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Rain DeGrey
@raindegrey.bsky.social
Author/advice columnist/educator/podcaster

https://www.raindegrey.com/
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Full set available here ☺️

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November 27, 2025 at 8:16 PM
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Saw a personal ad that specified being “D&D-free” (i.e. they have no STIs and don’t use hard drugs) and my first thought was “Why would I fuck someone who’s vehemently against Dungeons & Dragons”
November 27, 2025 at 2:35 PM
Take care of yourself today.

Go to bed early! Stay up late! Take a long hot bath. Eat a bunch of pie. Watch some relaxing TV. Catch a movie.

Self-care can look like not forcing yourself to eat a meal with family getting increasingly drunk just so they can tolerate each other for multiple hours.
Today can be a rough one for a lot of people

If, like me, you find yourself not fitting in with what society says you are "supposed to be" doing today?

You don't have to force yourself to sit at a table with someone just cuz the two of you share DNA

Chosen family can be a lot closer than blood 💯
November 27, 2025 at 7:21 PM
Today can be a rough one for a lot of people

If, like me, you find yourself not fitting in with what society says you are "supposed to be" doing today?

You don't have to force yourself to sit at a table with someone just cuz the two of you share DNA

Chosen family can be a lot closer than blood 💯
November 27, 2025 at 7:20 PM
Never be afraid to come out of your cocoon and unfurl your wings

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November 27, 2025 at 7:12 PM
Behind the scenes of the Portland Fetish Ball put together by the one and only @mxbliss.bsky.social

#portlandfetishball
November 27, 2025 at 4:40 PM
The tangled webs that @mxbliss.bsky.social weaves ✨
November 27, 2025 at 4:36 PM
I can't say that Rom-Coms are usually in my wheelhouse, but this one had a scene in a fetish club, which is much more my wheelhouse. Lol.

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#filming #onset
November 27, 2025 at 4:28 PM
On the set of the Rom-Com "Whodunnit"

Not sure when it is coming out, but it was a fun day of filming 😄
November 27, 2025 at 4:23 PM
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So now we need to figure out the ideal band name for Kate Sloan and Lili. And of course, the album.
would be a perfect album cover if me and Lili ever started a band together
November 26, 2025 at 8:57 PM
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November 26, 2025 at 1:44 PM
Portland Fetish Ball 💋
November 23, 2025 at 6:12 PM
Don't have any plans for the day?

Want to level up your game with an intensive featuring me and MxBliss?

We got you 😉

Join us today for our Bedroom Bootcamp intensive! Come with comfy clothes, whatever questions you might have and an open mind!

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November 23, 2025 at 6:11 PM
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On my way to Portland to perform in theFetish Ball by @mxbliss.bsky.social 😈💖

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November 20, 2025 at 9:09 PM
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Had a blast shooting today, including some pics with the inimitable @raindegrey.bsky.social 😈 (BlueSky gets the nips version of this selfie)

We're both performing tonight at the Portland Fetish Ball, hope to see you there ❤️‍🔥

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November 23, 2025 at 3:35 AM
Cyberpunk Church ✨
November 21, 2025 at 5:48 PM
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Grok now says Elon Musk should have won the 2016 AVN For Performer of the Year.
I touched the poop and I won't apologize
November 20, 2025 at 10:43 PM
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Elon Musk is very explicitly altering the X algorithm to show people content that aligns with his far-right worldview.

If you're still posting there and think you can win hearts and minds or something, this is what you're up against. You're never going to win a rigged game.
November 21, 2025 at 12:36 AM
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Amazing stuff
November 21, 2025 at 12:41 AM
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Can’t believe the whole country has to suffer through the return of Dickensian childhood diseases because the worst, most ignorant attention-demanders decided other people’s expertise makes them feel bad
November 20, 2025 at 4:19 AM
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November 20, 2025 at 11:06 PM
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Essentially now any government that courts or aligns itself with the United States government from this point forward -- and specifically, the Trump administration -- is aligning its national identity with these values.

If WW2 mattered and what nooses mean are not "potential" matters of opinion.
November 20, 2025 at 10:48 PM
The Portland Fetish Ball: Darkness

Sat Nov 22!

See the lineup of talented performers at: portlandfetishball.com

Be entertained by mind-blowing fetish performances, dance in a beautiful ballroom & play in a monitored dungeon space overlooking the ballroom

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November 20, 2025 at 8:17 PM
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man we are not dealing with a subtle bunch
Exclusive: The U.S. Coast Guard will no longer classify the swastika, nooses and the Confederate flag as hate symbols.

The military service drafted a new policy that classifies them as “potentially divisive.”
U.S. Coast Guard will no longer classify swastikas, nooses as hate symbols
The military service, which falls under the Department of Homeland Security, has drafted a new policy that classifies such items “potentially divisive.”
www.washingtonpost.com
November 20, 2025 at 7:15 PM
"I am going to be a dictator on day one"
Trump calls for Democratic members of Congress to be hanged
November 20, 2025 at 2:55 PM