
November 23, 2025 at 9:38 AM
I started Orphan Black Echoes + I'm *obsessed*
I really liked the first OB series, and this builds on it in amazing ways
(I'm spending a lot of time on my own = watching a lot of shows = yes I'm ok but also)
I really liked the first OB series, and this builds on it in amazing ways
(I'm spending a lot of time on my own = watching a lot of shows = yes I'm ok but also)
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After hundreds of hours of reading and research, my 2025 Starter Guide to transfeminine literature is finally live!
No matter your experience level, there's a book for you! 🏳️⚧️📚 #transbooks
The list covers a vast range of genres. There are 78 handcrafted recs on this list, and I've read all but two.
No matter your experience level, there's a book for you! 🏳️⚧️📚 #transbooks
The list covers a vast range of genres. There are 78 handcrafted recs on this list, and I've read all but two.
Start Here (2025 Edition)
Are you questioning your gender and searching for fiction that’ll help you figure out what a transition might look like? Are you a trans woman or a femmeby who’s never seen herself on the tradition…
thetransfemininereview.com
November 7, 2025 at 2:11 AM
After hundreds of hours of reading and research, my 2025 Starter Guide to transfeminine literature is finally live!
No matter your experience level, there's a book for you! 🏳️⚧️📚 #transbooks
The list covers a vast range of genres. There are 78 handcrafted recs on this list, and I've read all but two.
No matter your experience level, there's a book for you! 🏳️⚧️📚 #transbooks
The list covers a vast range of genres. There are 78 handcrafted recs on this list, and I've read all but two.
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Still thinking queer porn doesn't exist? (WRONG!)
Here's a banger post by THEM with recommendations of porn made by and for queer and trans folks -- including our very own QTPOC+BIPOC- owned and operated membership site, CrashPadSeries.com ❤️
www.them.us/story/how-to...
Here's a banger post by THEM with recommendations of porn made by and for queer and trans folks -- including our very own QTPOC+BIPOC- owned and operated membership site, CrashPadSeries.com ❤️
www.them.us/story/how-to...
How to Find Actually Good Queer Porn
There’s plenty of porn out there made by actual queer people and studios that are pro-sex worker.
www.them.us
November 13, 2025 at 8:49 PM
Still thinking queer porn doesn't exist? (WRONG!)
Here's a banger post by THEM with recommendations of porn made by and for queer and trans folks -- including our very own QTPOC+BIPOC- owned and operated membership site, CrashPadSeries.com ❤️
www.them.us/story/how-to...
Here's a banger post by THEM with recommendations of porn made by and for queer and trans folks -- including our very own QTPOC+BIPOC- owned and operated membership site, CrashPadSeries.com ❤️
www.them.us/story/how-to...
do any of y'all who run a site allow paid 'guest' posts? I have no idea what to charge for things like that — if you do it, can we chat? DM me please
November 4, 2025 at 2:04 AM
do any of y'all who run a site allow paid 'guest' posts? I have no idea what to charge for things like that — if you do it, can we chat? DM me please
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A big THANK YOU to all our Bootblack-Level Partners for this year's Event:
Pandastory, Sinclair Sexsmith (@sugarbutch.net), Cecelia Tan Publishing, and Talking to Storms
Pandastory, Sinclair Sexsmith (@sugarbutch.net), Cecelia Tan Publishing, and Talking to Storms
November 3, 2025 at 3:22 PM
A big THANK YOU to all our Bootblack-Level Partners for this year's Event:
Pandastory, Sinclair Sexsmith (@sugarbutch.net), Cecelia Tan Publishing, and Talking to Storms
Pandastory, Sinclair Sexsmith (@sugarbutch.net), Cecelia Tan Publishing, and Talking to Storms
sometimes things with my name on tumblr are ... kinda amazing
(ps I WISH that was my whole job)
(ps I WISH that was my whole job)
November 3, 2025 at 6:29 AM
sometimes things with my name on tumblr are ... kinda amazing
(ps I WISH that was my whole job)
(ps I WISH that was my whole job)
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PSA for all trans girls, and I do mean all
November 1, 2025 at 5:18 PM
PSA for all trans girls, and I do mean all
@prisonculture.bsky.social I know your 9/1 deadline passed, and bluestockings is now closing; do you know if it's still useful to send them books? or are they more focused on letting go of inventory?
October 29, 2025 at 7:20 PM
@prisonculture.bsky.social I know your 9/1 deadline passed, and bluestockings is now closing; do you know if it's still useful to send them books? or are they more focused on letting go of inventory?
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Did you see the mega bundle for #AceWeek ?? Did you look at those books? Because I have read a significant chunks of them, and they alone would be worth the $50
itch.io/b/3318/ace-p...
🌈📚 #AsexualBooks #QueerSFF
itch.io/b/3318/ace-p...
🌈📚 #AsexualBooks #QueerSFF
October 22, 2025 at 6:33 PM
Did you see the mega bundle for #AceWeek ?? Did you look at those books? Because I have read a significant chunks of them, and they alone would be worth the $50
itch.io/b/3318/ace-p...
🌈📚 #AsexualBooks #QueerSFF
itch.io/b/3318/ace-p...
🌈📚 #AsexualBooks #QueerSFF
have any of you hired a career/job coach to help you get employed? I'm considering all my options at this point.
October 22, 2025 at 7:58 PM
have any of you hired a career/job coach to help you get employed? I'm considering all my options at this point.
there must be a way to mass-block right? or do I have to go into each one and block them individually?
Don't engage. Just block. They want to push their rage bait on here. Don't give them the satisfaction.
bsky.app/profile/did:...
bsky.app/profile/did:...
October 22, 2025 at 7:56 PM
there must be a way to mass-block right? or do I have to go into each one and block them individually?
I'm officially taking a break until the end of January.
no scheduled posts, no promo. I'll still be doing some teaching, and will send out newsletters monthly with the schedule & info. and I will do some promo for Year in Kink because — it's that time of year!
otherwise, I'm on social media break
no scheduled posts, no promo. I'll still be doing some teaching, and will send out newsletters monthly with the schedule & info. and I will do some promo for Year in Kink because — it's that time of year!
otherwise, I'm on social media break
October 21, 2025 at 8:20 AM
I'm officially taking a break until the end of January.
no scheduled posts, no promo. I'll still be doing some teaching, and will send out newsletters monthly with the schedule & info. and I will do some promo for Year in Kink because — it's that time of year!
otherwise, I'm on social media break
no scheduled posts, no promo. I'll still be doing some teaching, and will send out newsletters monthly with the schedule & info. and I will do some promo for Year in Kink because — it's that time of year!
otherwise, I'm on social media break
I'm rewatching Orphan Black and ... wtf where did all the mouth/dental trauma happen!? did I stop watching after season 2?? I thought I watched the whole thing but I definitely don't remember this
October 21, 2025 at 8:18 AM
I'm rewatching Orphan Black and ... wtf where did all the mouth/dental trauma happen!? did I stop watching after season 2?? I thought I watched the whole thing but I definitely don't remember this
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I know this is an old thought, but I came across this brilliant Octavia Butler poem again today, and I felt a fresh wave of grief that our president and his staff are cowards, fools, thieves, liars, AND tyrants, and what their awfulness is doing to us in turn.
May 2, 2025 at 1:52 PM
I know this is an old thought, but I came across this brilliant Octavia Butler poem again today, and I felt a fresh wave of grief that our president and his staff are cowards, fools, thieves, liars, AND tyrants, and what their awfulness is doing to us in turn.
I can’t believe spotify is running ads for ICE. I cancelled the account I’ve had for 10+ years. (this is one of many reasons, hit still.) i’m so pissed.
#CancelSpotify
They are running ICE ads.
They aren't the only company, but I think we should make an example out of Spotify and do an economic boycott against companies supporting masked, armed agents terrorizing innocent Americans with impunity.
Spread the word.
www.snopes.com/fact-check/s...
They are running ICE ads.
They aren't the only company, but I think we should make an example out of Spotify and do an economic boycott against companies supporting masked, armed agents terrorizing innocent Americans with impunity.
Spread the word.
www.snopes.com/fact-check/s...
October 20, 2025 at 12:33 PM
I can’t believe spotify is running ads for ICE. I cancelled the account I’ve had for 10+ years. (this is one of many reasons, hit still.) i’m so pissed.
D/s Playground has some incredible freebies that I highly suggest everyone checks out. the protocol game is a fun way to build D/s skills for anyone playing: https://bit.ly/3FajtrF
October 20, 2025 at 12:10 AM
D/s Playground has some incredible freebies that I highly suggest everyone checks out. the protocol game is a fun way to build D/s skills for anyone playing: https://bit.ly/3FajtrF
being on patreon has enabled me to:
* get rid of all the ads on sugarbutch
* begin to make sugarbutch's images more SFW
* launch a discord server
* launch monthly D/s webinars
thank you <3
http://bit.ly/2t5ZmGh
* get rid of all the ads on sugarbutch
* begin to make sugarbutch's images more SFW
* launch a discord server
* launch monthly D/s webinars
thank you <3
http://bit.ly/2t5ZmGh
Sinclair Sexsmith | Patreon
spicy writing & D/s education
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October 19, 2025 at 11:00 PM
being on patreon has enabled me to:
* get rid of all the ads on sugarbutch
* begin to make sugarbutch's images more SFW
* launch a discord server
* launch monthly D/s webinars
thank you <3
http://bit.ly/2t5ZmGh
* get rid of all the ads on sugarbutch
* begin to make sugarbutch's images more SFW
* launch a discord server
* launch monthly D/s webinars
thank you <3
http://bit.ly/2t5ZmGh
A creative, kinky workshop series that feeds your power exchange and your writing life. Subscribe: http://bit.ly/28XyoH8
October 19, 2025 at 10:00 PM
A creative, kinky workshop series that feeds your power exchange and your writing life. Subscribe: http://bit.ly/28XyoH8
don't you want to feel secure in D/s while playing with other people? work with me to see if some of the tools I have will support you to get to the next level of D/s that you are eager to explore https://bit.ly/3rLhiI9
October 19, 2025 at 4:22 PM
don't you want to feel secure in D/s while playing with other people? work with me to see if some of the tools I have will support you to get to the next level of D/s that you are eager to explore https://bit.ly/3rLhiI9
Power exchange is powerful—and sometimes painfully so. If you want a space to explore, grieve, and grow with others who get it, come to the workshops: http://bit.ly/28XyoH8
October 17, 2025 at 3:00 AM
Power exchange is powerful—and sometimes painfully so. If you want a space to explore, grieve, and grow with others who get it, come to the workshops: http://bit.ly/28XyoH8
lots of fantastic dominance/submission videos over on kink academy — if you haven't seen them already, I highly recommend http://bit.ly/2FM8NCi
Dominance and Submission
bit.ly
October 16, 2025 at 10:15 PM
lots of fantastic dominance/submission videos over on kink academy — if you haven't seen them already, I highly recommend http://bit.ly/2FM8NCi
His mind calmed, quieted, in that way that it only does when there is a cock deep inside. Something in his chest unwound, spiraling outward, through his shoulders and hips, through his fingers and toes. He had no words.
https://bit.ly/3PCMLUO
https://bit.ly/3PCMLUO
October 16, 2025 at 8:51 PM
His mind calmed, quieted, in that way that it only does when there is a cock deep inside. Something in his chest unwound, spiraling outward, through his shoulders and hips, through his fingers and toes. He had no words.
https://bit.ly/3PCMLUO
https://bit.ly/3PCMLUO
get my Digital Book Collection. it includes Sweet & Rough, the novella series, The Dyke in Psych Class, Bois Will Be Bois, Heart Breaks Open, Begging for More, The Brute and the Brat, The Color of a Bruise, & The Houseboy's Rebellion. https://bit.ly/3IkXu6s
October 16, 2025 at 8:15 PM
get my Digital Book Collection. it includes Sweet & Rough, the novella series, The Dyke in Psych Class, Bois Will Be Bois, Heart Breaks Open, Begging for More, The Brute and the Brat, The Color of a Bruise, & The Houseboy's Rebellion. https://bit.ly/3IkXu6s