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blkgaze.bsky.social
@blkgaze.bsky.social
26, NYC
Fat, Black, and Gay as hell
Just like I expected…ass
November 26, 2025 at 8:50 PM
It’s weird. I don’t know what/how I feel about it but being someone who learns, knows, and is interested in kink but does nothing kinky makes me feel uncertain.
November 26, 2025 at 11:21 AM
I think I finally found someone I think is attractive.
November 26, 2025 at 6:42 AM
Please wash that winter coat! Get it dry cleaned.

Especially if you smoke. We can smell it and smells like the 3rd or 4th winter you’ve had it while smoking grabba
November 26, 2025 at 2:54 AM
Green flags for my relationships (platonic and romantic):

- Willingly play Scrabble with me. Extra points if they never played before

- Likes to dance at parties, clubs, or just by themselves

- can disagree with me and not be upset

- will go on 5-10 minutes tangents when explaining themselves
November 26, 2025 at 2:52 AM
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or “I’m open” like bitch, PLEASE gtf off my phone or put *some* effort into this exhausting courtship before I lose interest—
November 26, 2025 at 12:42 AM
This sewing shit is so expensive.
I’m getting why fashion is so expensive (partially)

But also why small business designers are so expensive.

The time! The time it takes to make a garment is crazy
November 26, 2025 at 1:54 AM
I need to go to the fashion district for fabric and notions, house practice, and then the sex shop.

The day is long
November 25, 2025 at 8:21 PM
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what be happening in the homes for yall to require a tv every year
November 25, 2025 at 2:17 PM
I thought I making these shorts with a tear away in the center of my ass would be easy and simple alteration. But this shit ain’t workin 😩
November 25, 2025 at 3:11 PM
This the kind flirting older men do to me. I really don’t like older men but I still fall for it.
this is a masterclass in flirting.

niggas should take notes from Karlous.
November 25, 2025 at 12:46 PM
The actual construction of sewing a garment is eh

Cutting out all these pieces/patterns, pinning, creating hems…
the worst.

Pressing seams? I live for it.
I feel so fab.
November 25, 2025 at 11:24 AM
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Y'all want so much from people and you file it under "if they wanted..."

Don't you want them? So let yourself want them. Let them notice. Rejection sucks and vulnerability is scary but then at least you'll know.

If you find that you're always initiating, it IS game playing to test ppl like that.
November 25, 2025 at 10:54 AM
What are some Thanksgiving playlist essentials?

I’m co-hosting a thanksgiving potluck and I’m not cooking. My only offering is this playlist so it needs to be fire.

My audience is poc gays and queers ages 23-33 from various states of the USA.

Anyone who isn’t white, please respond.
November 25, 2025 at 9:41 AM
So I’m entering a Gogo competition this Friday along with walking a ball the next week after that and I’ve decided to make all of my clothes and affects by hand.
I bought my sewing machine 2 weeks ago and have spent more months and time than if I just bought the clothes or paid a designer…
November 25, 2025 at 8:20 AM
There is nothing that makes me feel more greedy/gluttonous than reaching for food I forgot I already ate
November 24, 2025 at 4:13 AM
Chappell Roan is so sad…but I love how she gets to the core feelings of situationships and how they make us feel.
November 24, 2025 at 12:19 AM
I just don’t know if I can really do NSA with an ex.

If we hook up I’ll be like Beyoncé in All Night “Oh how missed you my love😌”

I’m gonna want it ALL back
August 5, 2025 at 3:36 PM
If I pay for Sniffies will the spam bots stop?!

It’s getting ridiculous
July 1, 2025 at 3:58 PM
Damn. I got fired today.

I’ll be okay, I’m more upset that I need to look for a another job now
July 1, 2025 at 1:15 AM
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I love being black & queer. I don’t hear a lot of us saying this and I know we face challenges everyday on this earth from the neglect of strangers, politics, sometimes family and friends, but when you look at our culture, being BLACK & QUEER is such a beautiful thing.

We are beautiful 🥹🖤🫶🏿
June 29, 2025 at 7:14 AM
Why am I having tinder conversation on sniffies?
June 28, 2025 at 3:30 AM
I don’t like uncut but I feel like a lover of mine will be uncut.

I’ll think he’s so sexy and the way my sub brain is set up, It’ll be hotter that he has me hypnotized into loving something I normally dislike.

I’d melt.
June 28, 2025 at 1:15 AM
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The Wiz (1978) is a PRIDE movie. Dorothy? Closet lesbian 30 years old still living at home because she grew up in a strict Pentecostal household that suppressed her sexuality. That’s why she’s homely and a shot out homebody. Oz introduces her to queer life, and she gains three gay besties.
June 27, 2025 at 7:01 PM
If you meet a man at a sex party, can they be considered for dating?
June 26, 2025 at 6:12 PM