I also feel like there’s some conflation with self regulation going on.

And self regulation is very difficult for everyone. Especially if you have wounds/trauma.

Some people are so ableist. They disregard disabled people. Audio books are perfect for the blind as well. Get your books in any way you can.

Dear trans femme,

You are worth fighting for.

I’m honouring what I feel a connection to.

A connection I feel, despite experiencing overwhelming violence to connect to something else.

Dear trans girl,

Your spiritual journey is to honour what you feel a connection to.

to their beliefs and values, not mine. *

Typos 🥴

Anyone who frames queer identity as a “lifestyle” is such a massive red flag walking.

I’m restoring balance to my body and spirit

It gives so much room for people to interpret our complex journeys and experiences as it relates to our identity as just a person waking up one day and deciding to choose this other identity/label

Which is so untrue and causes a lot of erasure.