InquisitiveElle
@inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
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Negotiation, Consent, ENM, Service, Education, and Personal Growth Enthusiast. Staff member of @serviceorientedcon.bsky.social and facilitator for the Service Chats. 18+ he/him
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This month’s Service Chat features a discussion on the topic of Service As A Means, Not an End - Offering Service When It’s Not Its Own Reward. Join us to talk about providing or receiving service when our motivations aren’t service-oriented.

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🤘Service Oriented Conference extends its sincere gratitude to Pride Interpreting LLC and their ASL interpreters! Their dedication to fostering accessibility is truly invaluable, and their presence at SOC is always a joy. ❣️
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❣️ Service Oriented Conference extends its sincere gratitude to Kink on the Scene for designing this years conference pin.

❣️ We are grateful for your artistry and professionalism!
📸: Soon-to-be Owner Melissa kneels in front of her vending table with the Kink on the Scene logo banner hanging behind her. The logo has red and white lettering on a black background with the hashtag #ConsensuallyKinky to describe the Enamel Pins. Melissa is wearing rainbow suspenders and holding a rainbow and white fan that says “Proud as Fuck” denoting just how proud she is to be a Queer and Kinky individual.
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One of my most popular workshops is coming up tomorrow! If you've ever wondered about how to navigate kink, non-monogamy, or queer communities after a breakup, this is the workshop for you! www.eventbrite.ca/e/its-a-smal...
It’s A Small World: Navigating Sexuality Community Spaces Post-Break-Up
Workshop for folks who are navigating shared community spaces with former partners.
www.eventbrite.ca
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❣️Service Oriented Conference expresses sincere gratitude to our 2025 presenters, panelists, and keynote speakers for their dedication to service through sharing their knowledge and experience.
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Join SOC with Master Sir Tee & little kitsune on October 25th & 26th for Feeding and Nurturing a Dynamic Through Service. This 2 day intensive is an exploration of strategies to help understand accessing opportunities & benefits of service.
🎟️ serviceconference.org/intensives/feeding-dynamic-service
I recently learned about the musical “Operation Mincemeat.” Among other things, their description of background cast members as having, “duties of many guises,” is thoroughly endearing.
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Trans Rights are Human Rights. 🏳️‍⚧️
The kitty's right. Smart Pompom. 🐈
My friend had a baby recently and shared a Wordle to reveal the baby’s name. Turns out I’m fairly bad with Wordles, and I was almost stumped. But it was a lovely idea and a cute name for the kiddo.
I teared up and/or cried an embarrassing number of times yesterday at @serviceorientedcon.bsky.social. The words of many presenters struck home for me. What’s more, I think this year I was able to be present and be a part of the conference more than I have before. I’m so grateful for that.
Though the registrations were large,
And the attendance was small,
The ones in the rooms
Were meant to be there, all in all.

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It’s so nice to have a working garage door now. Plus it looks neat!
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Friendly Reminder! Registration for Service Oriented Conference 2025 closes on Saturday at 9am ET!

Please join us on October 4, 2025 for a day of service-based education and discussion. Follow this link to register today! www.serviceconference.org/register
I’m out of decaf coffee. I guess I’ll need a different placebo to get me to 10pm!
Leave it to the Universe to coordinate my garage door replacement on the same week of the conference I’m producing XD
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Friendly Reminder! Registration for Service Oriented Conference 2025 closes on Saturday at 9am ET! Please join us on October 4, 2025 for a day of service-based education and discussion. Follow this link to register today! serviceconference.org/register
Friendly Reminder! Registration for Service Oriented Conference 2025 is open! The Service Oriented Conference is a one-day virtual conference aimed at all things service. SOC is for service providers, service receivers, those curious, those interested, and everyone in between! Please join us on October 4, 2025 for a day of service-based education and discussion. Follow this link to access our registration page!
I look forward to the honor of introducing both the opening and closing speakers this year! I hope I’ll be able to attend a few more sessions besides!
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🌟 SOC is excited to share Dare Campbell (They/Them) will be joining us this year as the Panel Host for When Service Pays The Bills: Earning Income In Communities We Serve!

Head over to www.serviceconference.org to check out the full schedule and to register today!
White, nonbinary bald person with black glass, a t-shirt, and jean jacket. T-shirt reads "Trans rights are human rights."
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The organizers of the UN event for healthy indoor air used a canary on all their materials and gave everyone canary pins.

Why? Canaries detect dangerous substances in the air of coal mines. We all need to be like canaries and warn about the dangers of unhealthy indoor air due to COVID and climate.
canary pins on the lapel of a suit
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🌟 SOC is excited to share Patience Darling (she/her) will be joining us this year as she presents Kink Organizing 201: I’ve Been Looking For That! Or That’s Where That’s Been!

Head over to serviceconference.org to check out the full schedule and to register today!
Patience Darling smiles at the camera.  She has auburn hair and is wearing dark rimmed glasses, a leather vest, and a gray felt rancher's hat.
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Next at Stockroom University: @planetmidori.bsky.social  does a presentation on D/s relationships — and how to proceed once you've decided that this is what you want. This Saturday. 

https://f.mtr.cool/kpbrnqwltz
A portrait shot of sex educator Midori looking at the camera. Beneath is the Stockroom University Logo Text: "So, you want to D/s. Now what? Instructor: Midori"
Stressed with less sleep than usual. Full day of work ahead both for the job I get paid for and the one I don’t. Also topping someone tonight who wants bruises by the end.

Spare a thought for me.