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She ain't out to get you but she's better on your side.
Getting ready for the new year by unsubscribing from 99% of the emails that hit my inbox. @annehelen.bsky.social 's Culture Study is the 1% that survives the purge. #cleanslate #digitaljunkmail
December 28, 2025 at 4:25 PM
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Shout out to quality stepdads. You make a difference. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

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December 22, 2025 at 2:11 PM
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An easy way to be less miserable is to switch from being anti-things-you-hate to pro-things-you-like.
November 1, 2025 at 2:24 PM
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"Common decency stigmatizes people that do not participate in it—removes them from voluntary association. We indeed have to live with one another, but terms and conditions apply."

me on why Ezra Klein should be ashamed / why shame is Good Actually

www.bostonreview.net/articles/how...
How Can We Live Together? - Boston Review
Ezra Klein is wrong: shame is essential.
www.bostonreview.net
September 23, 2025 at 5:09 PM
Get civicpilled
we must start a 4chan movement that 'ironically' performs acts of charity, which gradually over time inevitably become real virtue.
Each alleged mass shooter is even more On the Computer All the Time than the previous one. Probably nothing to worry about there
September 12, 2025 at 7:41 PM
"The monk knows two things: 'I like dancing,' and 'I cannot make people like or dislike me.' And so, they dance.

This, for Burkeman, is what a happy life means. It’s one that lives in the joyful space between control and passivity."
The dancing monk: Why mature people don't chase total control
The child has no control at all and the adult tries to control too much. But as philosopher Oliver Burkeman notes, there is a third way.
bigthink.com
June 15, 2025 at 6:18 PM
Today I learned how to fix a malfunctioning double-hung window. To do so, I had to learn what a "balance shoe" is. Surprisingly, it bears absolutely no resemblance to a stiletto heel, or even a platform. 👠👡
June 8, 2025 at 12:35 AM
Being on the receiving end of a good scalp massage really clarifies why your animal friends are always clamoring for head scritches.
June 3, 2025 at 12:30 PM
This kid is alright
"Do you want a good government or a country that's in ruins?"

This interview was too good not to share in its entirety. So meet Grant, a 15-year-old student from Princeton, New Jersey, who spoke to our reporter at the #HandsOff rally there.

He has some thoughts.
April 5, 2025 at 10:44 PM
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People who are looking for a way to fight Trump, I have it for you in one name: Kilmar Abrego-Garcia.

He's the poor guy who got pulled off the street, declared a gang member for no reason, then sent off to that hell-hole in El Salvador.

Fight for him because this case will unravel everything. 🧵
April 5, 2025 at 1:14 PM
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i believe in the indominable American spirit to hate one specific really annoying guy
April 2, 2025 at 2:04 AM
This lengthy quote very much appeals to my try-to-see-all-sides, empathetic-but-contrarian way of understanding and responding to the world and its sins.

From a recent post on MattStoneIsTrying.com:
April 1, 2025 at 12:13 AM
There has to be a German word for a long-form metaphor that is darkly accurate but also extremely funny, like this is.
DOGE-Inspired Spring Cleaning
Start with your closet. Identify all the T-shirts you haven’t worn in three years. Then throw away all your clothes, including the ones you’re wear...
www.mcsweeneys.net
March 22, 2025 at 10:24 PM
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