My condolences, I hope the fact that she passed with so much love and care given to her by you brings you & your family some solace in your grief. Hope you get all the happiness, support, and comfort you deserve

Time and time again ive tried to like it but its like im trying to enjoy the taste of sweaty gym sock smegma

after lowering my zoloft dose (common SSRI for treating OCD) so that my brain starts intensively, obsessively ruminating, rapidfires unwanted intrusive thoughts that force me to react compulsively, & knows my dad's entire side of the family has severe OCD: ok but do I really even have OCD tho. lol

but as always; I think everyone's too focused on boxing in their experiences with very rigid labels and everything that has to do with sex or gender lands on a spectrum that varies from person to person

so like, yeah I do think being shitty to trans men doesnt solve anything. the vast majority of us do not benefit from the same privileges as cis men, I'm not sure we need our own word to describe that hatred when it's usually just another facet of misogyny though ?

that's my onion though. its just a completely different experience of misogyny and transphobia to like, trans women or transfems.

lets be honest, the people who hate us see us as women/women-lite/ something between woman and man in the most like "talking dog" kind of way and resent us for ... "betraying" our womanhood, I guess. Like the hatred that is aimed at us is usually a Spray-And-Pray of trans/misogyny

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