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Leaf
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🔞・32 years old・any pronouns・English/日本語OK ・Ryuu ga Gotoku, Dragon Age, and Resident Evil • リーフって呼んで下さい!32歳・Xジェンダー・龍が如く、ドラゴンエイジ、バイオハザード
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Time to put together a lil goodie bag for your niece~
Unrelated to Halloween, of course 🤫
Definitely reasonable! I would not find it helpful to have to worry about censoring my trauma when discussing it. I can understand why she might have that boundary, but also, if it's something she can't handle then maybe she shouldn't offer services to trauma survivors in the first place.
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getting a lot of mileage out of this panel lately
Update 3: The dude has fleas and worms... And he's had liquid diarrhea all day today 😭
Gonna see if I can find a rescue to help me with medical stuff, cus man, I'm still adjusting to the loss of my cat to long-term medical issues. I can't do this again 😭 Emotionally or financially
He's very baby 🥺 Very needy!! Lol
Update 2: Turns out this little man LOVES being held like a baby 😭 He crawled into my arms, flipped around onto his back, and quickly passed tf out 😭 Had one of those cat naps where his weird inner eyelids were exposed and his body was twitching like crazy lol. Very cute 🥺
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those of you who are afraid of aging, please understand that one of the huge blessings of middle age is arriving at this exact station
We gotta normalize responding to bullshit with "dude who fucking cares"
Update: A new guy showed up in my yard tonight. Extremely friendly and vocal, tried to run into my house. Sooo needless to say, he's currently safe and warm in my basement 🫶 Gonna try to find his owner, or find him a new one. Hopefully not me, but it might end up being me anyway 💀 lmao
I have a friend with very similar facial features as Mia Goth, and I think of her every time I see a movie with Mia in it. Which is funny, because my friend talks about her like "she's so gorgeous omg 😭"...
Girl, she looks like you!! Not even the other way around, she's YOUR lookalike, dude!!
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This bothers me more and more as I get older. It is so normal to change our minds when we encounter new information. Everyone’s so scared of being a little embarrassed at not knowing, but it’s fine and normal to not know everything.
I am frankly sick of all the people who insist “so and so seemed off from the start.”

Stop lying. Sometimes bad people are very charming and likable and you liked them and that’s fine.
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Autumn brings along olive harvest and secret notes from someone you haven't seen in years....

Salamat from Nablus!

#art #digitalart #illustration #inktober
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Imo it's very enriching to be able to make yourself at home with and comfortable with dead animals. Not even in a sense of hunting or butchery, but to be able to appreciate on a hike a dead bird or deer or other carcass and go beyond like, disgust or anxiety, and see it as healthy and natural
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to tht end, it's ESSENTIAL that we untangle sexuality & desire from objectification. things being framed as sexual, sensual, sexy, & desirable is not automatically "the male gaze." the male gaze refers to objectification above all else and the power fantasies of cishet men.
The thing is like if we want to fight back against prudery and sex negativity we also have to stop referring to stuff as 'gooner art' and accept that nsfw shit that reads as 'for the male gaze' has as much a right to exist as your favourite yaoi
Why is there a Save the Green Planet remake.........
I need to see it so I can be a hater properly, but.... 😒
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You'll pry these Oxford commas out of my cold, dead, third thing hands
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Backed by the Heritage Foundation and Big Tech, KOSA will force everyone to upload their ID to access the internet. In an age when Palantir has direct ties to ICE, where technofascists are in power and want to eliminate and censor everything, we CANNOT allow KOSA to pass.

It NEEDS mass pushback.
🚨‼️As of yesterday KOSA is at 64 cosponsors with @vanhollen.senate.gov + @kim.senate.gov - who claim to support LGTBQ+ rights but are clearly okay with supporting legislation that’ll censor us off the internet- newly signed on.

You know what to do: www.stopkosa.com
ALL cats are welcome at my house... even if they aren't strictly cats 🤭
The cat distribution system works a bit too well....
One of my cats dies and suddenly 2-3 strays and an opossum start coming to my house for food on a regular basis lol
But how could I refuse? 😌
Realizing these things about myself has taken me a long time (same with my gender!) but it's brought me so much comfort and validation to realize other people have, and do, experience sexuality in a similar way as me. I'm a weirdo, but it turns out, not quite as weird as I thought! haha
It wasn't until I randomly read through descriptions of all the niche ace labels that I realized asexuality could encompass SO many things, and that I identified with a lot of them! I tend to id as just ace or greyace for brevity, but specifically I most identify with the aegosexual label 🫶
I thought my libido and my appreciation and attraction to people's bodies excluded me from the label, I didn't know or understand what sexual attraction WAS or how it differs from other attraction types. Or that there even WERE other types. And sexual trauma complicates everything on top of that
I was around 30 yrs old when I started identifying as asexual. Anyone who says, "You've just never tried it" doesn't understand how difficult it is to finally arrive to that conclusion after you've spent your adult life having sex
Omg this has happened to me tooooo....
"Oh hey! I know you 🤭"
Met with silence 💀

Just gotta assume they weren't paying full attention to you or something 🥲