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Pew Survey: Only 31% Of Trans People Report Being Accepted By Their Parents

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 1d

If you work with kids in any capacity, this data makes your acceptance even more vital.

Feeling connected to a non-parental adult can significantly mitigate high risk outcomes. Too many trans teens don't make it to adulthood, in part because they don't always have support at home. Be a safe haven.

Erin Reed @erininthemorning.com · 1d

1. In a devastating new Pew Research Survey, only 3 in 10 transgender adults report being accepted by their parents.

And only 1 in 10 say they are accepted by their extended family.

This is the lowest number ever found in surveys asking similar questions.

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The survey comes as transgender people experience a legal assault from the far-right in the United States.

www.erininthemorning.com

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👻madeline boOoOoOodent👻 @oldenoughtosay.com · 1d

the answer to the trolley problem is not to pick who to sacrifice, it’s to dismantle the system that led to an unsafe trolley crossing.

if any part of your morality strategy involves picking a group to let die on a hill, throw the entire strategy out. it’s wrong.

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Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 3d

Community is vital, especially now. So much depends on our willingness to protect and care for each other.

But community is what we make of it and how we enact it. Community can be a force for compassion…or for enforcing conformity and exclusion, as any child on the playground can tell you.

Giving Care More Social Clout

How we understand community and resist the appeal of bullies

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 2d

The whole thread below from @nome.bsky.social is really wonderful and surprisingly hopeful. Airports...who knew?!

It reminded me of the poem Gate A-4 by Naomi Shihab Nye.

Dr. Ayana Elizabeth Johnson on Why the Ocean Is a Very Big Deal | Atmos

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Nono Gigsta @nonogigsta.bsky.social · 4d

"...the future is not yet written. (...) We can choose a path of abundance, of justice, and of regeneration. And to make that future real, we need not only science and policy, but also culture and imagination."

@ayanaeliza.bsky.social for @atmosmag.bsky.social

atmos.earth/climate-solu...

The marine biologist co-hosted Atmos’ Blue Renaissance event during Climate Week NYC. She adapted her remarks for the op-ed below.

atmos.earth

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Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 2d

When I say that whimsy isn't frivolous and that it can actually be a powerful tool in frightening times, a protestor in a frog costume standing up to a row of armed agents is what I mean.

Playfulness can be powerful.

Peter Thal Larsen @petertl.bsky.social · 2d

This photo from Portland by @reuters.com's Carlos Barria 👌

A demonstrator dressed in an inflatable frog costume stands infront of law enforcement officers during a protest outside of the ICE (Immigration and Customs Enforcement) headquarters in south Portland, Oregon, U.S., October 3, 2025. REUTERS/Carlos Barria

Giving Care More Social Clout

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 3d

Community is vital, especially now. So much depends on our willingness to protect and care for each other.

But community is what we make of it and how we enact it. Community can be a force for compassion…or for enforcing conformity and exclusion, as any child on the playground can tell you.

How we understand community and resist the appeal of bullies

writing toward hope in a worried world

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 3d

@erininthemorning.com's thread on the tiny number of families who opt out of LGBTQ+ education for their kids clearly illustrates an essential fact of the "parents' rights movement." It's not really a movement driven by parents.

The vast majority of parents are not represented by these laws.

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Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 3d

Just gonna leave this here...
www.notesonhope.net

Notes on Hope

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 4d

A hopeful little data point. Seems like it's still a pretty popular document!

The power in going big with your most playful impulses

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 4d

Frightening times can make it seem frivolous and inappropriate to seek out whimsy. But, actually, embracing whimsy is most powerful when the world feels dark.

Remember that it was a child, after all, who announced that the emperor had no clothes.

Go big with your most playful instincts.

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 7d

This week I wrote about why being open to whimsy and going big with your most playful impulses is especially important when the world feels dark and scary.

Whimsy reminds us to insist on joy. It connects us to each other. And whimsy made bold and public can even change the course of history.

Have Some Whimsy!

The power in going big with your most playful impulses

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Nikita Gill @nikitagill.bsky.social · 7d

I can’t begin to tell you how damaging “the world isn’t fair, get used to it” line has been to every child’s psyche growing up and therefore has led to a world that stays unfair. If we teach children to get used to an unfair world, we are destroying the possibility of a better world.

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Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 7d

This week I wrote about why being open to whimsy and going big with your most playful impulses is especially important when the world feels dark and scary.

Whimsy reminds us to insist on joy. It connects us to each other. And whimsy made bold and public can even change the course of history.

Have Some Whimsy!

#Jane #Goodall On The Need For Hope #time #news

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 7d

"If you don't hope that there's a way out. If you don't hope that your actions can make a difference, then you sink into apathy and do nothing. So hope is absolutely crucial if we're to get through this."

YouTube video by TIME

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Joshua J. Friedman @joshuajfriedman.com · 9d

Meanwhile, Des Moines students stage a walkout to protest their superintendent's detention www.desmoinesregister.com/picture-gall...

A crowd of teenage students walk on a brick path beneath trees. Some hold signs—one says "ICE MELTS UNDER RESISTANCE."

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Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 9d

Also, this info from Common Sense Media, which is usually pretty measured in its guidance, is important. They advise that social AI companions pose an "unacceptable risk" to kids and teens.

Social AI Companions

Social AI Companions - Learn more and get Common Sense Media's research-backed tips.

www.commonsensemedia.org

We are the song death takes it own time singing

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 9d

I found this piece by @benjaminjriley.bsky.social extremely thoughtful and moving.

In the sweetness, in the bitter

buildcognitiveresonance.substack.com

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mad hippie 🇨🇦🌎✌ @madhippie.bsky.social · 10d

Another worthy read💜

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 11d

I didn't have time to boost last week’s note as much as I meant to, so I'm resurfacing it for the weekend crowd.

It's about our obsession with debate as the be-all and end-all of free speech, why this is often ineffective at best and harmful at worst, and whose voices are silenced as a result.

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 15d

Speech isn’t only valuable in debate. Poetry, painting, and storytelling, comedy and prayer, late night conversations whispered across the dark, the cries of protestors, and the composition of a song all express our freedom. What if we held these forms up with the same reverence we do dueling words?

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Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 9d

Thank you so much for reading and sharing! It means a lot. 💖

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 9d

Oh, wow. You made my day! 🥹💜

We Need to Talk About Children’s Rights

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tmccarthy @teemccarthy.bsky.social · 10d

If you have any type of relationship with a child. If you are a parent, a teacher, a children’s worker in any capacity, this is an absolute must read. It’s so good. I promise you’ll be touched by its beauty. Thank you SO much, Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social , for sharing your insights.💞😎💞

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · Sep 8

As a country, we talk a lot about protecting children. But our record when it comes to children’s rights is…well…terrible.

To truly protect and care for children, we need to get much better at listening to them. And we need an honest reckoning with the dark history of “parents’ rights.”

And about the seductive mirage of parents’ rights

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Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 10d

Thank you so much for reading and for your incredibly kind words! I'm so grateful to know that this note was meaningful to you and deeply appreciative of your sharing it with others. It was an especially important one to me. 💖

Look for those who need somewhere to rest

Alicia Stoller @aliciastoller.bsky.social · 10d

Wrote about these gentle visitors (plus a hummingbird) a few weeks ago.

When the World Rages