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Black Aces Group

@blackacesgroup.bsky.social

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We're a group of black aces, aros, and spectrumites looking for each other in this mad mad allo world. Ask about the Black Aces discord. <3

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Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · Jan 17

We're live, here and queer, black and proud! Send us all your cake. 🍰

Black Aces Group is a group for Black asexuals, aromantics, and aspecs to find each other and connect in this small corner of an already small world. Come join us!

a woman in a costume is holding a megaphone in her hand in a black and white photo .

Alt: A singer in a black and white costume is holding a megaphone in their hand on a stage with a backdrop that flashes purple.

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Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · 8h

1. Yes, this is a @theyasminbenoit.bsky.social stan account.

2. Noctis sat down with Yasmin to discuss fashion, asexuality, and the haters.

noctismag.com/fashion/yasm...

#blackaces #blackace #blackasexual #blackaromantics #asexuality #asexual #aroace #acearo #aromantic #aceweek

Yasmin Benoit on Fashion, Asexual Activism and Controversy

Yasmin Benoit discusses her fashion inspirations, her relationship with alternative aesthetics and culture, and the intersections where ideas about fashion and asexuality overlap.

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AsexualElfGal @myancestorsaidme.bsky.social · 1d

I look at it like this, white people have made it so that that black sexuality has no nuance and no humanity. I want to change that and make an essay on that.

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Gays Of Bluesky @gaysof.bsky.social · 2d

DEPLOYING THE NATIONAL GUARD AGAINST CIVILIANS IS A FAILURE OF LEADERSHIP. COMMUNITIES NEED HOUSING, HEALTH CARE AND LOVE, NOT SOLDIERS IN THE STREETS. INVEST IN PEOPLE OVER POLICING AND MILITARIZATION. ✊🌈⚧️

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AsexualElfGal @myancestorsaidme.bsky.social · 2d

If you can support, please help. And if you can't, just share if you can. Thank you.

#mutualaid #blackmutualaid #disabled #welfare

My Paypal is : @ziowl16

(If you want my Cashapp just give a heads up, I have loans to pay so if you send it through there they might take the money )

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AsexualElfGal @myancestorsaidme.bsky.social · 2d

So I didn't know if I wanted to really do this but I am disabled. I am on SNAP. The government has announced that we will most likely not have coverage for November. If possible I would love to have some mutual aid to cover me if possible. I don't need much maybe like $100 to cover food costs.

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Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · 2d

#asexuality #aroace #acearo #aromantic

To kickoff #AceWeek, @theyasminbenoit.bsky.social met with @avenofficial.bsky.social founder, David Jay, to celebrate the 25th Anniversary of Helaven for the Human Amoeba, the oldest online Ace community! Watch the Playback here!

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Mark your calenders! This Saturday at 6pm BST, I'm going to be joining AVEN founder and OG Ace activist David Jay for a YouTube livestream! Along with taking...

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Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · 3d

Let's Gooooo!!!

next jen | bluesky era @leikeliscomet.bsky.social · 4d

Happy (Black) Ace Week 2025! 🖤💜

I'm gonna be hosting a special Ace Week for my Black ace server and we're gonna be doing prompts + activities all week. The link will be available temporarily until Sat 25th. Black asexuals only. If you're interested, DM me & come and join us!

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Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · 4d

Thanks! I'll check it out soon!

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AVEN @avenofficial.bsky.social · 10d

But we encourage everyone to join in, whether or not you can donate. Another way to help is to spread the word.

The livestream will take place via YouTube.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqx5...

How Aces Win: Reflecting on Key Victories in the Ace Movement

YouTube video by AVEN Livestreams

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AVEN @avenofficial.bsky.social · 10d

We’ll also be using the occasion to raise money to secure AVEN’s future for the next 2 years and allow important upgrades to our software: see our fundraiser.

www.gofundme.com/f/aven-needs...

Donate to Help keep AVEN running for the next two years!, organized by AVEN Project Team

For almost 25 years, AVEN has been working to help ace and aro people… AVEN Project Team needs your support for Help keep AVEN running for the next two years!

www.gofundme.com

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AVEN @avenofficial.bsky.social · 10d

This year we are planning to hold a livestream on Sat 18 Oct to mark the occasion, and the start of Ace Week, and to reflect 25 years of Ace Activism. The livestream is entitled How Aces Win, and will feature AVEN Board members Yasmin Benoit and David Jay among others.

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AVEN @avenofficial.bsky.social · 10d

This year is the 25th anniversary of Haven for the Human Amoeba, the first major online forum for the discussion of asexuality, which preceded AVEN.

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Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · 11d

Let's normalize QPRs without making sideshow-style articles about it.

The Washington Post @washingtonpost.com · 12d

Samantha Wynn Greenstone knows her husband is gay. Yet they’ve been in a committed monogamous relationship for nearly 10 years.

They’re not alone. A new crop of couples are openly speaking about their mixed-orientation marriages, divorced from sexual attraction but not love. https://wapo.st/4nQtDmk

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Adrian C. Jackson @adriancjax.blacksky.app · 29d

Do y’all ever stop to think what your circle of friends/close peers consist of professionally?

In my circle, there’s:

-Myself & a friend, Computer Scientists
-Two Lawyers
-A University Professor
-A Technical Program Manager
-A Marketing Specialist
-A Branding Specialist
-A Media Host
-A Mixologist

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Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · 29d

Not the gaslighting!!

Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · 29d

I absolutely hate that for you, and I'm angry that others have been told this!

Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · 29d

And why does it matter to them THAT much!?

Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · Sep 23

What is the most toxic allosexual thing that's ever been said to you?

My older sister told me staying a virgin as a teenager was virtuous but in my 20s was just pathetic. 🫠

#blackaces #blackace #blackasexual #blackaromantics #asexuality #asexual #aroace #acearo #aromantic

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Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · Sep 3

Sounds like a good time!

No Functional Purpose @nfpmidwest.bsky.social · Sep 3

Drinking Strawberitas in the dark to Carly Rae Jepsen's E•MO•TION

Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · Sep 2

Yes!! Just standing outside on a clear night and looking up at the moon or Orion!? I'm in Heaven.

Atreyu @atreyume.bsky.social · Sep 2

There's something that just *hits* about being outside alone in the dead of night, watching the stars and listening to punk or metal music. Shows with existential themes do this to me too *coughSeverancecough*

Black Aces Group @blackacesgroup.bsky.social · Sep 2