DeAnn
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DeAnn
@gardenlobster.bsky.social
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I love my favorite person (FP), my family, my dog, trans rights, repro justice, and hazelnut coffee. Oh, and video games! she/her GM bsky! 🌞
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TLDR: Heads up I'm going to talk about pursuing plastic surgery after major intentional weight loss more often here. Hope that's ok.
Service Doms are spicy accountability buddies
My sister, FP's stepsister, and my crush's partner all share a name and it doesn't nickname at all. That doesn't have potential for confusion at all...
I joke but ive been doing this the past 36hrs and the headache I do have is easily manageable
Now that I can predict most of my migraines, I can work to mitigate them: water, eat on time, enough caffeine but not too much, Tylenol, darkness, cool room temp, avoiding headsets when I can, avoiding things that raise my blood pressure/heart rate, and I think I'm supposed to do something w/salt
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never do business with family. or friends. or acquaintances or strangers. just lie still in a dewy glade until the screeching of locusts drives unto you the foretold ecstasies.
Sorry I liked your Facebook post a week after you posted it. That's when Facebook showed it to me
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absolute workhorse of a reaction image from over 100 years ago
Now that I can predict most of my migraines, I can work to mitigate them: water, eat on time, enough caffeine but not too much, Tylenol, darkness, cool room temp, avoiding headsets when I can, avoiding things that raise my blood pressure/heart rate, and I think I'm supposed to do something w/salt
Our mail carrier is not always on the ball. They either forgot to leave us a key to the parcel locker, or left it in the wrong mailbox and some neighbor is about to get a shitton of edibles
I needed today. I needed a win.
The bad brain juice is still being an asshole, but I now have some definitive proof it's full of shit. Crush does like me, the new EX is just about on farm, and after vacation I start Savage prog.
Our regular Sunday night raids were a ton of fun and I won some music I've been after.
Knowing when you're not ready for something is just as important as going after it when you are
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Good morning Tokyo. This little purple butterfly would like you to have as decently ok a day as possible.
Second hard thing done and I earned a morale point!
I hate the nonsense of beating around the bush. Cards on the table, pick a direction and speed. That's how I roll. And I appreciate people with the same mindset.
Friends who can flirt but not like *that* so it's a good place.
Turned into a DTR, which was not a bad thing
I've sorted something in my head that's been bothering me all week. I finally have words for it, but it's going to involve an uncomfy conversation with my crush. I don't want to lose a source of joy and hope in these times, but if I don't speak up I'm guaranteed to lose it.
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I (and perhaps you) get confused because we think intellect has to be connected with wisdom or thoughtfulness, but it just doesn’t. Intelligence is values-neutral and amplifies whatever it is pointed at.
"Please forget your scarf in my life and come back later for it."
Chickened out tonight. I need more time to wordsmith & bounce things off FP. But tomorrow is my last shot for a couple of weeks and I don't want to let it sit over vacation
a person on a rope in the middle of a canyon with awesome written in the corner
ALT: a person on a rope in the middle of a canyon with awesome written in the corner
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