w/Ainsley
withainsley.bsky.social
w/Ainsley
@withainsley.bsky.social
Trans leftist, restarting my socials after years of hiding from monsters, (I mean family). Aspiring novelist and media analyst. I got lots of takes and you'll find them here
It has been about 14 mo since the last breach. And I have been doing amazing. But today it was breached. I can ignore the breach. I can continue my healthy separation. And I know that is the best. But I still feel unsteady and weak today. I am my masks but hollow today.

Will delete later.
5/5
July 21, 2023 at 4:24 AM
This no contact has been one of the greatest things for my well-being physically and mentally. And everytime it is broken thru some unforeseen avenue, no matter how good I have been doing I start to crumble.

3/x
July 21, 2023 at 4:19 AM
About 3 years ago I went no contact with my whole family. Many of them because it was dangerous for me to continue having any kind of relationship with them, but most because they were enablers who put of their goodness want to "repair" the relationships.
2/x
July 21, 2023 at 4:16 AM
How do I look up this mute list? I have some following to do.
July 18, 2023 at 8:51 PM
Honestly there is no back pedaling this. I can't speak for anyone else but my ability to put aside the greed of big studio execs for the art was tenuous yesterday. It disappeared this morning and even a fantastic deal with WGA might not being it back.
July 13, 2023 at 1:31 AM
I was scrolling through the main feed, not a personalized one and got a surprisingly decent dick pic. Not complaining about that, but yeah the double standard.
July 10, 2023 at 1:31 AM
Reposted by w/Ainsley
Civility is about comforting the
comfortable.

Justice is about comforting the afflicted and *afflicting* the comfortable.

If "etiquette" advice can be used in service of the former and to suppress the latter, it's just toxic and oppressive civility discourse.

The end.
June 26, 2023 at 12:29 AM
Skeet skeet or skoot
June 22, 2023 at 2:17 AM
This post was about sex workers, and I want them to have a safe viable place to do buisness.
June 19, 2023 at 10:01 PM
SW on BlueSky awesome. Creepers and SWERFs, can get the hell out. My 2-cents.
June 19, 2023 at 9:47 PM
Well there is a lot of opportunities in this strategy just not for Twitter or Reddit. Musk's Twitter inspired me apply for BlueSky and the reddit drama left a whole my invite filled.
June 19, 2023 at 4:45 AM
The skills it takes to debate have nothing to do with the ability to lead or to research or explain. It shows an aptitude to manipulate.
June 19, 2023 at 3:59 AM
In politics what do we use debate for? Effectively to get to know the candidates. The same result could be accomplished with a hard hitting interview that pulled no punches. More I think honestly.
June 19, 2023 at 3:57 AM