deer (cardi step on me pls)
@feraldeer.bsky.social
deer | 30 | they+ | 🔞
2025 concerts: ghost (7/11, 7/18, 7/19), mcr (7/26, 7/27), AFI (10/18), Warped Orlando
2026: ghost (1/24)
2025 concerts: ghost (7/11, 7/18, 7/19), mcr (7/26, 7/27), AFI (10/18), Warped Orlando
2026: ghost (1/24)
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for all my faults, i can never say that i am not loved or wanted
i am loved dearly and wanted ferociously and i deserve to have that in my life and i am so lucky to be able to hold that in my heart
i am loved dearly and wanted ferociously and i deserve to have that in my life and i am so lucky to be able to hold that in my heart
i think it's just really easy to see a problem and feel like if you don't personally fix it then you're the reason it's still happening
i forget exactly what that other post said but it was something like "empathy without boundaries is self destruction" and i agree w/ that
i forget exactly what that other post said but it was something like "empathy without boundaries is self destruction" and i agree w/ that
it's ok to acknowledge suffering without taking it on as your own
you're not a bad person for not trying to fix other people's problems
it's ok to need to focus on yourself first
you can be empathetic without being self-destructive
you're not a bad person for not trying to fix other people's problems
it's ok to need to focus on yourself first
you can be empathetic without being self-destructive
November 27, 2025 at 2:47 AM
i think it's just really easy to see a problem and feel like if you don't personally fix it then you're the reason it's still happening
i forget exactly what that other post said but it was something like "empathy without boundaries is self destruction" and i agree w/ that
i forget exactly what that other post said but it was something like "empathy without boundaries is self destruction" and i agree w/ that
after hearing some really good points i no longer think the emeritus family is italian
i have fully bought into the transylvanian emeritus propaganda
i have fully bought into the transylvanian emeritus propaganda
November 27, 2025 at 2:39 AM
after hearing some really good points i no longer think the emeritus family is italian
i have fully bought into the transylvanian emeritus propaganda
i have fully bought into the transylvanian emeritus propaganda
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You just know Peppermint Patty grew up to run a gay bar like the navy
November 27, 2025 at 12:59 AM
You just know Peppermint Patty grew up to run a gay bar like the navy
me fightinf with fairy lights is not the vibe
November 27, 2025 at 2:24 AM
me fightinf with fairy lights is not the vibe
if my cat doesn't like the changes i made to my room i am going to have words for her
November 27, 2025 at 1:55 AM
if my cat doesn't like the changes i made to my room i am going to have words for her
what a fucking glowup
November 27, 2025 at 1:52 AM
what a fucking glowup
GOD i need rebecca black on vinyl tho
let her burn is such a good album
let her burn is such a good album
November 27, 2025 at 1:51 AM
GOD i need rebecca black on vinyl tho
let her burn is such a good album
let her burn is such a good album
almost done getting set up for comfy...
November 27, 2025 at 1:47 AM
almost done getting set up for comfy...
You've just died.
The 6th photo in your gallery is what killed you.
oh no
The 6th photo in your gallery is what killed you.
oh no
November 27, 2025 at 1:03 AM
You've just died.
The 6th photo in your gallery is what killed you.
oh no
The 6th photo in your gallery is what killed you.
oh no
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I’m going to be very mean for a second here; if you can’t bother to have preferences, I’m not sure the human experience is for you
November 27, 2025 at 12:18 AM
I’m going to be very mean for a second here; if you can’t bother to have preferences, I’m not sure the human experience is for you
ok getting comfy then doing some cleaning then doing some reading and writing bc friends have sent me works they've written and i need to read them
November 27, 2025 at 12:08 AM
ok getting comfy then doing some cleaning then doing some reading and writing bc friends have sent me works they've written and i need to read them
it's ok to acknowledge suffering without taking it on as your own
you're not a bad person for not trying to fix other people's problems
it's ok to need to focus on yourself first
you can be empathetic without being self-destructive
you're not a bad person for not trying to fix other people's problems
it's ok to need to focus on yourself first
you can be empathetic without being self-destructive
November 26, 2025 at 11:58 PM
it's ok to acknowledge suffering without taking it on as your own
you're not a bad person for not trying to fix other people's problems
it's ok to need to focus on yourself first
you can be empathetic without being self-destructive
you're not a bad person for not trying to fix other people's problems
it's ok to need to focus on yourself first
you can be empathetic without being self-destructive
oh ok so archive reader was obliterated bc they tried to charge real money if you wanted to read for over an hour
yeah ok makes sense
yeah ok makes sense
fine i am reinstalling the unofficial ao3 app
November 26, 2025 at 11:35 PM
oh ok so archive reader was obliterated bc they tried to charge real money if you wanted to read for over an hour
yeah ok makes sense
yeah ok makes sense
fine i am reinstalling the unofficial ao3 app
November 26, 2025 at 11:27 PM
fine i am reinstalling the unofficial ao3 app
problem: i enjoy making physical objects with my own two hands for friends but i think it would be strange to ask my faraway friends for their mailing addresses
solution: kidnapping
solution: kidnapping
November 26, 2025 at 11:12 PM
problem: i enjoy making physical objects with my own two hands for friends but i think it would be strange to ask my faraway friends for their mailing addresses
solution: kidnapping
solution: kidnapping
getting into needle felting specifically so i can make a tiny versiion of my cat out of all the fur scraps she drops bc im a crazy person ❤️
November 26, 2025 at 11:05 PM
getting into needle felting specifically so i can make a tiny versiion of my cat out of all the fur scraps she drops bc im a crazy person ❤️
my cat is being extra snuggly lately 💜
November 26, 2025 at 10:56 PM
my cat is being extra snuggly lately 💜
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another hard pill to swallow is maybe if people keep cutting you off.... perhaps you have to look inward and reflect on why that might be!!!!
November 26, 2025 at 8:16 PM
another hard pill to swallow is maybe if people keep cutting you off.... perhaps you have to look inward and reflect on why that might be!!!!
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a hard pill to swallow is accepting that not everyone is going to fw you. even if you haven't wronged them. there are always going to be people that just don't like you. it sucks but it's true. the sooner u accept this and focus on the ppl you care about the sooner you will find peace
November 26, 2025 at 8:14 PM
a hard pill to swallow is accepting that not everyone is going to fw you. even if you haven't wronged them. there are always going to be people that just don't like you. it sucks but it's true. the sooner u accept this and focus on the ppl you care about the sooner you will find peace
the. slenderman stabber. has escaped???
granted, from a group home, but. still.
?????
granted, from a group home, but. still.
?????
November 26, 2025 at 9:48 PM
the. slenderman stabber. has escaped???
granted, from a group home, but. still.
?????
granted, from a group home, but. still.
?????
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🔔 give it up for more sad Artamir art! 🔥 🔔
[ #DnDArt | #OC | #OCSky | #Genasi | #ElfEnjoyers (he used to be an elf and those are his old hands!) ]
[ #DnDArt | #OC | #OCSky | #Genasi | #ElfEnjoyers (he used to be an elf and those are his old hands!) ]
November 26, 2025 at 9:14 PM
🔔 give it up for more sad Artamir art! 🔥 🔔
[ #DnDArt | #OC | #OCSky | #Genasi | #ElfEnjoyers (he used to be an elf and those are his old hands!) ]
[ #DnDArt | #OC | #OCSky | #Genasi | #ElfEnjoyers (he used to be an elf and those are his old hands!) ]
jules is one of my absolute favorite ghost oc's in the whole world
short king. tragic prince of the night. bloodsucker. sweetiepie. i love you and copia together sm and would like an invite to the wedding.
short king. tragic prince of the night. bloodsucker. sweetiepie. i love you and copia together sm and would like an invite to the wedding.
Birthday gift to myself I got back 😎 it's not really rp related so I'm posting it here instead of on Jules' rp acc, BUT LOOK
Art by @/ Mardyart on insta
Art by @/ Mardyart on insta
November 26, 2025 at 9:31 PM
jules is one of my absolute favorite ghost oc's in the whole world
short king. tragic prince of the night. bloodsucker. sweetiepie. i love you and copia together sm and would like an invite to the wedding.
short king. tragic prince of the night. bloodsucker. sweetiepie. i love you and copia together sm and would like an invite to the wedding.
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November 26, 2025 at 9:17 PM
ok no more of that hullabaloo
time to make coffee
at 2pm
time to make coffee
at 2pm
November 26, 2025 at 8:19 PM
ok no more of that hullabaloo
time to make coffee
at 2pm
time to make coffee
at 2pm