Randy Scobey
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Randy Scobey
@www.randyscobey.com
I wrote WHY: A Memoir (Foreword by Anne Heche). My story is also a part of the Emmy nominated film, "Pray Away" as well as "For They Know Not What They Do." www.randyscobey.com.
Standing up to and dancing in front of h*moph*bes in public isn’t always the way to go, but last Saturday night was; and doing so was very satisfying. #gay #lgbtq+
August 15, 2025 at 1:54 PM
I am going to do a series of short reels on why some of the most vitriolic anti-gay people at usually closeted gays themselves or hiding really deep and dark sexual secrets. There are a number of reasons that could be at play and I hope the follow up videos will be insightful.
August 14, 2025 at 12:15 AM
Having once promoted/lobbyed for the Christian Nationalist version of marriage I know those arguments backwards and forwards. Now that I have been out for 10 years and married to a dude, I know their arguments are shallow and can be disproved easily.

#Marriage #KimDavis #LibertyCounsel #LoveIsLove
August 13, 2025 at 2:07 PM
MACA: Making America a Criminal Asylum #Orlando #Trump #Chump
August 12, 2025 at 1:42 PM
New Substack post “Easter Weekend Rumination”—I no longer fear Satan Bunny!
April 21, 2025 at 8:04 PM
NEW post for paid subscribers: “From Pillow Princess To The Wolf Queen"–With Dan, and experimenting with others, my sexual training wheels finally fell off and I have newfound confidence in the bedroom.
April 19, 2025 at 4:57 PM
NEW: "You Define Your Journey"–The question of "are you at a crossroads in your life?" in the ex-gay context is so manipulative. It creates unnecessary internal conflict that will hijack our journey toward authenticity.
April 15, 2025 at 11:28 PM
We had a lot of fun at Justin’s birthday! It was country themed if you can’t tell.
April 13, 2025 at 5:08 PM
Reflecting on Autumn's Milestone (18) Birthday! She is going to accomplish a long time goal of singing karaoke at a gay bar. LOL. #bonusdad #funvibes
April 6, 2025 at 3:09 PM
Why Substack Wins: No Ads and No Algorithms
April 5, 2025 at 6:28 PM