Kira
@grandfla.bsky.social
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Disney. Theme Parks. Musical Theatre. Gay trans stuff. (she/her) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
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grandfla.bsky.social
The thing about Mamdani really is that like I don’t necessarily think all his ideas are brilliant or the right solution but they are A solution and he has new ideas AT ALL and actual energy
grandfla.bsky.social
Oh shit I think I know where this is! Shot a tv show in there once, way off the beaten path if it’s what I’m thinking of.
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slavagreenberg.bsky.social
A show to be missed and important background history to be read and share:
juliaserano.bsky.social
apparently the new Netflix show Monster: The Ed Gein Story invented an "autogynephilia" backstory for their serial killer (because of course they did!). so time to re-up my collection of writings on this pseudoscientific zombie theory...
juliaserano.medium.com/autogynephil...
Autogynephilia, Junk Science, and Pseudoscience
plus links to my academic articles, online essays, and explainers on the topic
juliaserano.medium.com
grandfla.bsky.social
It is forced detransition and inhumane. Imagine a teenage girl, then you start forcibly injecting her with large doses of testosterone halfway through puberty without her consent, trying to make her into a man, with no recourse It’s literally body horror. It’s fucking cruel.
grandfla.bsky.social
In light of that story from the uk, reminder that the gay and trans panic defense (killing a trans person after discovering they’re trans) is still legal in most of the U.S.

It’s not a cute phrase, it’s literally a way people get away with murder.
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michaelhobbes.bsky.social
People should not go to jail because of one guy’s skill issue
Ithe man said he felt robbed of his "manhood" after finding out that Watkin, who he connected with on Snapchat, was transgender with male genitalia. In a police interview played in court, the victim sard: "All the way throughout she made out she was fully a girl." He said the pair had been drinking and chatting, before deciding to go into the bedroom "which is when everything happened"
grandfla.bsky.social
It’s so inspiring to see someone give a shit and have ideas.
zohrankmamdani.bsky.social
UNTIL IT’S DONE, Ep. 4: Sylvia Rivera

In the 1970s, queer New Yorkers had been pushed to the margins of NYC. Our trans neighbors faced immense cruelty. But in Sylvia Rivera, they found a champion.

As we combat Trump’s politics of darkness, her legacy can light the path forward.
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michaelhobbes.bsky.social
This takes awhile to get going but it’s worth watching the whole thing
grandfla.bsky.social
Idk literally everything has turned into a casino
grandfla.bsky.social
Idk my hot take is the wisdom of how to run a business in a sane sustainable way or intentionally make a good product has been completely lost in favor of of the approach of chaotic strip mining, be the last sucker standing.
grandfla.bsky.social
This is the thing that drives me nuts about most modern hot tech. It’s not that the things are completely useless, but the applications are so much more narrower than the bubble approach of shoving it into everything, massive growth with no plan, and damn the consequences.
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erininthemorning.com
1. In a devastating new Pew Research Survey, only 3 in 10 transgender adults report being accepted by their parents.

And only 1 in 10 say they are accepted by their extended family.

This is the lowest number ever found in surveys asking similar questions.

Subscribe to support our journalism.
Pew Survey: Only 31% Of Trans People Report Being Accepted By Their Parents
The survey comes as transgender people experience a legal assault from the far-right in the United States.
www.erininthemorning.com
grandfla.bsky.social
Affirming just means the therapist actually lets you explore your thoughts and doesn’t tell you immediately you’re wrong. They’re willing to actually consider the possibility you might be trans and walk with you and help you explore what that means and what YOUR thoughts actually are.
grandfla.bsky.social
I feel like people really don’t understand what actual therapy looks like when you’re dealing with gender and that it’s probably a lot closer to what they think “gender exploratory therapy” is.
grandfla.bsky.social
Look if even if it was possible to resolve trans identity with your gender assigned at birth (which it absolutely isn’t) it would only be doable with real therapy that was affirming of your own reality, not fucking conversion therapy nonsense
grandfla.bsky.social
And music theory aural transcription has them all beat. The fact that people can listen to four part harmony for a short song two times max and transcribe all the individual parts note for note is just incredible. And that’s like undergrad level, phds in music are superhuman.
grandfla.bsky.social
Anecdotally, learning advanced math for computer science I hadn’t been exposed to in high school, taking a law course, and my community college film grip and electric class all required equal amounts of rigorous study and practice.
grandfla.bsky.social
Saw a post denigrating non-stem majors as not having any level of difficulty compared to stem and listen I’m sure that stuff can get very very hard but have you ever tried drawing ANYthing or done a music theory aural exam?
grandfla.bsky.social
No shit Sherlock, bears don’t exist in the winter either.
grandfla.bsky.social
Like AI is being shoved into everything. It’s impossible to do a google search without also querying their LLM or scroll an app without seeing an AI summary. -this is regardless of if it’s good or if someone wants to use it. Industry has decided this is how things will work - so much for free market
grandfla.bsky.social
I feel like there’s some parallels with the spread of AI technology and like how public transit and car centric life took over America, or American fast food for that matter. It’s a profound reflection of how big infrastructure things end up dictating how we live our lives.
grandfla.bsky.social
I’ve lived in apartments and all my friends largely have to ever since moving out of my parents house - none of them have doorbells and sometimes I forget they exist.
grandfla.bsky.social
I’m curious what event will be the thing to tip the outrage to critical mass. Like I don’t really want to find out but I think it seems we’re well on our way there.
grandfla.bsky.social
Being undocumented isn’t even a crime but they’re treating these people like they’re 2 seconds away from doing 9/11. Fucking disgusting pigs cosplaying as soldiers from a bad movie.