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Jen “cool older trans lady trying her best”
@transducer.bsky.social
40, she/her, east coast. Live-blogging transition since 2023. 🏳️‍⚧️💊24-12-06; 🏳️‍⚧️💉25-06-24

My posts are about me, not you. Go write your own—I’d love to read them! 💖

Start HRT now, figure the rest out later.

There is still time. The time will pass either way.
omg I don’t think I’d seen you post face before—you’re a *cutie-pie*!! Those gorgeous curls!!! 💖
November 21, 2025 at 12:24 AM
well if there are any from like 2013-2018 you didn’t get & wish you had, DM me, there’s real decent odds that I’d be happy to rehome them when I excavate down to the appropriate level in the hoard lol
November 20, 2025 at 8:32 PM
If you’re looking for info, it’s here (below). If you’re looking for help, DM me; I probably can’t help directly but I can help you look.

You don’t have to come out today. You don’t have to change your pronouns or even think about it strenuously. But you can start HRT just to try it. Please do 💖
November 20, 2025 at 8:31 PM
I’m dreaming of a comics ‘zine version, b&w indie style
November 20, 2025 at 8:29 PM
(also a pity that HeroClix became SUCH a money game, and that the player base is belligerent & smelly even by nerd standards)

(still, we’d never have met our sweetie without it [indirectly], so while the hobby no longer sparks joy for us we thank it for its service as we move on)
November 20, 2025 at 8:24 PM
“barbarian fantasy” makes for such great HeroClix matches—reasons Warhammer is the standard for the genre—it’s too bad the things that make a good HeroClix character and the things that make a good superhero comic character basically have little overlap beyond that
November 20, 2025 at 8:24 PM
Someone said the magic word (HeroClix, of which I am an addict in recovery). Inventory site says there were two figures named “Arkon”—one back in 2018 (L) and one wayyyy back in 2006 (R).

Want me to keep an eye as I sift my collection? I went HAM on the 2018 set that he was in 🤷🏻‍♀️
November 20, 2025 at 8:01 PM
Surprisingly short, tbh. Would absolutely read a longer version, a print version for money even
November 20, 2025 at 7:57 PM
I tend to think the former tbh but “sufficiently advanced incompetence is indistinguishable from malice” and all that
November 20, 2025 at 6:46 PM
feels like one of those questions that contains its own answer tbh

I’ve never liked that kid tbh, always smelled like a grifter
November 20, 2025 at 6:41 PM
totally respect that, babe. 💖 The wisdom to know when to log off is hard-won, I know that from experience 😅
November 20, 2025 at 6:35 PM
Aw congratulations! I love that for you, thank you for sharing your joy 💖
November 20, 2025 at 6:29 PM
plus side, ordering coffee at the Dunkin drive-thru* revealed it’s getting to a point where using the pre-Jen voice is the one that feels like a performance requiring concentration 💖

*(as opposed to the non-drive-thru Dunkin, which is more reliable for quality, and which is firmly in Jen territory)
November 20, 2025 at 6:21 PM
just thank her for me 💖
November 20, 2025 at 6:18 PM
H/T @ @transsalamander.bsky.social for posting it with alt text so it showed up in the search lol (another great reason to use alt text!)
November 20, 2025 at 6:15 PM
I think about this post so often bsky.app/profile/tran...
November 20, 2025 at 6:14 PM
I Liked this post before I read the second half. C’mon babe, that’s thinking you’re outgrowing 💖
November 20, 2025 at 6:13 PM
Right. But cis people can’t see that any more than you or I perceive the air we breathe—we only notice it when it’s pushing against us, or toxic, or absent
November 20, 2025 at 4:49 PM
decade-plus of gaslighting that “trans isn’t a thing, and it’s definitely not a thing YOU could ever be, if it were a thing, which it’s not” 🙃

Anyway. Love this trans joy for you! 💖 keep it up babe 🫂
also if dorley hall is unethical, then all of human society that force-mascs you against your will for the first 10-20 years of your life is even MORE unethical
November 20, 2025 at 4:47 PM