bex (she/they)
@ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social
🎷 in Joystick, PWRUP, Knifethroat & Mutiny
🔊 professional listener
🍻 occasional beertender
⚡️ cats, cars, coffee, Clumsiest Person In Ska™️
🔊 professional listener
🍻 occasional beertender
⚡️ cats, cars, coffee, Clumsiest Person In Ska™️
Played a killer show last night, got home at 2:30 AM today, swapped my Halloween decorations for Christmas ones (don’t judge me okay???), dragged the Christmas tree up from the basement, and did laundry. Big day for Lil Bex.
December 8, 2025 at 12:15 AM
Played a killer show last night, got home at 2:30 AM today, swapped my Halloween decorations for Christmas ones (don’t judge me okay???), dragged the Christmas tree up from the basement, and did laundry. Big day for Lil Bex.
Current brain mood: Mentos in Diet Coke
WHYYYYYY
WHYYYYYY
December 5, 2025 at 2:21 AM
Current brain mood: Mentos in Diet Coke
WHYYYYYY
WHYYYYYY
I will stop being mean to myself!!!
I will remind myself more often that my body is indeed a thing of beauty despite what diet culture and the patriarchy want me to think!!!
I will stop falling asleep with my rings on!!!
I will remember that I am so loved!!!
I will remind myself more often that my body is indeed a thing of beauty despite what diet culture and the patriarchy want me to think!!!
I will stop falling asleep with my rings on!!!
I will remember that I am so loved!!!
December 3, 2025 at 1:13 AM
I will stop being mean to myself!!!
I will remind myself more often that my body is indeed a thing of beauty despite what diet culture and the patriarchy want me to think!!!
I will stop falling asleep with my rings on!!!
I will remember that I am so loved!!!
I will remind myself more often that my body is indeed a thing of beauty despite what diet culture and the patriarchy want me to think!!!
I will stop falling asleep with my rings on!!!
I will remember that I am so loved!!!
I would simply like to stop being traumatized by my own body over and over and over
November 24, 2025 at 3:07 AM
I would simply like to stop being traumatized by my own body over and over and over
Another attempt at taking care of myself, another finish line ripped away from me just as I’m approaching it.
November 21, 2025 at 7:51 PM
Another attempt at taking care of myself, another finish line ripped away from me just as I’m approaching it.
Today is pre-admission testing day for my surgery on Friday and holy god shit just got REAL!!!
November 18, 2025 at 6:36 PM
Today is pre-admission testing day for my surgery on Friday and holy god shit just got REAL!!!
Woke up from a dead sleep and immediately felt like I was going to cry and throw up. It’s going to be a good week, huh?
November 17, 2025 at 5:20 AM
Woke up from a dead sleep and immediately felt like I was going to cry and throw up. It’s going to be a good week, huh?
When a phone at the doctor’s office has the same ringtone as your work phone…
a black and white dog with a red bow tie is standing in front of a woman in a red dress .
ALT: a black and white dog with a red bow tie is standing in front of a woman in a red dress .
media.tenor.com
November 14, 2025 at 9:21 PM
When a phone at the doctor’s office has the same ringtone as your work phone…
Sometimes love looks like your man helping you get your ring off your finger with dental floss at 1:30 AM because some bozo fell asleep on the couch with it on
(It’s me; I’m some bozo. 😭)
(It’s me; I’m some bozo. 😭)
November 14, 2025 at 6:33 AM
Sometimes love looks like your man helping you get your ring off your finger with dental floss at 1:30 AM because some bozo fell asleep on the couch with it on
(It’s me; I’m some bozo. 😭)
(It’s me; I’m some bozo. 😭)
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New @megainfinity.band song out today! This one is a vibey, hook oriented pop/ska song and it’s very special to us. Second single from LP2!
Thanks @emilywilliamsss.bsky.social , @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social and @darkmaterials.bsky.social for lending their talents to this one 🎷🎹
Li.sten.to/mihc
Thanks @emilywilliamsss.bsky.social , @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social and @darkmaterials.bsky.social for lending their talents to this one 🎷🎹
Li.sten.to/mihc
November 13, 2025 at 8:15 PM
New @megainfinity.band song out today! This one is a vibey, hook oriented pop/ska song and it’s very special to us. Second single from LP2!
Thanks @emilywilliamsss.bsky.social , @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social and @darkmaterials.bsky.social for lending their talents to this one 🎷🎹
Li.sten.to/mihc
Thanks @emilywilliamsss.bsky.social , @ya-grrrl-bex.bsky.social and @darkmaterials.bsky.social for lending their talents to this one 🎷🎹
Li.sten.to/mihc
Get yourself coworkers who say “that shit is like replacing ICs and MOSFETs” to ease your mind about your bisalp surgery
November 13, 2025 at 2:03 AM
Get yourself coworkers who say “that shit is like replacing ICs and MOSFETs” to ease your mind about your bisalp surgery
Who has a pair of Hot Mulligan tickets for Brooklyn that they’re trying to get rid of? 👀
November 6, 2025 at 11:22 PM
Who has a pair of Hot Mulligan tickets for Brooklyn that they’re trying to get rid of? 👀
Tour was fun! Fest was great! Bleeding quarter sized blood clots all weekend sucked! But 11/21 I get to say “bye bye bisalp” and also hopefully get some answers as to why my body wants to k*ll me! I also got a row to myself on the plane this morning! Yay!
October 28, 2025 at 6:21 PM
Tour was fun! Fest was great! Bleeding quarter sized blood clots all weekend sucked! But 11/21 I get to say “bye bye bisalp” and also hopefully get some answers as to why my body wants to k*ll me! I also got a row to myself on the plane this morning! Yay!
Operation “Don’t Let Aunt Flo Ruin My Favorite Weekend Of the Year” is already off to an abysmal start.
If I’m not fully up for socializing this weekend please don’t take it personally, I’m just trying to make sure I don’t pass out 😭🫶🏻
If I’m not fully up for socializing this weekend please don’t take it personally, I’m just trying to make sure I don’t pass out 😭🫶🏻
October 24, 2025 at 7:05 PM
Operation “Don’t Let Aunt Flo Ruin My Favorite Weekend Of the Year” is already off to an abysmal start.
If I’m not fully up for socializing this weekend please don’t take it personally, I’m just trying to make sure I don’t pass out 😭🫶🏻
If I’m not fully up for socializing this weekend please don’t take it personally, I’m just trying to make sure I don’t pass out 😭🫶🏻
New tour achievement unlocked: eat an entire pint of ice cream in the van on your long drive to the next hotel ✅
October 23, 2025 at 5:53 AM
New tour achievement unlocked: eat an entire pint of ice cream in the van on your long drive to the next hotel ✅
Night 1 of tour: we stopped at a Taco Bell that not only didn’t call out my order when it was done but they also gave me beef on EVERYTHING.
I’ve been vegetarian since 2018 so RIP my intestines, my bandmates’ noses, and this van’s interior I guess 🫠
I’ve been vegetarian since 2018 so RIP my intestines, my bandmates’ noses, and this van’s interior I guess 🫠
October 21, 2025 at 1:52 AM
Night 1 of tour: we stopped at a Taco Bell that not only didn’t call out my order when it was done but they also gave me beef on EVERYTHING.
I’ve been vegetarian since 2018 so RIP my intestines, my bandmates’ noses, and this van’s interior I guess 🫠
I’ve been vegetarian since 2018 so RIP my intestines, my bandmates’ noses, and this van’s interior I guess 🫠
My favorite part about touring is how, when I have moments to myself, I get to reflect on how much I deserve this.
Call it cocky, but only if you don’t know how hard I worked to get here.
Call it cocky, but only if you don’t know how hard I worked to get here.
October 20, 2025 at 8:46 PM
My favorite part about touring is how, when I have moments to myself, I get to reflect on how much I deserve this.
Call it cocky, but only if you don’t know how hard I worked to get here.
Call it cocky, but only if you don’t know how hard I worked to get here.
It feels so good to be back in NOLA 😭😭😭
October 20, 2025 at 8:23 PM
It feels so good to be back in NOLA 😭😭😭
LPT: have a candy dish out on your workstation at all times, which seemingly results in less cranky coworkers. 💥
October 9, 2025 at 7:20 PM
LPT: have a candy dish out on your workstation at all times, which seemingly results in less cranky coworkers. 💥
“You don’t look so good today”
Thanks I don’t feel gr8 either
Thanks I don’t feel gr8 either
September 15, 2025 at 4:01 PM
“You don’t look so good today”
Thanks I don’t feel gr8 either
Thanks I don’t feel gr8 either
I guess what I meant to say here instead of sounding privileged is that the trolls will continue to be out in full force- their minds can’t/won’t be changed. Take care of yourself & your community rather than engaging. It’s never worth it.
I don’t know who needs the reminder but spending any amount of mental energy on people who want you dead is exactly what they want. They want to be mental-freeloaders. Don’t let them. Live your life, love your life.
September 12, 2025 at 3:38 PM
I guess what I meant to say here instead of sounding privileged is that the trolls will continue to be out in full force- their minds can’t/won’t be changed. Take care of yourself & your community rather than engaging. It’s never worth it.
I don’t know who needs the reminder but spending any amount of mental energy on people who want you dead is exactly what they want. They want to be mental-freeloaders. Don’t let them. Live your life, love your life.
September 12, 2025 at 3:10 PM
I don’t know who needs the reminder but spending any amount of mental energy on people who want you dead is exactly what they want. They want to be mental-freeloaders. Don’t let them. Live your life, love your life.
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If you don't want people to celebrate when you die, you should try not being a complete asshole while you're alive
August 21, 2025 at 8:35 PM
If you don't want people to celebrate when you die, you should try not being a complete asshole while you're alive
Good news y’all, I may have found what made me ugly!
September 10, 2025 at 4:46 PM
Good news y’all, I may have found what made me ugly!
How it started: How it’s going:
September 10, 2025 at 1:23 AM
How it started: How it’s going: