📝 Chronic illness, cults & capitalism = my anti-hero origin story.
I write for complicated humans navigating care & power 🌱 Loudly alive in the gray areas
They called it godly. I call it gendered control.
They called it godly. I call it gendered control.
Let them be messy detectives, chaotic villains, bored baristas & terrible exes.
Let them be messy detectives, chaotic villains, bored baristas & terrible exes.
Call it out in the home and it shape-shifts into “I’m just traditional.”
Call it out at work and it becomes “culture fit.”
Sexism survives by rebranding itself as preference, personality, or “just how things are.”
Call it out in the home and it shape-shifts into “I’m just traditional.”
Call it out at work and it becomes “culture fit.”
Sexism survives by rebranding itself as preference, personality, or “just how things are.”
Her job is to soothe without question. To soften power’s edges while leaving the structure intact. ✨💖
“We can’t all come and go by bubble” is Elphaba’s reminder: some of us don’t get the choice of soft landings.
Her job is to soothe without question. To soften power’s edges while leaving the structure intact. ✨💖
“We can’t all come and go by bubble” is Elphaba’s reminder: some of us don’t get the choice of soft landings.
“Per disability law, I am requesting reasonable accommodations.”
(not: “I’m so sorry to ask but do you think you could possibly…?”)
“Per disability law, I am requesting reasonable accommodations.”
(not: “I’m so sorry to ask but do you think you could possibly…?”)
Intake forms, screening calls, then nothing. We can use our last scraps of energy as disabled people to ask for help, only to be ignored.
Intake forms, screening calls, then nothing. We can use our last scraps of energy as disabled people to ask for help, only to be ignored.
There’s no “let me call my lawyer cousin” moment. It’s just you, your disability, the “we’re unable to move forward at this time” email & the rent still due.
There’s no “let me call my lawyer cousin” moment. It’s just you, your disability, the “we’re unable to move forward at this time” email & the rent still due.
I'm uncomfortable naming patriarchy as the system that actually needs dismantling.
I'm uncomfortable naming patriarchy as the system that actually needs dismantling.
“Today we stand in a moment that will decide whether our government belongs to the American people, or to those who prey on them.”
“Today we stand in a moment that will decide whether our government belongs to the American people, or to those who prey on them.”
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Today, they gave up on the cuts. Democrats will continue to stand united against Trump’s Project 2025 agenda.
Today, they gave up on the cuts. Democrats will continue to stand united against Trump’s Project 2025 agenda.
My nervous system doesn’t communicate in a linear timeline.
I have to hold space for the feelings & memories.
the looping,
the resurfacing,
the refusal to settle,
until someone dares to witness it differently.
My nervous system doesn’t communicate in a linear timeline.
I have to hold space for the feelings & memories.
the looping,
the resurfacing,
the refusal to settle,
until someone dares to witness it differently.
Disability marriage equality matters, too! 💜
Disability marriage equality matters, too! 💜
I hate certain histories.
I love this land.
I fear these people.
I AM these people.
And somehow I’m still rooting for us to do better.
I hate certain histories.
I love this land.
I fear these people.
I AM these people.
And somehow I’m still rooting for us to do better.
I grieve how survival eats the hours I intended for art.
I grieve how survival eats the hours I intended for art.
A woman raised an issue of gendered violence & the response was to lob a gendered insult. Misogyny as smokescreen.
A woman raised an issue of gendered violence & the response was to lob a gendered insult. Misogyny as smokescreen.
The fight against gender oppression & the fight for the planet are the same fight, because they share the same enemy: systems built on domination, extraction, and disposability.
The fight against gender oppression & the fight for the planet are the same fight, because they share the same enemy: systems built on domination, extraction, and disposability.