✨Giver of Problems✨
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jforjae.bsky.social
✨Giver of Problems✨
@jforjae.bsky.social
A super spicy Haitian Pisces who minds her business and whines her waist. 🇭🇹

God still working on me….like a lot.

📍NJ/PHL/NYC
📟 An 86’ baby
Pinned
I want everyone to get serious about their joy.

What brings you joy.
Who brings you joy.
Cultivating your joy.
The upkeep of your joy.

Get deadass about it. The clocks ticking. Months flying by like gyal in an Altima tryna get to happy hour. Take control of what makes you happy.
😭😭😭😭
November 26, 2025 at 12:45 AM
Will come back to see responses later.
Who yall wanna see get together finally?
November 26, 2025 at 12:29 AM
My son is home for the Thanksgiving break.

They really don’t explain the feeling of having your kids back under the same roof when one doesn’t live home. I didn’t realize how much i missed him and his terrorizing ways.

I now know how my parents feel now when all my siblings are home.
November 25, 2025 at 10:31 PM
Need em.

I LOVE air rifts.
November 25, 2025 at 9:02 PM
Omg.

They planning a retirement party next week???
At work doing retirement calculations.

I am so done at age 62.5.
November 25, 2025 at 6:42 PM
I just had a gluten free banana bread
November 25, 2025 at 4:44 PM
Sundays
2. What is your favorite day of the week?
November 25, 2025 at 4:05 PM
I took mine to them when they were younger.

But my younger nieces and nephew will never see them. These are tech kids now.
Y’all realize these kids have never really experienced a real toy store? No KB Toys, no Geoffrey bucks, no (full sized) FAO Schwarz.
November 25, 2025 at 12:30 PM
Yes!

I tell ppl all the time that motivation is nonexistent when outside is 16° at 3:20a.

It’s pure discipline.
You gotta have a different level of discipline to workout early mornings during the cold months
November 25, 2025 at 11:35 AM
Get a room. Ya freaks
November 25, 2025 at 12:25 AM
Always.

I know all their names. I know about their kids. I make sure i look out for them. When we have parties i make sure i put things in the fridge for them with a note. I ask if they need anything.

They take care of us. I take care of them.
When y'all see janitors and housekeepers cleaning spaces you utilize, extend gratitude. A little "thank you" goes a long way.
November 25, 2025 at 12:18 AM
Well yes.

We all have holes.
Oh yall is talking bout HUNCHIN, I can’t relate as I am #Holy
November 25, 2025 at 12:14 AM
I’m making all the sides and crab stuffed salmon.

And then my daughter is among biscoff tres leches and corn pudding.
What’s gonna be yall contribution to Thanksgiving this year though
November 25, 2025 at 12:13 AM
You got to.

That’s what keeps it fun.
Own your nasty.
November 25, 2025 at 12:12 AM
You need to be smited.
Wait… Do The Shorts have stand up meetings?
November 25, 2025 at 12:08 AM
What if you went to the gates of Heaven and the Angels played a video compilation of you getting knocked down and saying Big G name…..in vain!
November 25, 2025 at 12:00 AM
Everytime.

Reparations.
Self checkout discount

Whatever you wanna call it. Just know…..
November 24, 2025 at 11:58 PM
And now they arguing about who taking me to their house. 😭
Make it so that Satan be like, "Hell naw dawg! This your problem."
I need a night so nasty that God take his pencil and scratch me off the heavens list.
November 24, 2025 at 11:57 PM
10/10 recommend.
One of my sex bucket list items is sex in front of a mirror, or with the mirror that’s on the ceiling 😮‍💨
November 24, 2025 at 11:45 PM
Him not being able to catch it. 🤲🏽
What’s the best thing about back shots?
November 24, 2025 at 11:44 PM
I would also suggest getting in a little movement on Friday and Saturday as well.

It’s very easy to skip the whole weekend and start over Monday. Move your body.
Thanksgiving week is such an easy time to skip Monday/Tuesday workouts but don’t do it! Get a good sweat in today/tomorrow and you’ll thank your past self on Friday.
November 24, 2025 at 11:33 PM
I need a night so nasty that God take his pencil and scratch me off the heavens list.
November 24, 2025 at 11:32 PM
My mom won’t go to to the stores with me around thanksgiving because a few years ago…i smacked a girl in the canned goods aisle. So now she says “all yuh bullish” and Thanksgiving brings out the worst of ppl.

Mind you the girl was being rude to my her.

God forbid i protect my mom. 🙄
November 24, 2025 at 7:09 PM
I’m very big on compartmentalizing mine. It’s usually known that i have no interest in them being more than a good time.

I’m always shocked when they start acting wild.
My situations have always been fun. Until they got annoying. But I never went in thinking they were gonna be more than that. Which is why I get so surprised when they do lol.
November 24, 2025 at 6:16 PM
Some might be fine.

I’ll be there to counsel/support after the licks been hit.
November 24, 2025 at 6:06 PM