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inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
InquisitiveElle
@inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
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Negotiation, Consent, ENM, Service, Education, and Personal Growth Enthusiast. Staff member of @serviceorientedcon.bsky.social and facilitator for the Service Chats. 18+ he/him
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ohjoysextoy.bsky.social
What could be better than kicking your feet back and playing some games with the bros? How about if the bro being used like a coffee table was getting off to it! @hiencomics.com.au cleans house with this sexy story about being human furniture.
www.ohjoysextoy.com/pleasure-fur...
Pleasure Furniture by Hien Pham published December 2, 2025 on https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/pleasure-furniture-hien-pham The comic is illustrated in a more realistically rendered soft pencil-lined style, using the full spectrum of colors. The first three panels are closer-in shots, featuring elements of one man at a time without revealing the rest. "Argh!" Grunts Cole as he furiously mashes his thumbs against the buttons on his game controller. He is a brown-skinned short king with cropped fuzzy black hair, thick eyebrows and a mustache with neatly trimmed chin hairs. There is a cartoon bear on his tank top that he's paired with his tan-colored cargo shorts. Beeping noises fill up the background behind him and he stares intently at the viewer, biting his tongue in concentration and flushing while he whales on the controller. "I'm in last place! Let me get ahead!" Next to Colt, Ben's lightly peach-toned bare feet crossed at the ankles and propped up at footstool height on the back of Doug, another man with lightly brown skin and soft black body hair. He wears only a red Shibari rope tied around his waist and between his butt cheeks. A TV remote also rests on his back, next to the propped-up feet. "A head?" Taunts Ben. "Oo-la-la~" "Oh, hush!" Colt retorts with the background game beeps continuing without pause. "Nngh..." Moans the hairy back of Doug. "The RING's really pranking me this game!" Another voice exclaims as the panel reveals Doug's face. His eyes are covered with a blindfold and beads of sweat roll down his face and shoulders in his bent-over position. He has a septum ring piercing, a beard tuft on his chin, and the sides of his head are shaved leaving a soft, short mohawk down the middle. His cheeks, nose, and throat glow with a rosy flush. Two dishes of snacks are barely visible resting over his shoulder area. "..." He says, holding his composure. At last the view pulls back to reveal three sturdy, hairy men sharing a cozy teal couch with cute throw pillows in a nice living room. To one side are shelves of organized house things and possibly a record collection. Stylish, simplistic artwork hans on the wall behind them, with a medium-sized potted Monstera plant sitting on the other side of the couch. A cute plush, green footstool has been pushed to the side to make room for Doug to serve as the gamers' coffee table on his hands and knees. We can now see that in addition to the red ropes around his waist, they also wrap expertly around his upper thighs and connect to his ankles. What's not yet visible is that the waist ropes stretch down between his legs, tying up his cock and balls in a Shibari cock ring. An automated voice announces, "Player 2 wins!" "Good job guys." Cheers Al, a slightly older man with silver hair and beard on the couch. Over his muscular build, he wears glasses, a red, striped loose tank top, blue jeans, and red/black socks. Ben cheers "Yay!", pumping his fists in the air triumphantly. His unbuttoned short-sleeved shirt parts over his hairy chest and tummy from his celebratory movement. He is blonde with a grown-out wavy haircut and a thick beard that's longer than short and shorter than medium-length. He wears orange shorts. His feet unintentionally jostle the dishes of snacks resting on the back of the table man, as well as knocking over the remote control from his back. "Noooo!!!!" Wails Colt, curling into defeat in the corner of the couch. Read the rest on OhJoySexToy.com
December 2, 2025 at 6:00 PM
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ghaspey.bsky.social
DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS
mikestabile.bsky.social Mike Stabile @mikestabile.bsky.social · 1d
Congress is attempting to fast track KOSA and more than a dozen bills that would restrict internet access, censor speech and increase surveillance under the guise of protecting children.

Committee hearings begin tomorrow.
Lawmakers to consider 19 bills for childproofing the internet
KOSA is back, along with more than a dozen other bills that will erode free speech and privacy in the name of protecting kids.
reason.com
December 2, 2025 at 2:42 AM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
Things that make me groan:

An intro to submission class, explicitly stating all genders and orientations are welcome, where one of the learning objectives is, “Embracing your feminine energy.”

(Please may we stop with the submission is inherently feminine notion? Please? Maybe?)
November 30, 2025 at 7:15 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
Coming up in just one week!
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social InquisitiveElle @inquisitiveelle.bsky.social · 10d
I look forward to helping out with a weekend of virtual consent education hosted by the Orlando Pocketwatch Society in December! Come join us for part or all of the cool classes and panels lined up.

Event Tickets: www.eventbrite.com/e/consent-we...
Consent Weekend
Multimple classes on consent, from a diverse group of presenters, coming from different kink and mental health perspectives. All levels.
www.eventbrite.com
November 30, 2025 at 2:27 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
I never imagined a power imbalanced relationship would inspire deep thought about so many things. Like running, fuzzy pants, and gorgonzola cheese..
November 28, 2025 at 6:13 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
Has Fall Out Boy covered “Your Idol,” from K-Pop Demon Hunters yet? I’d even take a mashup of “Your Idol” and “Centuries.” Their vibes are so similar!
November 25, 2025 at 7:42 PM
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karenho.bsky.social
I do not drink because I have almost no tolerance for it anymore (one margarita is too much).

If you are hosting a party, I recommend also stocking:
-fancy ginger beer
-coconut water
-premium juices like lychee and guava
-apple cider with cinnamon
-Italian sodas
-sparkling water

Lots of options!
November 24, 2025 at 4:01 AM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
I look forward to helping out with a weekend of virtual consent education hosted by the Orlando Pocketwatch Society in December! Come join us for part or all of the cool classes and panels lined up.

Event Tickets: www.eventbrite.com/e/consent-we...
Consent Weekend
Multimple classes on consent, from a diverse group of presenters, coming from different kink and mental health perspectives. All levels.
www.eventbrite.com
November 23, 2025 at 6:11 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
“Oh sorry, I was tied up with something!”

*grins*
bubblegumsundae.bsky.social Bubblegum Sundae @bubblegumsundae.bsky.social · Jun 2
Coworker asked me why I was taking so long to reply to her on Snapchat. What's a casual way to tell someone I was chained up in a giant dog kennel licking someone's feet?
November 22, 2025 at 9:38 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
Though this week could have been worse, it has certainly not been my week.
November 21, 2025 at 4:57 PM
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kodamagrey.bsky.social
Today is transgender day of remembrance, so remember to love the trans people in your life because you never know when you might lose them 💚

#tdor
November 20, 2025 at 6:22 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
I look forward to sharing my experiences and learning from yours through, “Imposter Syndrome, The Scene, and Me,” this Saturday! It will be the last time I share this class for the year.

More details here: fetlife.com/events/1862190
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November 19, 2025 at 6:50 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
Not me tearing up while listening to “Nobody’s Side” from Chess.

#hyperindependentproblems
November 17, 2025 at 7:51 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
The fine print on those lifestyle D/s advertisements didn’t say anything about being ordered to make uncomfortable phone calls to 800 number businesses! XD /j
November 14, 2025 at 7:04 PM
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omisspearl.bsky.social
Researching who wrote various BDSM guides, because you never want to announce 'it is quite good' and find out you recommended a noted missing stair.
November 13, 2025 at 8:15 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
There’s a complex relief in learning someone I know has unfriended me on social media. I don’t take it as a friendship breakup; by the time this happens, especially without an accompanying conversation, the relationship has mostly faded anyway.
November 13, 2025 at 4:57 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
This month’s Service Chat features a discussion-based class on Service and Self-Care! Join us this Saturday as we learn about self care for and while serving a human, event, or community.

Details here: fetlife.com/events/1908342
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November 12, 2025 at 9:05 PM
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breelundberg.com
I know we all have a lot of other things to worry about right now but this is your PSA to get the latest covid booster & flu shot if you haven't already. It takes a couple weeks to build immunity and holidays will be here soon. (Stickers from my shop! shop.breelundberg.com/product/get-...)
Photo of a hand holing a round bright yellow sticker with a cute illustrated white bunny looking determined showing off their arm with a bandaid on it. Below bunny it says "get vaccinated!" in bold pink lettering.
November 11, 2025 at 5:46 PM
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chuckwendig.bsky.social
The full report on this alleged food crime, now posted at ye olde blogge:
In Which I Eat The Food Crime Known As Kraft Apple Pie Mac & Cheese
You may have heard the news — and if not, you may have felt it in your bones, a paroxysm of worry squirming in your marrow like worms — that Kraft put out an apple pie mac and cheese. A…
terribleminds.com
November 9, 2025 at 5:56 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
I’m noticing a trend among people who meet/know me and (unintentionally or intentionally) misgender me. They tend to be (usually cisgender) men who find me attractive or women who relate to the experiences I share.

It’s tiring some days.
November 10, 2025 at 1:11 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
Do you have ideas or education you’d like to share on kink/BDSM and mental health or neurodivergence? Consider putting in an application to present at the THRIVE virtual conference happening May 29-31, 2026!

Presenter and panelist applications close December 14th: forms.gle/kR9xHiNgHtmj...
November 6, 2025 at 5:26 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
I am looking for education (classes, podcasts, writings, etc.) on chastity for persons with vulvas. Any places you could point me to?
November 3, 2025 at 6:38 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
Another gripe brought to you by the work I get paid for:

Please do not use unreadable fancy font in your email signature! While it may look swirly and fun, function over form is particularly useful here. If I cannot read the font with your email address in it, I cannot reach out to you!
October 30, 2025 at 3:12 PM
inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
Some days, I look at a service assignment from Sir and think, “Oh fuck no that’s it I quit.”

Then I breathe, and do it anyway, one small section at a time.
October 28, 2025 at 9:48 PM
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planetoffinks.bsky.social
"what's the worst candy" I'll stop you there. I'm an adult. I'm not ranking candy. If I want something sweet, I simply eat a tiny and elegant éclair like a grown man.
October 27, 2025 at 6:29 PM