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The Duchess
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Sashaying on life's runway, doing what I do, minding my business, in my lane.
40Plus. Pogonophile. Cigar Life.
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Since I'm here..... #WayBackWednesday #CigarLife
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The holidays hit differently for a lot of people.

Check on your friends.

Check on yourself.

You don’t have to crack anyone’s armor or facade but sometimes a simple “you good?” or “yerr”does more than you realize.
December 25, 2025 at 1:14 AM
Damn sure is.
December 25, 2025 at 1:14 AM
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If you want it; go get it
December 25, 2025 at 12:29 AM
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Heavy is the hand that pours my whiskey
December 24, 2025 at 11:21 PM
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December 24, 2025 at 9:48 PM
Round 2 with 1 of my favs.
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#TheCigarLounge
#CigarSky
December 24, 2025 at 9:46 PM
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I am blessed to live close to a delightful public garden, which is home to stunning zinnias in season. This one from the past summer.

#AlphabetChallenge #WeekZForZero
#EastCoastKin

#dailyflowers 🌱
#flowerreport
#bloomscrolling
December 24, 2025 at 9:44 PM
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December 24, 2025 at 9:43 PM
Christmas season today. However, been at "Don't ask" a few times before.
December 24, 2025 at 7:54 PM
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We attract a certain caliber and quality of soul when we're healed, fully functional, and firing on all cylinders.
December 24, 2025 at 6:30 PM
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December 24, 2025 at 5:49 PM
If she plotting in the hoodie…you’re doing something right.
December 24, 2025 at 5:47 PM
Folks I trust & am willing to share my time with.
December 24, 2025 at 4:16 PM
Reason why I only smoke with a select few folks.
December 24, 2025 at 4:14 PM
THIS!!!!
Like,

Folks be wanting to smoke cigars with me, but that’s usually my safe space.

My time to tap out of everything and just be with myself.

I don’t really be wanting to share that time with any ol body.
December 24, 2025 at 4:13 PM
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#CigarSky
December 24, 2025 at 3:03 PM
A morning cigar will get smoked, & boozy hot chocolate will be had TUHDAY!!!
December 24, 2025 at 1:42 PM
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Merry Christmas Eve
December 24, 2025 at 1:21 PM
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Do something good for yourself today.
December 24, 2025 at 10:28 AM
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Never get tired of asking God to guide you
December 24, 2025 at 10:02 AM
Mawnin Mawnin!!!!
December 24, 2025 at 11:52 AM
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If I'm the villain in your story, don't forget to make it epic. Otherwise, you're wasting time.
December 24, 2025 at 1:12 AM
🤣🤣🤣 This is cute.
December 23, 2025 at 7:57 PM
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I can figured it out with any zodiac sign. Just be a Handsome Sun and Big Dick Rising with a Really Good Job Moon.
December 23, 2025 at 7:51 PM
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If your student loans are in default, do what you can in the next 2 weeks to get them current because starting in January, if they’re default they’re gonna start garnishing your wages.
December 23, 2025 at 7:35 PM