It feels a little ironic that I'm not going to announce this on Twitter because the place has become so overrun by transphobic trolls and bots that I don't really post about trans stuff there anymore

Dec. 5 2023 was when I said "How about I just try changing my pronouns on Twitter, just see how it feels? And maybe try out that new name I've been thinking about (for totally cis reasons)?" At first I put it as they/she, but almost immediately felt confident enough to switch the order

This feels like the central toxicity of these dude-gurus: They're feeding men an ideology that immediately casts it as "virtue signaling" whenever anyone states a moral value of any kind. An explicitly nihilistic worldview and a recipe for lifelong misery.

Can't imagine why someone who recoils at other people wanting to make the world a better place is struggling to find a girlfriend.