Randy Scobey
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Randy Scobey
@www.randyscobey.com
I wrote WHY: A Memoir (Foreword by Anne Heche). My story is also a part of the Emmy nominated film, "Pray Away" as well as "For They Know Not What They Do." www.randyscobey.com.
I’m 57
February 4, 2026 at 9:43 PM
Dan gave me this handsome emerald; my birthstone… thank you and tlove you Dan ❤️
February 2, 2026 at 11:52 PM
Hi Bluesky! I am back. And, Gave Sandy to Cindy for her 85th birthday! Also, our friend Al gave us some sexy t-shirts. Thanks Al!
February 1, 2026 at 9:10 PM
Standing up to and dancing in front of h*moph*bes in public isn’t always the way to go, but last Saturday night was; and doing so was very satisfying. #gay #lgbtq+
August 15, 2025 at 1:54 PM
I am going to do a series of short reels on why some of the most vitriolic anti-gay people at usually closeted gays themselves or hiding really deep and dark sexual secrets. There are a number of reasons that could be at play and I hope the follow up videos will be insightful.
August 14, 2025 at 12:15 AM
Having once promoted/lobbyed for the Christian Nationalist version of marriage I know those arguments backwards and forwards. Now that I have been out for 10 years and married to a dude, I know their arguments are shallow and can be disproved easily.

#Marriage #KimDavis #LibertyCounsel #LoveIsLove
August 13, 2025 at 2:07 PM
MACA: Making America a Criminal Asylum #Orlando #Trump #Chump
August 12, 2025 at 1:42 PM
April 22, 2025 at 5:21 PM
New Substack post “Easter Weekend Rumination”—I no longer fear Satan Bunny!
April 21, 2025 at 8:04 PM
The Easter Bonnet Boys made their group debut today. The second photo of us we’re yelling ,”No Piper, NOOOOOO!” #WhiteLotus reference 😃
April 21, 2025 at 12:04 AM
Happy Easter and Passover to all who celebrate! Last night we may have been up to something...
April 20, 2025 at 1:18 PM
NEW post for paid subscribers: “From Pillow Princess To The Wolf Queen"–With Dan, and experimenting with others, my sexual training wheels finally fell off and I have newfound confidence in the bedroom.
April 19, 2025 at 4:57 PM
Here… you’re welcome.
April 16, 2025 at 8:55 PM
NEW: "You Define Your Journey"–The question of "are you at a crossroads in your life?" in the ex-gay context is so manipulative. It creates unnecessary internal conflict that will hijack our journey toward authenticity.
April 15, 2025 at 11:28 PM
We had a lot of fun at Justin’s birthday! It was country themed if you can’t tell.
April 13, 2025 at 5:08 PM
Yes I am
April 12, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Merry Friday everyone! What a crazy week on all the fronts about everything. lol
April 11, 2025 at 12:48 PM
Sunday Funday celebrating Autumn and singing Karaoke!
April 6, 2025 at 6:38 PM
Reflecting on Autumn's Milestone (18) Birthday! She is going to accomplish a long time goal of singing karaoke at a gay bar. LOL. #bonusdad #funvibes
April 6, 2025 at 3:09 PM
Why Substack Wins: No Ads and No Algorithms
April 5, 2025 at 6:28 PM
"Subscribe" includes both paid and free subscriptions. Paid is of course helpful but most of my content is free. I am getting off of Meta platforms for good this time and want to build community here on Blue Sky and on my Substack. See you there ❤️
April 4, 2025 at 2:29 PM
Come on over and sit a spell...
April 2, 2025 at 5:13 PM
Life will find its way.
April 1, 2025 at 2:16 PM
Last Friday night we had a marvelous time celebrating the launch of Mara Dorne’s BILF (Boss I’d like to follow) podcast. So much fun meeting new people and Mara has a heart of gold. I want to be a BILF!

#BILF #BILFPodcast #Maradorne
April 1, 2025 at 12:33 AM
My new hairstyle up-leveled my bed-head game. lol
March 29, 2025 at 4:38 PM