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Randy Scobey
@www.randyscobey.com
I wrote WHY: A Memoir (Foreword by Anne Heche). My story is also a part of the Emmy nominated film, "Pray Away" as well as "For They Know Not What They Do." www.randyscobey.com.
How It's Going: Seven Years Later
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How It's Going: Seven Years Later
From dreamy beginnings to shared snacks and Real Housewives marathons.
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February 6, 2026 at 7:38 PM
A reflection on childhood scars, bonus parenthood, and finally feeling right in the “wrong” place.
Weird Is Where I Belong
A reflection on childhood scars, bonus parenthood, and finally feeling right in the “wrong” place.
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February 5, 2026 at 1:19 AM
Well, I am going to do an interview with a European newspaper Saturday about how the ex-gay world is making a comeback. Distressing topic that I am glad they are going to cover and am happy to lend my voice in denouncing conversion therapy. Will share more details after the interview.
Randy Scobey (@rrscobey)
Well, I am going to do an interview with a European newspaper Saturday about how the ex-gay world is making a comeback. Distressing topic that I am glad they are going to cover and am happy to lend my...
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February 4, 2026 at 9:05 PM
Evan's post got me amped up...
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Evan’s post got me amped up…
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February 3, 2026 at 6:40 PM
To speak in the parlance of the youngins running around here in pajama pants, anime backpacks and blank stares, I’mma boutta crash out on this cold weather. Bro needs take his cold and get a return label!
Randy Scobey (@rrscobey)
To speak in the parlance of the youngins running around here in pajama pants, anime backpacks and blank stares, I’mma boutta crash out on this cold weather. Bro needs take his cold and get a return l...
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February 3, 2026 at 3:01 PM
Dan gave me this handsome emerald; my birthstone… thank you and tlove you Dan ❤️
February 2, 2026 at 11:52 PM
Randy Scobey (@rrscobey)
LuxEnergy 02012026 #finished
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February 2, 2026 at 9:27 PM
I just started watching Pluribus and two things, 1) why haven’t I started watching this yet? And 2) WT actual F? The premise is so unique, writing is amazing, acting is top notch… I was hooked within the first 15 minutes.
February 1, 2026 at 10:11 PM
Hi Bluesky! I am back. And, Gave Sandy to Cindy for her 85th birthday! Also, our friend Al gave us some sexy t-shirts. Thanks Al!
February 1, 2026 at 9:10 PM
Feeling vs. Seeing: Two Kinds of Empathy We All Need–“Both (types of empathy) matter. One keeps our hearts soft; the other keeps our minds open.”
Feeling vs. Seeing: Two Kinds of Empathy We All Need
Especially in today's political and cultural climate.
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August 29, 2025 at 3:54 PM
Standing up to and dancing in front of h*moph*bes in public isn’t always the way to go, but last Saturday night was; and doing so was very satisfying. #gay #lgbtq+
August 15, 2025 at 1:54 PM
I am going to do a series of short reels on why some of the most vitriolic anti-gay people at usually closeted gays themselves or hiding really deep and dark sexual secrets. There are a number of reasons that could be at play and I hope the follow up videos will be insightful.
August 14, 2025 at 12:15 AM
Having once promoted/lobbyed for the Christian Nationalist version of marriage I know those arguments backwards and forwards. Now that I have been out for 10 years and married to a dude, I know their arguments are shallow and can be disproved easily.

#Marriage #KimDavis #LibertyCounsel #LoveIsLove
August 13, 2025 at 2:07 PM
MACA: Making America a Criminal Asylum #Orlando #Trump #Chump
August 12, 2025 at 1:42 PM
Being Seen: When Celebrities Remind Us We're All Just Human ... Three years ago today, Anne passed. She was the real deal and was truly present when meeting/encouraging anyone. I am forever grateful for her writing the foreword to my book. Thank you for the Sparrows, Anne.
Being Seen: When Celebrities Remind Us We're All Just Human
Inspired by Anne Heche
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August 11, 2025 at 4:55 PM
Hey BlueSky... took a little hiatus, now I am back. Where's my welcome back parade? 😉
August 11, 2025 at 4:50 PM
April 22, 2025 at 5:21 PM
New Substack post “Easter Weekend Rumination”—I no longer fear Satan Bunny!
April 21, 2025 at 8:04 PM
NEW "Easter Weekend Rumination"–I no longer fear Satan Bunny!
Easter Weekend Rumination
I no longer fear Satan Bunny!
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April 21, 2025 at 7:42 PM
The Easter Bonnet Boys made their group debut today. The second photo of us we’re yelling ,”No Piper, NOOOOOO!” #WhiteLotus reference 😃
April 21, 2025 at 12:04 AM
Happy Easter and Passover to all who celebrate! Last night we may have been up to something...
April 20, 2025 at 1:18 PM
NEW post for paid subscribers: “From Pillow Princess To The Wolf Queen"–With Dan, and experimenting with others, my sexual training wheels finally fell off and I have newfound confidence in the bedroom.
April 19, 2025 at 4:57 PM