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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · Jul 16

I’m generally quite offended when people call me a menace to society

I mean I’m a menace to far more than that and it’s really rude to just not acknowledge my versatility tbqh

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 2m

Today my brain decided to turn dilating into ‘enbiggening of the pussy’

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 2m

I remember forever ago there was some discourse about how intrusive thoughts somehow have to be harmful or some shit to be qualified as such

And listen my intrusive thoughts are fucking harmful because often they’re so goddamn stupid they cause me psychic damage

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 4h

Lmao yeah I tend to just block them so sounds like I will continue doing that

Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 6h

Why do accounts mass follow other accounts

I know it’s nothing good but like are they hoping for a follow back or something?

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Grem, of 𝐆𝐑𝐄𝐌𝐂𝐎𝐑𝐏 🔜 MCAtlanta! @gremlin.world · 3d

I will never not repost this

(Sound on for maximum effect)

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Jackalope Skellingbun @jackalopezone.neocities.org · 13h

Bluesky: come for The Posts, stay to watch a team of clueless silicon valley dorks desperately try to cope with Actually Normal and Cool Folks being their predominant user base instead of Gregory Angelinvestor Startupman

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

Drinking from a firehose at work lmfao

Also just...packing to move so kinda dumpster fire all around

Moving is gonna be good but the process of moving? Never is.

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

Yeah, I mean I was more talking on a personal day to day level but sure that too

Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

Oh of course and I think some natural deviations are like normal throughout a lifetime together, tbqh. That's just how life works. Part of being in love is being patient through those periods with the other person and eager to reconnect physically when the chance arises IMHO.

Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

Transmascs do really be out here loving Danny DeVito but like for good reason and I'm no exception

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𝕮𝖆𝖓𝖎𝖘𝕬𝖑𝖇𝖚𝖘 @canisalbus.bsky.social · 1d

✦ Papaver ✦

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

Oh absolutely. Like so often I see the person with the higher appetite being painted as immoral or deviant or the person with the lower appetite being painted as cold or selfish etc and like it all just sucks it's nobody's fault

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

Like most of that 90 hours was me and Sinn sitting in silence and being super intense about Satisfactory and building and optimizing lmao

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

I like that though :D

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

also making a mental note to grab the dyson thing RT mentioned because honestly after I move I already told him I'm going to enjoy just being a potato for a while

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

To your credit it does make sense. I'm glad @thesinnamom.gay and I were able to play together peacefully lmao because I feel like it's a good test for relationships and problem solving you'd do as a couple haha.

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

xD When I figure something out I'll let you know but gosh it's been such a long time that I've been trying to figure it out with little result.

Body doubling seems to be the closest I get to having a solution.

Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

Oh for sure. I feel like a lot of people's relationships have that problem and there's so much shame that surrounds it and nobody deserves that. It's really sad imho.

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

Good always comes with some bad and the way I see it I'd be trading my ADHD away for a different devil and I'm pretty adept at making this one my bitch these days so no, I genuinely wouldn't.

Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

You know, I wouldn't. I think about this a lot sometimes.

I like me. If I didn't have ADHD and I didn't grow up with my experiences - I wouldn't be me. Since I like, hell - even LOVE me, why would I want to change me?

Humans aren't made to be perfect but I think what I am is pretty great.

nai THEE corpse bride 🦋 @astoldbynai.blacksky.app · 1d

20. If you had a choice to live without ADHD, would you? Why or why not?

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Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

Organized chaos where sometimes I am the god and master of my domain and other times I'm a feral animal who can barely get anything done and for whom clothes seem like an unwarranted form of oppression and only my brain decides which day it is haha.

nai THEE corpse bride 🦋 @astoldbynai.blacksky.app · 1d

19. How would you describe living with ADHD?

Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

Remind me of things without judgement. Don't take anything I do as a result of it personally. I mean sure I'll always apologize especially if it seemed insensitive and hurt your feelings but understand that my brain was just not making a connection and I genuinely wish it had.

nai THEE corpse bride 🦋 @astoldbynai.blacksky.app · 1d

18. How can someone make your life easier with your ADHD?

Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

That it doesn't exist or that if we simply tried harder we wouldn't have the problems we do.

It always baffles me because people, in general, have a vested interest in not being powerless in their lives and if they are there's usually a problem.

nai THEE corpse bride 🦋 @astoldbynai.blacksky.app · 1d

17. What are some common misconceptions about ADHD?

Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

My self esteem issues. I think everyone has something they dislike but due to my late diagnosis I honestly grew up thinking I was just a lazy slob and there's a LOT of shame that goes into that rather than having a genuine problem.

nai THEE corpse bride 🦋 @astoldbynai.blacksky.app · 1d

16. What is the worst thing about having ADHD?

Anatoly @transferdinand.gay · 1d

Anything that has to do with problem solving and I do mean anything. Present me with a problem and I almost compulsively start working on it. I literally cannot help myself. My brain just loves chewing away at stuff like that.

nai THEE corpse bride 🦋 @astoldbynai.blacksky.app · 1d

15. What sparks your hyperfocus?