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sexy n dying
@the-hive.bsky.social
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multiply disabled genderfluid freak
sick af
Plural
(erotic) artist + hiatused sw
Navigating inaccessibility, forever pandemics, climate collapse

I love 🩸18+

Xe/hir
I just don’t really understand why it has to be like this. We could just mitigate the pandemic and not watch everyone around us get progressively more chronically ill. It fucking sucks so much.
My 20s were stolen, my art was stolen by censorship, and I’m severed from leatherqueer community
September 5, 2025 at 12:18 AM
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COVID prevention is suicide prevention.

If you're leaving this out of your "suicide prevention awareness month" content, you need to read up on disability justice.
September 4, 2025 at 7:43 AM
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Argentina is facing an invisible #LongCOVID crisis, marked by a lack of clinics, minimal media attention, and no disability insurance to help people with the disease cope with their inability to work— all amid a 48% cut to the national health budget under President Javier Milei. bit.ly/4n2Z0Ju
September 4, 2025 at 2:34 PM
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everyone comfy just wants everything to be fine at no cost to them and sorry honey, it just doesn't. work. that. way.
September 4, 2025 at 11:02 PM
If you’re incensed about RFKs approach to public health, you could be brave+ *talk* to people and reach out to organizers of nightlife+other events. Talk to them about other mitigation strategies to keep each other safe during a public health crisis.

Proper testing protocols + masking saves lives.
September 4, 2025 at 11:59 PM
I would like to share that I emailed her literally *begging* her to implement any sort of Covid precautions at her kink events. I explained that trans and queer, Black people, sws, disabled ppl have the highest rates of long covid, that RATs can be unreliable. At the time the US was in a surge-
I have more information to share about Annie Rose Malamet of Girls Guts Giallo, specifically about abuse she enabled in her own discord server and how she was running the space like an actual cult. Since the abuse allegations came out in May, a lot of us have been unpacking our experiences in GGG
September 4, 2025 at 11:08 PM
God I wish the pandemic would end or that people would just care about it I’m so fucking sick of this I want to be a full person and to focus on my hobbies and interests and not be cynically depressed about the state of humanity
September 4, 2025 at 10:57 PM
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She put out a nebulous statement about "harm" and working with an "accountability coach." Don't fall for that. She fled the Bay Area because she's an abuser and burned all her community bridges there. Annie Rose Malamet is dangerous and not to be trusted. Don't date her, don't work with her.
Myself and the other moderators of GGG have resigned and are cutting ties after learning about the abuse Annie Rose Malamet has put her former partners through, as well as learning that she's exploited multiple people's free labor, including my own, while lying about her finances.
August 12, 2025 at 9:19 PM
teaching myself bookbinding and thinking about butches
August 31, 2025 at 1:13 PM
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First, we had Disability Rights, then we had Disability Justice, and now I would like to unveil my own framework: Disability Vengeance.
August 30, 2025 at 12:03 PM
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They cant be fascists cause that would mean normal people and the establishment of my country would be fascists and that would make me upset
I think part of this “dont call em fascist nah mate theyre not really fascists” is wanting to tell yourself that there isnt a major mainstream wave of fascism normalised in your country
August 29, 2025 at 8:18 AM
just saw a latex dragon mask and I neeeeed it
August 29, 2025 at 5:40 PM
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My great grandma who died when I was 26, she was born in 1899 & lived to 113, she lived through the Spanish flu epidemic. People masked. The community value of protecting each other had dissolved into individualism by COVID when Americans felt the minimum effort would infringe on their privilege.
August 29, 2025 at 4:50 PM
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It's not that hard to care about disabled people but some of y'all don't even try and it shows.
August 28, 2025 at 9:38 PM
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Tuberculosis Outbreak Spreads Across Immigration Centers With First Death Reported
Source: Century Homes America
August 29, 2025 at 1:39 PM
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yes! asexuality is itself a viable mode to interact with sexuality and desire (or negation/refusal/absence) - sexing the body as a heterosexual closure encodes the implication of a compulsory sexuality upon the body, and so sexuality beyond sex admits the possibility of asexuality as well
August 29, 2025 at 2:59 AM
I found this zine on DIY voice masculinization/vocal training! It breaks down terms, techniques, and walks you through the process in a digestible way and provides other resources on the topic.

Xoxo

transreads.org/wp-content/u...
transreads.org
August 29, 2025 at 1:23 PM
rip to the art I made but didn’t scan before I gave it away
August 29, 2025 at 1:05 PM
my friend made up her own neopronouns for me and started using them for me of her own accord and I really, really love the concept of having specific pronouns that people use for you within your relationships w them
August 29, 2025 at 12:49 PM