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Financial abuse, sometimes called economic abuse, is the leading cause of “why she stayed.” Financial abuse is present in 99% of domestic violence cases.
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#financialabuse #economicabuse #iknowwhyshestayed #emotionalabuse #abuseawareness
January 31, 2026 at 11:38 PM
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Today, Lauren is reading a story submitted to us by one of our followers, with their permission. To share your story, visit us on Reddit at r/iknowwhyshestayed, or reach out via DM on this platform.

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January 15, 2026 at 2:57 PM
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"Domestic abuse does not end in the home. Abusers, especially those in positions of authority, often go out into the world and continue to exhibit these behaviors to other women. This isn’t just a personal issue; it’s a community issue. It’s a national issue. It’s a global issue."
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January 11, 2026 at 6:21 PM
iknowwhyshestayed.bsky.social
Boundaries are so important to set in all of your relationships to make sure they remain healthy and flourish. When boundaries are violated, this can be a very strong indicator of abusive relationship.
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#boundaries #boundariesarehealthy #boundariesmatter #iknowwhyshestayed #authorsagainstabuse
December 31, 2025 at 12:46 AM
kjharrowick.bsky.social
I KNOW WHY SHE STAYED memoir & Reader's Guide

Take a journey with two powerful women into the unseen trauma of financial abuse, and how it shaped their lives and their careers.

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December 12, 2025 at 2:04 PM
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We stand by survivors. We see you. We hear you. We believe you.
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#believesurvivors #sexualassault #sexualabuse #domesticabuse
#domesticviolence #childabuse #genderbasedviolence
#iknowwhyshestayed #authorsagainstabuse #artistsagainstabuse #financialabuse
November 15, 2025 at 9:00 PM
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Do you have a story you need to share? Do you want to hear from others who are struggling through a similar situation? Listen to our newest team member, Lauren Clover talk about our newest venture — r/iknowwhyshestayed on Reddit. Join our community there!

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October 18, 2025 at 2:27 PM
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Your phone always knows where you are---but there's no reason for anyone else to. If you are or have been in an abusive relationship, it's not enough to be careful what you post online. Apps can also share your location when you post. Some apps even have mapping software where you can find people in your area, and some of them default to basic settings whenever there's an update. Check your privacy settings regularly and always turn off location sharing. Be safe. Stay safe. . . . . . #privacy #besafe #staysafe #survivor #protectyourself #stopdomesticviolence #toxicrelationship #physicalabuse #iknowwhyshestayed #protectyourprivacyonline #onlineprivacy #standagainstdomesticviolence
August 23, 2025 at 2:45 PM
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Control is abuse. Abuse comes in many forms. Staying informed is essential.
Did You Know? If your partner tries to take control over where you can go, who you can see, what you can wear, and when you can eat and sleep, you are abused. If your partner threatens your well-being by controlling your basic needs such as medical services, food, housing, and access to various methods of communication, you are abused. Abuse can come in many different forms. But nobody should control you to the point where they keep you from doing things you enjoy, and they certainly shouldn’t control your access to your needs. THAT IS ABUSE. And calling it out is essential. #iknowwhyshestayed
August 6, 2025 at 6:01 PM
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This weekend I'll be at the #WriteHive Annual Convention instructing a workshop on "Creating Villains" and speaking with #iknowwhyshestayed on "Writing to Heal."

Get your free tickets and come join the fun. It's an amazing weekend of speakers, workshops, and industry professionals.
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July 9, 2025 at 8:38 PM
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Intimidation is how they force you into situations you don’t want to be in, and it’s one of the ways they insure you stay.
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#abuse #domesticviolence #emotionalabuse #manipulation
#coercivecontrol #abuseawareness #abusesurvivor #domesticabuse
#iknowwhyshestayed #intimidation #ipv
July 5, 2025 at 10:56 PM
iknowwhyshestayed.bsky.social
If you can expect to make less and pay more for health care and other essentials, it can be a barrier to escaping a financially abusive relationship. I know why she stayed, do you?
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#womenshealthcare #financialabuse #genderbasedviolence #iknowwhyshestayed #pinktax #genderwagegap
Did you know? According to a 2023 study conducted by Deloitte, women on average pay almost 18% more for health care over their lifetime compared to men, implying a pink tax on healthcare.
May 14, 2025 at 12:47 PM
iknowwhyshestayed.bsky.social
Happy Mother’s Day to all the Mamas out there, but especially the survivors fighting tooth and nail for the safety of your babies. We see you. We’re with you.
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#happymothersday #manipulation #survivor #toxicrelationship
#familycourt #survivors #dv
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May 11, 2025 at 9:36 PM
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Win a trip to Cancun, whaaat? 👀

Check out this awesome thread by our Director of Operations at #iknowwhyshestayed

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iknowwhyshestayed.bsky.social I Know Why She Stayed @iknowwhyshestayed.bsky.social · Apr 30
Now...how would you like to win a trip to Cancun?

If you were at our event, you know one person already did! We gave away a great raffle prize containing a trip to Cancun, reduced airfare, signed books, our new branded scented candle, and one of our Power Pens.
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May 1, 2025 at 10:05 PM
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Signing books at Studio 9 today! #iknowwhyshestayed
April 27, 2025 at 5:08 PM
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Changing How the Story Ends

LIVE Event
PANEL: When Love Becomes Leverage
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April 26, 2025 at 7:55 PM
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Join us in fighting against abuse.

Where Words Ignite Change

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April 25, 2025 at 7:45 PM
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Authors Against Abuse Silent Auction is now OPEN! In it you can bid on a coaching call from me as well as some other amazing bookish items while also donating to a great cause. @iknowwhyshestayed.bsky.social

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April 23, 2025 at 7:19 PM
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Check out this AMAZING auction for Authors Against Abuse. You can bid on a variety of items including a signed Tracker Sequence duology and swag pack from yours truly.

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April 22, 2025 at 5:32 PM
kjharrowick.bsky.social
Every survivor needs equitable financial autonomy because leaving an abusive relationship shouldn’t be a privilege, it should be a right. We work to ensure every woman has access to the tools, support, and education needed to reclaim her freedom and build an independent life. #iknowwhyshestayed
April 22, 2025 at 1:34 PM
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It has arrived! 🎉

AUTHORS AGAINST ABUSE SILENT AUCTION
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April 22, 2025 at 1:05 PM
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Today is the day! Our silent auction fundraiser opens…now!

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April 22, 2025 at 1:04 PM
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Authors Against Abuse is not just an event—it is a movement. A historic gathering of authors, activists, and thought leaders uniting to combat domestic violence worldwide.

Join us in fighting against abuse.

Where Words Ignite Change

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April 18, 2025 at 6:56 PM
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She is amazing - come meet Kiddada!

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iknowwhyshestayed.bsky.social I Know Why She Stayed @iknowwhyshestayed.bsky.social · Apr 16
Kiddada Asmara Grey has joined us as our new Community Impact Director! Kiddada is an Atlanta-based author, entrepreneur, and consultant who empowers individuals and advocates for social change through her multifaceted work. (1/4)
April 16, 2025 at 5:26 PM
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Your girl is writing again! It’s been a bit. I’ve been busy with @iknowwhyshestayed, @write_hive, freelance editing, and editing my short story collection. I may be working slowly but surely, but I’m back, baby! Here’s a little scene snippet from Reality Check, in VERY fresh first draft mode. 🧵
April 10, 2025 at 5:56 PM